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      Abiding Together
      Abiding Together
      Providing a place of connection, rest and encouragement for women who are on the journey of living out their passion and purpose in Jesus Christ.
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        1S17 E8 - Cultivating PeaceIn this episode, we reflect on what it means to cultivate peace–as a fruit that grows from communion with God. The cultivation of peace is not something we control. It comes from learning to rest in God's presence, even amid life's storms. We talk practically about how to tend the soil of our hearts, so that peace can take root and grow into a fruit that becomes a visible witness to others. We also discuss how Jesus, the Prince of Peace, invites us to make room for His presence, allowing His breath to bring healing where fear and sin have disrupted our peace. Heather's One Thing - Triumph of the Heart is now streaming! Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healed by Love: Contemplation as a Path of Healing according to St. John of the Cross by Daniel Chowning, OCD Michelle's One Thing - Feast: A Men's Devotional for Advent by Paul George Journal Questions: - What places of my heart are filled with anxiety or despair? - Where am I seeking to be fixed instead of seeking communion with the Lord? - What sins am I justifying that are robbing me of peace? - What lies am I trying to talk myself into? - Who or what are you trying to fix in your life that you need to surrender to the Lord? Discussion Questions: - How are you trying to control your life and heart rather than cultivating? - What things motivate you to operate out of fear or mistrust? - How can you internally cultivate peace? - How can you externally cultivate peace? Quote to Ponder: Let nothing disturb you, Let nothing frighten you, All things are passing away: God never changes. Patience obtains all things Whoever has God lacks nothing; God alone suffices. (St. Teresa of Avila) Scripture for Lectio: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7) Sponsor - BeeStill Design: BeeStill Design is a handcrafted Catholic jewelry and art brand founded by Louisiana artist and entrepreneur Holly Klock. A wife and mom of three, Holly has built BeeStill from a small creative outlet into a growing brand known for pieces that are both beautiful and meaningful. Her collections feature heirloom-quality jewelry, pressed flowers, and custom intaglios, along with enamel work and ornaments. From the very beginning, she has sought to bring the joy and beauty of our faith into each creation—always with the same vision: to design timeless pieces that tell stories of faith, love, and family. Whether you are looking for a piece of jewelry to be a daily reminder of God or would like to find a meaningful gift for someone in your life, head over to beestilldesign.com and use the code abidingtogether for 20% off your order. Chapters: 00:00 BeeStill Design 01:08 Intro 01:59 Welcome 04:11 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:31 Planting Peace in the Soil of Our Hearts 08:34 Cultivating vs Controlling 11:08 Fertilizing the Soil Around Us 13:56 The Breath of Peace 16:25 When We Feel Afraid 18:51 Communion Brings Healing 21:23 Wanting Peace for Those Around Us 23:26 Sin Disrupts Our Peace 27:52 Practical Tips for Cultivating Peace 32:55 Prayer 34:49 One Things
        Abiding Together40 min
        2S17 E7 - Staying Grounded When Storms ComeIn this episode, we talk about what it means to weather the storms of life well. Everyone experiences difficult moments throughout their lives and these storms come in all shapes and sizes. In each one, we have the opportunity to respond from a place of truth and peace instead of fear. We share practical ways we’ve learned to weather the storms in our own lives, from simplifying life to immersing ourselves in Scripture. We also explore how pain, though difficult, can lead us into deeper healing and communion with God. No matter what you’re facing, you are not alone—He is near, and so are we. Heather’s One Thing - Strengthen Yourself in the Lord by Bill Johnson Heather’s Other One Thing - Same God (feat Jonsal Barriente) from Elevation Worship Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Pints with Aquinas | What to Do When Marriage Gets Hard (Jason and Crystalina Evert) Michelle’s One Thing - Healed and Restored Nonprofit Other Resources Mentioned: - Carmelite Sisters of The Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles - Searching for and Maintaining Peace book study - Be Transformed book study Journal Questions: - How have I been making decisions out of fear and overwhelm? - What do I believe about God, myself, or another person within the context of my storm? - When do I feel the most emotionally dysregulated? - What coping mechanisms am I turning to instead of going to the Lord? - What good is God doing within me in my suffering? Discussion Questions: - What storms are you experiencing in this season? - When has the Lord revealed His Presence to you from within a storm? - Are you relying on the Lord or on yourself in the midst of your storm? - What fruit has been born from suffering in your life? Quotes to Ponder: “Remain in me. This is the word of Jesus. It is not only a call but a promise of strength, peace, and fruitfulness.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) “Let us live with Him as with a friend. Through all the storms, He remains.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) Scripture for Lectio: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10) Sponsor - Our Holy Home: Let your Christmas card say what matters most This year, send a card that reflects your faith and the true meaning of the season. Our Holy Home’s custom Catholic Christmas cards make it easy to share the joy of Christ’s birth beautifully and intentionally. Choose from over 30 designs, add your family photo and message, and get 25% off just for being here. Start designing now: OurHolyHome.com/at Chapters: 00:00 Our Holy Home 01:16 Intro 02:06 Welcome 04:33 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 08:12 How the Enemy Tries to Amplify Storms 09:45 Slowing Down is Essential 12:08 When Prayer Becomes Dry 14:23 Turmoil Can Feel Like Its Our Fault 16:43 Remembering God’s Faithfulness 18:37 Pain Causes Us to Make A Change 20:48 Distractions Will Never Fulfil Us 22:44 Maturing is A Decision We Make 24:15 Weathering Storms In Community 26:54 Spiritual Practices 28:55 One Things
        Abiding Together34 min
        3S17 E6 - Return to the Heart with Dr. Shane OwensIn this episode, Dr. Shane Owens, a scholar of St. Augustine, joins us to discuss the power of memory. Together, we explore how memory is a place to where we withdraw to understand our identity, shape our whole self, and begin to see God working in our lives. Memory exists for the purpose of hope and we not only talk about how the Scriptures and Eucharist bear the memories of the Church, but also how our sorrowful memories can become sources of hope. Heather’s One Thing - Pope Leo XIV: Son of St. Augustine (A conversation with Fr. Dave Pivonka and Dr. Shane Owens) Heather’s Other One Thing - Franciscan University’s Festival of Praise Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Archdiocese of Sydney, Australia Michelle’s One Thing - Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine’s Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens Michelle’s Other One Thing - Heaven for Me! by St. Thérèse of Lisieux Dr. Shane Owens’ One Thing - Bible Across America from the St. Paul Center Journal Questions: - Am I savoring or swallowing the gifts God has given me? - What core memories of my life have been rewritten by God? - What sorrowful mysteries of my life feel too complicated to ponder? - Where in your memory do you need to ask Jesus where He was present in it? Discussion Questions: - How can you hone your spiritual palate to be present to the good that God is doing in your life? - When have you experienced the living power of memories? - How have your memories been a source of hope? - How are you being invited to slow down and ponder? Quote to Ponder: “The heart is the dwelling-place where I am, where I live; according to the Semitic or Biblical expression, the heart is the place "to which I withdraw." The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant.” (CCC 2563) Scripture for Lectio: “But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19) Sponsor - Hallow: Get 3 months free of Hallow at hallow.com/abide and enjoy over 10,000 audioguided prayers, meditations, and music. Hallow can help you find peace, build a daily habit of prayer, and grow closer to God. Chapters: 00:00 Hallow 01:00 Intro 01:50 Welcome 05:35 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 07:07 Who is St. Augustine? 09:30 What Inspired this Book? 11:18 Entering into Our Memories 13:20 How We Write Our Own Stories 15:34 Scripture and the Eucharist Help Us Understand Our Own Story 17:37 Chewing the Cud 20:47 Wondering vs Pondering 24:30 Hope in Our Sorrowful Mysteries 30:30 Finding Jesus in Painful Memories 38:59 Setting Aside Time to Hope 43:46 One Things
        Abiding Together53 min
        4S17 E5 - The Ministry of PresenceIn this episode, we talk about what it means to bring God’s Presence into our relationships with others. Through His life, Jesus shows us how to live at the pace of the Holy Spirit and create space for authentic connection. We explore how easy it is to overlook the significance of ordinary moments and how, through slowing the pace of our lives, we have powerful opportunities to love, listen, and become more attuned to those around us. We also discuss the importance of healthy boundaries, the freedom that comes from not needing to fix others, and how it’s God’s love that shapes how we show up for the people in our lives. Heather’s One Thing - This Wild at Heart Podcast series with Jon Tyson (Part 1) (Part 2) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Lila Rose Show with Msgr Rossetti Michelle’s One Thing - Raise a Hallelujah by Bethel Music, Jonathan Helser, and Melissa Helser Journal Questions: - How can I show up for people in my life in this season? - How do I need others to show up for me? - In what ways do I lose myself when entering into the suffering of others? - Do I need to create a boundary in any of my relationships? Discussion Questions: - What margin do you need to create for yourself so you can be more present? - What is your biggest obstacle to being present to your loved ones? - How can you prioritize being present to Christ and what He’s doing in you? - What would it look like for you to give from a place of security? Quote to Ponder: “More and more, the desire grows in me simply to walk around, greet people, enter their homes, sit on their doorsteps, play ball, throw water, and be known as someone who wants to live with them. It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn’t be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them.” (Henri Nouwen, Gracias: A Latin American Journal) Scripture for Lectio: “O Lord, thou hast searched me and known me!” (Psalm 139:1) Sponsor - Camp Wojtyla: Are you looking for a transformative experience for your middle school or high school student? Camp Wojtyla helps young people fall more in love with Jesus Christ and His Church through epic adventures in the Colorado mountains, awesome community, and huge fun. Camp Wojtyla helps kids learn they are stronger than they thought, and that God is bigger than they could ever have imagined. Camp Wojtyla is nestled in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado on a beautiful, 1200-acre wilderness property, and offers fourteen different single gender programs, giving campers a unique opportunity to LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL! We have a God of adventure. He has a story and a plan for each of us. Camp Wojtyla teaches about God and the Catholic Church through authentic and life-changing adventures in creation. In a culture that inundates us with noise, unplugged time on the mountain helps us understand who God is and who He has made us to be. While at Camp Wojtyla, campers experience expertly designed and sequenced programming that helps them understand that they are called to sainthood...and how they can achieve it! Our carefully selected, and highly trained team of staff and counselors are joyful and faithful role models who can’t wait to help give your camper their best summer ever! Come check us out at www.camp-w.com. We can’t wait to offer you or your child a transformative adventure! The lottery for 2026 programming is open now through October 26th. Sign up today for a chance to experience Life to the Full at Camp Wojtyla this summer! SIGN UP FOR NEWSLETTER INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK ONLINE TRADING POST STORE Chapters: (00:00) Camp Wojtyla (01:40) Intro (02:30) Welcome (04:39) Guiding Quote (07:06) Being Present in the Everyday (08:48) The Gift of Another’s Presence (10:05) Contemplating Others as A Mystery to Be Revealed (12:18) The Gift of Presence is an Artform (14:51) Balancing Presence for You and Others (16:34) What Does Accompiment Look Like? (18:44) Having Boundaries (21:24) Fearing Being Present (23:37) Receiving from God First (26:07) One Things
        Abiding Together31 min
        5S17 E4 - Hope in HumanityIn this episode, we explore the gift of tears and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We reflect on our experiences with crying and talk about how tears, especially in painful moments, can be a powerful expression of surrender, lament, and hope when offered to God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, our sensitivity and capacity to cry reflect the way we were beautifully created to respond to what breaks God's heart. We discuss the vulnerability of crying, the pain of resisting it, and how Jesus crying out on the cross reveals the value of our own cries. Whether you're too tired to cry, afraid to show need, or already feel safe expressing emotion, we invite you to see crying as an act of worship and intercession. In our sorrow, God meets us with love, truth, and the hope that He can actually do something with our pain. Heather’s One Thing - Spirit Breathe by Sarah Kroger and Echo Harbor Worship Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Beloved Son by Carrie Daunt Michelle’s One Thing - Her new back porch! Other Resources Mentioned: - Pope Leo XIV’s General Audience of September 10, 2025 - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Journal Questions: - When was the last time I cried? - What would it look like for me to cry well? - Where has my heart been repressed? - Where do I need to cry out? Discussion Questions: - How did Pope Leo’s words change your perspective on crying? - How are you tempted to give in to cynicism? - In what ways are you self-reliant in this season of life? - How can you be an empathetic witness to someone crying out in their life? Quote to Ponder: “Finally, she asks God to give her a gift of tears to draw his mercy down upon the world, and especially upon his church.  In one of her visions, Catherine records having been told by God: “If you open your mind’s eye you will see that the Holy Spirit weeps in the person of every one of my servants who offers me the fragrance of holy desire and constant humble prayer.” (St. Catherine of Sienna, The Dialogue Study Edition) “We are accustomed to thinking of crying out as something disorderly, to be repressed. The Gospel confers an immense value to our cry, reminding us that it can be an invocation, a protest, a desire, a surrender. It can even be the extreme form of prayer, when there are no words left. In that cry, Jesus gave all that he had left: all his love, all his hope.” (General Audience, September 10, 2025, Pope Leo XIV) Scripture for Lectio: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Psalm 22:1) Sponsor - Beata Home: This episode is sponsored by Beata Home, a boutique-style print shop founded by Katie, a wife and mom of four. The word Beata is derived from the Latin word for “blessed,” and that is her hope, that each piece will be a blessing to homes and families. Born out of the conviction that beauty has the power to evangelize, Beata Home makes it easy for Catholic families to surround themselves with art that reflects their faith and lifts hearts and minds to God. Beata Home offers something for every family and every budget: - Digital downloads for instant access and affordable printing - Fine art prints in sizes from 8x10 up to 30x40 inches - Ready-to-hang framed artwork in seven different frame styles Artwork is printed on museum-quality paper with archival inks, ensuring beauty that lasts for generations. Whether it’s a small image for a prayer corner or a statement piece for your living room, Beata Home makes it simple to bring beauty and faith into your everyday spaces. The heart of Beata Home is sacred art, but the collection also includes carefully chosen vintage artwork because all beauty points to the Creator. Visit beatahome.com to explore the growing collection, and as a gift for Abiding Together listeners, use the code ABIDING10 for 10% off your first purchase. Support a Catholic family business and bring beauty into your domestic church with Beata Home! Chapters: 00:00 Beata Home 01:14 Intro 02:04 Welcome 03:58 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 05:11 The Pain of Resisting Tears 06:58 Crying Out is Vulnerable 08:50 Tears are a Gift 11:45 A Remedy for Self Reliance 13:23 What Happens When We Stop Crying Out 15:25 Crying with Others 17:53 Being Needy vs Having Needs 20:41 Sometimes All We Can Do is Cry 22:54 God Speaks to You Though Tears 24:30 Slowing Down 26:37 Crying as an Intercession 28:46 One Things
        Abiding Together33 min
        6S17 E3 - The Spirit Awakens HopeIn this episode, we talk about how God is at work in our lives even when sorrow feels overwhelming. This Jubilee year of hope is still a light for us, especially when we feel stuck, overwhelmed, or tempted to despair. We talk about the “fatigue of living”, what happens when we isolate ourselves, and why the micromovements of our hearts are so important. God has not guaranteed us an easy life, but He abundantly offers us Himself. With Him, we can encounter Jesus deeply, allow the Spirit to help us overcome our fears, and journey through this life with more hope than we thought possible. Heather’s One Thing - Join me on a pilgrimage to Denmark & Norway | August 3 - 12, 2026 Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Into Your Hands, Father: Abandoning Ourselves to the God Who Loves Us by Father Wilfrid Stinissen Michelle’s One Thing - I Will Come to You: A Story of Adoption and the Relentless Love of God by Jamie McAleer Other Resources Mentioned: - Pope Leo XIV’s Homily for Pentecost Journal Questions: - When did I last pour my heart out to the Lord? - How have I been tempted to isolate myself? - What distractions do I turn to in suffering? - What heartbreaks have I been holding back from the Lord in prayer? - Where am I feeling afraid? Discussion Questions: - Where in your life are you struggling to see the Lord? - How has the Lord given you daily bread today? - What lessons have you learned throughout the Jubilee Year of Hope? - Where in your life are you waiting for a personal Pentecost? - What resonated with you in Sister Miriam’s prayer? Quote to Ponder: “The Holy Spirit bestows understanding. The Spirit overcomes the ‘breach’ that began in Babel, the confusion of mind and heart that sets us one against the other. The Spirit opens borders... The Church must always become anew what she already is. She must open the borders between peoples and break down the barriers between class and race. In her, there cannot be those who are neglected or disdained. In the Church there are only free men and women, brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ.” (Homily for Pentecost, 15 May 2005, Pope Benedict XVI) Scripture for Lectio: “Daughter, your faith has saved you. Go in peace.” (Mark 5:34) Sponsor - The Ember Collective: “Holistic wellness in light of eternity.” The Ember Collective is a community of women passionate about holistic wellness through the lens of our Catholic faith. They believe that we cannot separate the physical from the spiritual, and that harmony exists among them.You can subscribe to The Ember Journal, a visually stunning quarterly print magazine that dives into nutrition, broader health & wellness topics, our Catholic faith, liturgical living, delicious and nourishing whole food recipes, and more. They just launched their first book, Feast Faith Flourish, through Sophia Institute. This book makes the perfect addition to your coffee table, as your seasonal and liturgical companion to living well and whole. Use the code ABIDE10 to get 10% off our entire shop (subscriptions excluded). Chapters: 00:00 The Ember Collective 00:58 Intro 01:49 Welcome 05:38 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder 06:50 The Fatigue of Living 09:17 Into A Place of Isolation 11:25 Micromovements of the Heart 13:33 Bonding vs Bondage 15:48 Deeply Encountering Jesus 18:18 Will this Situation Ever Change? 20:17 The Spirit Opens Borders in Our Own Hearts 22:50 Overcoming Fear 25:45 Inviting the Holy Spirit Into Our Lives Through Prayer 31:38 One Things
        Abiding Together37 min
        7S17 E2 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 2)In this episode, we conclude our series by reflecting on the sorrowful and glorious mysteries of our lives. In the midst of our own sorrows, we talk about the mortification of authentic love, what it means to carry our cross, and how to be patient when a particular suffering seems endless. We also share the glorious ways God is working in our lives. From the beauty of color to raising our expectations in faith, we ponder how Jesus’ presence in the sufferings of our lives often restores us more deeply than if He simply just healed our pain. Heather’s One Thing - First Reconciliation and Beyond by Katie Prejean McGrady Heather’s Other One Thing - Show Me Your Glory by Brandon Lake Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Discerning Hearts Podcast with Fr. Timothy Gallagher, Discernment of Spirits Series Michelle’s One Thing - Soulcore Sorrowful Mysteries (Tuesdays & Fridays): - The Agony in the Garden – Contrition / Sorrow for Sin - The Scourging at the Pillar – Purity / Mortification - The Crowning with Thorns – Moral Courage / Humility - The Carrying of the Cross – Patience in Suffering - The Crucifixion – Perseverance / Salvation / Forgiveness Glorious Mysteries (Wednesdays & Sundays): - The Resurrection – Faith - The Ascension – Hope / Desire for Heaven - The Descent of the Holy Spirit – Wisdom / Love of God / Zeal - The Assumption – Grace of a Happy Death / Devotion to Mary - The Coronation of Mary – Eternal Happiness / Trust in Mary's Intercession Journal Questions: - How did you experience delight this summer? - When have I felt hypervigilant in this season? - Who in my life am I called to entrust to the Divine Caretaker? - How has my faith been expanded this summer? Discussion Questions: - Where in your life do you sense Christ walking closely with you? - How have you experienced the mortification of authentic love? - What breakthroughs have you experienced in this season? - How have you experienced the Sorrowful Mysteries in this season? - How have you experienced the Glorious Mysteries in this season? Quote to Ponder: “To contemplate the face of Christ, and to contemplate it with Mary, is the ‘program’ which I have set before the Church at the dawn of the third millennium… To recite the Rosary is nothing other than to contemplate with Mary the face of Christ. In this school of Mary, we learn to ‘read’ Christ, to discover his secrets, to understand his message.” (Rosarium Virginis Mariae, St. Pope John Paul II) Scripture for Lectio: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9) Sponsor - Triumph of the Heart: Triumph of the Heart is an award-winning film that tells one of the most astounding stories of world war II - when a Polish priest, imprisoned in Auschwitz, volunteered to take the place of a condemned man.  When faced with a truly apocalyptic war, St. Maximilian Kolbe showed us that Christian love can conquer the deepest horrors of the human condition. In the face of unimaginable suffering, Kolbe didn’t retreat—he stepped forward, offering his life to save another. This film, about the passion of St. Maximilian Kolbe, is the most compelling look ever into both the horror and heroism that was to be found in a Nazi death camp. Audiences have already been deeply moved by the light of hope shining forth from the darkest place on earth. Triumph of the Heart is now showing in select theaters throughout the United States. Go to KolbeMovie.com to find out how you can get tickets to a masterpiece destined to become an enduring film classic. Made with a shoe string budget, many miracles from the Lord, and film quality that rivals any studio backed project, Triumph of the Heart will not disappoint. Distributed in partnership with the Augustine Institute, EWTN Studios, Relevant Radio, and more, you too can join the New Renaissance of Catholic Art at KolbeMovie.com. Timestamps: 00:00 Triumph of the Heart 01:26 Intro 02:15 Contemplating the Face of Christ 05:24 The Carrying of the Cross - Patience in Suffering 09:22 The Scourging at the Pillar - Purity/ Mortification 13:44 The Suffering We Experience as Parents Age 19:32 The Descent of the Holy Spirit - Wisdom/ Love of God/ Zeal 26:36 The Resurrection - Faith 31:33 One Things
        Abiding Together37 min
        8S17 E1 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 1)Welcome to season 17! In this episode, we continue our tradition of reflecting on the mysteries of our lives based on the mysteries of the Rosary. In every season of our lives, we’re given opportunities to grow in charity and to receive God’s grace. Periodically, it is important to pause and reflect on how God has been working in and through our lives. In our conversation, we model what this looks like and discuss how the virtues of each mystery of the Rosary align with the mysteries of our lives and the fruits God is cultivating. Join us today as we share the Joyful and Luminous mysteries of our lives. Heather’s One Thing - The beauty of being an empty nester! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Chastity: Reconciliation of the Senses by Bishop Erik Varden Michelle’s One Thing - Summer camps Michelle’s Other One Thing - College football is back! 🌟 Joyful Mysteries (Mondays & Saturdays): - The Annunciation – Humility - The Visitation – Love of Neighbor / Charity - The Nativity – Poverty of Spirit / Detachment from the World - The Presentation – Obedience / Purity - The Finding in the Temple – Joy in Finding Jesus / Zeal for God ✨ Luminous Mysteries (Thursdays): - The Baptism of Jesus – Openness to the Holy Spirit / Living one’s baptism - The Wedding at Cana – To Jesus through Mary / Faith in God's Will - The Proclamation of the Kingdom – Repentance and Trust in God - The Transfiguration – Desire for Holiness / Spiritual Courage - The Institution of the Eucharist – Adoration / Love of the Eucharist Other Resources Mentioned: - Joy and Pain by Rob Base and DJ EZ Rock Journal Questions: - How am I tempted to be so serious that I miss out on having fun? - How is the Lord inviting me into detachment and poverty of spirit? - What are the paradoxes in my life? - What are the prayers and requests of my heart right now? Discussion Questions: - When did you tangibly experience the presence of God during this summer? - Who can I invite into deeper intercession in this season? - How have you experienced the Joyful Mysteries in this season? - How have you experienced the Luminous Mysteries in this season? Quote to Ponder: “...We must be able to pause in silence, in meditation, in calm, prolonged reflection; we must know how to stop and think. In this way our mind can find healing from the inevitable wounds of daily life, it can penetrate the events that occur in our life and in the world and can attain that wisdom which makes it possible to see things with new eyes.” (Pope Benedict) Scripture for Lectio: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9) Sponsor - CORDA: CORDA translates the stories of the saints into scents, and helps you create a place of prayer and peace in your home with their Catholic candles. Each candle is handcrafted with great ingredients and a beautiful modern design, and lasts for 45 hours! Now through November 15, use code ABIDING15 to save 15% when you order! And check out the free Rewards program on CORDA’s website, too - it’s an awesome way to earn points you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. Explore all of CORDA’s gorgeous Catholic candles (and 3500+ five-star reviews) at cordacandles.com/abiding Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA 01:43 Intro 02:22 Welcome 07:43 Quote to Ponder and Scripture Verse 11:18 The Nativity - Poverty of Spirit 15:40 Finding Jesus in the Temple - Zeal for God 19:22 The Nativity - Detachment from the World 22:50 The Baptism of Jesus - Openness to the Holy Spirit 27:48 The Wedding at Cana - Faith in God’s Will 30:58 The Institution of the Eucharist - Adoration 33:57 One Things
        Abiding Together41 min
        9BONUS - Standing on Holy Ground w/ Ave Maria PressIn this special bonus episode, we share a recent conversation we had with our friend Katie Prejean McGrady on the Ave Explores podcast series, “Digital Evangelization". We loved the conversation so much that we wanted to share it with you! You will hear us reflect on the story behind Abiding Together, our commitment to authentic and vulnerable conversations, and the impact of inviting others into our spiritual journey. We also share why we believe online spaces can become “holy ground” when we speak with honesty, balance, and love—and why, if a message isn’t real and rooted in truth, it’s not worth sharing. We are also excited to announce Season 17 of Abiding Together will begin on September 15th! Mark your calendars—we are so excited to journey with you this fall. Subscribe to our Newsletter! Follow us on Instagram or Facebook Learn More about Ave Maria Press: - Ave Maria Press’ Website - Ave Explores Podcast - Instagram - Facebook - TikTok - X Journal Questions: - How is God revealing His will to me for my current season? - Who are the women in your life you can share your heart with? - What activities, media, or projects might I need to take a break from in this season? Discussion Questions: - What metrics of success are you tempted to view your life through? - How would you articulate the difference between fruitfulness and success? - How do you discern what parts of your life to share with others?
        Abiding Together52 min
        10S16 E17 - Counting the GracesIn this episode, we conclude season 16 by remembering with gratitude all the things God has done and is doing in our lives. We reflect on the importance of allowing our hearts to be drawn into beauty in the midst of both joy and sorrow. We also talk about maturity vs self reliance, allowing ourselves to be led by the Holy Spirit, and the relationship between trust and receptivity. Thank you dear friends for journeying with us this season! You will be in our prayers this summer and we are excited about what’s in store this Fall! Heather’s One Thing - All to Bless You and Low (Live) by Kory Miller Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Magdala Grove Michelle’s One Thing - I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Thérèse of Lisieux by Fr. Jean Delaby Journal Questions: - Pause and take a moment to notice the surrounding beauty. What do I notice? How might the Lord be speaking to me through this beauty? - Am I perplexed by the mystery of how God is working in my life? How might He be working all things for good in this season? - How do I keep my union with the Lord? What is coming against that right now? - In my suffering and darkness, where do I turn my face? Am I allowing myself to be led or am I trying to control? - What is the Lord inviting me to do this summer? Discussion Questions: - Are you in a season where it is difficult to be grateful? Why or why not? - In the midst of regular life, what is taking you away from union with God? - How have you encountered the love of God in your life? - God is always doing something new. How can you breathe in new hope? - What are you looking forward to this summer? Quote to Ponder: “To limit your desires and your hopes is to misunderstand God’s infinite goodness!” (St. Therese of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles…” (Psalm 105:5) Sponsor - House of Joppa: We're proud to be sponsored by House of Joppa, a family-owned Catholic shop where modern design meets timeless tradition. From stunning Catholic jewelry to sacred art and décor, everything they offer is crafted to reflect the beauty of our faith. Explore their full collection at houseofjoppa.com Timestamps: 00:00 - House of Joppa 01:00 - Intro 01:51 - Welcome 04:18 - What’s Been on Our Minds 09:35 - Union with God 10:43 - Year of Hope 13:32 - Abiding 17:30 - Maturing of Love 19:20 - Turning to God 22:04 - Favorite Moments from Season 16 26:31 - What We are Looking Forward to this Summer 33:20 - Final Thoughts 34:59 - One Things
        Abiding Together42 min
        11S16 E16 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 2)In this episode, we conclude our conversation on life transitions with Michelle’s husband, Chris Benzinger. We focus on the second and third steps in walking through transitions: releasing with trust and redeeming with hope. We talk about God wanting to redeem our past, the need to let go of the ways we’ve failed, and how God wants to do something new in the future. We also reflect on the importance of ceremony to conclude a season, the four responses to a loss, and why we should share our hopes for the future with God. Heather’s One Thing - Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine's Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  Mediterranean Chicken Bowls Michelle’s One Thing - Belovedness: Overcoming Your Inner Critic - A Lyrical Devotional by Sarah Kroger Chris’ One Thing - Running a 5k with his daughter Lilly Journal Questions: - What was good about the previous season of my life? Am I grieving or still carrying hurts? - What is God specifically asking me to release from this past season? - In this next season of my life, what is one thing God is making new? - What is one hope I have for this next season of my life? Creative Prompt: - Take a bookmark and decorate it with your hopes for the next season and place it in your Bible. It will serve as a reminder in the next chapter of your life. Discussion Questions: - Reflect back upon the past few years and choose one big or small transition in your life.  - What is one thing you are grateful for in the past season of your life? - What is God calling you to release with trust from that past season? - As you look to this current season, what action can you take to ceremonialize the end of an old season and create the foundation for a new season? - Are you able to name what you desire? Why or why not? - How are you responding to loss in your current season of life? - What is something new God is doing in the current season of your life? Quote to Ponder: “Remember not the events of the past, the things of long ago consider not. See I am doing something new. Now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?” (Isaiah 43:18) Scripture for Lectio: “But now thus says the Lord, who created you, O Jacob, and formed you O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; and you are mine.” (Isaiah 43:1) Sponsor - Karol Coffee Co.: This week’s sponsor is more than just a coffee company. Karol Coffee Co. was inspired by the life and work of one of the most beloved saints of the modern era: Karol Wojtyła, better known to the world as Pope St. John Paul II. His life was a testimony to courage, joy, and cultivating beauty that draws souls into union with Jesus and one other. From his days as a young priest in Nazi-occupied Poland to his years leading the global Church, St. John Paul II consistently called people to embrace truth, goodness, and beauty in every aspect of their lives. Karol Coffee Co. seeks to carry on that mission in a small but meaningful way — by bringing community, love, and joy into the heart of our everyday routines through coffee. Founded by Nate and Megan Whipple, a faithful Catholic couple rooted in mission, Karol Coffee Co. began humbly in 2022 as a simple garage-based roasting operation in Minneapolis, Minnesota. What started as a passion project quickly became something greater, thanks to the encouragement and support of fellow Catholics and coffee enthusiasts. In just a short time, their venture has grown into a thriving small business that now serves customers all over the country. In an age when many of our purchases inadvertently support massive corporations with values often at odds with our own, supporting small, Catholic-owned businesses has never been more important. Karol Coffee Co. offers an alternative: ethically-sourced, traceable coffees roasted with care and intention. Each batch is crafted not only for flavor but with the desire to honor the dignity of those who cultivate the beans and to support communities around the world. Their rotating coffee offerings include a range of carefully selected beans from notable coffee-growing regions with flavor profiles to suit a variety of preferences. Karol Coffee Co. makes it easier to keep your kitchen stocked with beans through bi-weekly or monthly subscription options. Fresh, delicious coffee delivered right to your door — no last-minute grocery runs or chain coffee stops required. But beyond the coffee itself, what makes Karol Coffee Co. truly remarkable is the heart behind it. Nate and Megan have built their business around community and mission. It’s about more than just selling beans; it’s about creating opportunities for people to encounter beauty, truth, and goodness in the midst of their everyday lives, and to share that with the people around them. They have a passion for creating opportunities for people of all backgrounds and walks of life to experience connection and unity through the shared love of coffee and beauty. We’d love for you to get to know them and become part of their growing community. You can visit their website at www.karolcoffeeco.com to explore their current offerings, sign up for a subscription, or learn more about the mission behind the brand. You can also follow along with them on Instagram @karolcoffeeco. And if you’re ever passing through St. Paul, Minnesota, be sure to visit their brand-new brick-and-mortar coffee shop. Their beautiful shop is a space where faith, community, and great coffee come together in a setting that feels like home. The walls are covered in paintings by local artists, as well as those of Megan herself (@meganwhippleart). You can even find a portrait of Pope Saint John Paul II painted by Megan (prints available on the Karol Coffee Co. website - https://karolcoffeeco.com/products/megan-whipple-art-karol-8x10-print). The shop offers a simple but complete food menu of organic and locally sourced food and a great variety of caffeinated and non-caffeinated drinks. So whether you’re looking to start your mornings with a little more purpose, support a Catholic business, or simply discover some truly great coffee, we wholeheartedly encourage you to check out Karol Coffee Co. Use code ABIDING for 10% your first order. Timestamps: 00:00 - Karol Coffee Co. 01:36 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 03:13 - Releasing with Trust 07:26 - Your Past Seasons 13:24 - Four Responses to Loss 16:55 - Our Responses to Losses in Life 25:56 - Redeem with Hope 27: 30 - Redemption in Our Lives 33:29 - One Things
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        12S16 E15 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 1)In this episode, Chris Benzinger joins us to discuss navigating big and small life transitions. We have all probably found ourselves on the other end of a transition feeling unfulfilled or confused. Chris takes us through a reflection of Joshua leading the Israelites across the Jordan and relates it to change in our lives. We talk about why it can be difficult to move on from blessings of the past and how remembering with gratitude is the first step in walking through transitions. We also discuss the practice of taking memorial stones with us to remember the Lord’s blessings, giving thanks in all circumstances, and growing a lens of gratitude. Join us for part two next week! Heather’s One Thing - Festival of Praise at Franciscan University Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Sacramental transitions Michelle’s One Thing - Chris! Chris’ One Thing - Michelle :) Journal Questions: - What transitions am I currently going through? - How have I experienced transition in the past? - What do I need to remember with gratitude? - What truth is the Lord speaking to me in my current circumstances? Discussion Questions: - What are you most grateful for in your recent transitions in life? - What did the Father show you about His character in the previous season? - What are the greatest fears you experience when facing transition? - How will you allow space in your heart as you experience changes in your season of life? - How can you embrace both the grief of what has ended and the joy of the new adventure in your transition? Quote to Ponder: “And the Lord said to Joshua, “Command the priests who bear the ark of the testimony to come up out of the Jordan.” Joshua therefore commanded the priests, “Come up out of the Jordan.” And when the priests bearing the ark of the covenant of the Lord came up from the midst of the Jordan, and the soles of the priests’ feet were lifted up on dry ground, the waters of the Jordan returned to their place and overflowed all its banks, as before.” (Josua 4:15-18) Scripture for Lectio: “Rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18) Sponsor - Our Holy Home: We’re so grateful to partner this season with Our Holy Home — a Catholic brand that’s on a mission to fill homes with beauty, subtle reminders of faith, and a deep sense of peace in the everyday. Their best-selling dish towels are a simple but powerful way to build up the domestic church — and honestly, we can’t get enough of them. These aren’t your average towels. Each design is thoughtfully created to reflect the joy and truth of the Catholic faith — with soft colors, minimalist artwork, and meaningful words that uplift your spirit even during the most mundane moments in the kitchen. Whether you’re drying dishes, wiping hands, or hanging them from the oven for a decorative touch, these towels serve as gentle reminders that holiness is found in the home — and often, in the mess. Here’s why we love them: Subtle, beautiful Catholic designs that blend seamlessly into your home decor Functional and high-quality — made to be used, not just admired Faith-filled reminders that inspire prayer, peace, and purpose in your daily tasks Perfect for gifting — especially for housewarmings, weddings, baby showers, or that mama friend who’s in the trenches Whether you're living liturgically or just trying to bring a little more intention into your everyday routines, these towels are a small way to make a big impact. 👉 Shop their dish towel collection here (ourholyhome.com/AT) And while you're there, take a look at their other offerings — planners, seasonal decor, and Catholic home goods that all carry the same spirit of joyful reverence and purpose. Our Holy Home is a proud Catholic Concepts brand, made with love by a passionate team that believes beauty can evangelize — especially within the walls of your own home. Visit ourholyhome.com/AT  to explore their full collection and bring home goods that reflect the heart of our faith. Timestamps: 00:00 - Our Holy Home 01:18 - Intro 02:09 - Welcome 04:42 - Big and Small Transitions 05:15 - Three Step Process 06:38 - Remember with Gratitude 09:18 - Memorial Stones 13:48 - Planting a Sense of Gratitude 15:05 - Stones of Remembrance in Our Lives 23:00 - God’s Promises 25:49 - Reflection Question and Activity 28:06 - One Things
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        13S16 E14 - A Father’s Legacy - Pope FrancisIn this episode, we reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. We talk about how, during his Pontificate, Pope Francis emphasized joy and, through his example, helped us remember to embody this joy in our daily lives to bring others into the Church. We also acknowledge how God has used Pope Francis to speak to us through his writings and discuss which of these writings most profoundly impacted us, how we can pray for our next Pope, and share what we think will be his lasting legacy. Heather’s One Thing - Her Parents Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Firm Foundation by Cody Carnes (and the Maverick City Music Remix ;)) Michelle’s One Thing - Wrightsville Beach in Wilmington , NC Other Resources Mentioned: - Papal Homily on the Revolution of Tenderness - Pope Francis’ Surprise TED Talk - Patris Corde - Apostolic Letter - Dilexit Nos - Encyclical - Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) - Apostolic Exhortation - List of Cardinals attending the Conclave Abiding Together Episodes on Pope Francis’ Writings: - The Joy of the Gospel Study - Rejoice and Be Glad Study - The Sacred Heart (three part series) - C’est la Confiance (two part series) - Revolution of Tenderness Journal Questions: - How have I been blessed by Pope Francis’ pontificate? - In what ways do I experience the Gospel as Lent without Easter? - How can I embrace the lessons Pope Francis has taught me throughout his papacy in my life? - How can I pray for the Church during the conclave? Discussion Questions: - How did you receive the news of Pope Francis’ passing? - How can we live out Pope Francis’ vision of the Church as a field hospital in our own lives? - Which of Pope Francis’ writings left an impactful impression on you? - What’s one word you would use to describe Pope Francis’ legacy? Quote to Ponder: "Joy adapts and changes, but it always endures, even as a flicker of life born of our personal certainty that, when everything is said and done, we are infinitely loved." (Pope Francis) Scripture for Lectio: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13) Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Conference: This week’s episode is sponsored by the Glory: Women’s Conference hosted by Steubenville Conferences and our very own Heather Khym! We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Sarah Kroger who will be leading us in worship, this June 6-8 in Steubenville, Ohio as we gather with women across generations and seek God’s presence. We are just about one month out from the Glory: Women’s Conference and tickets are still available! This is the first one and we want you to be part of it, especially since it’s over Pentecost weekend and we know the Holy Spirit will be showing up in big ways. The conference schedule will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can’t wait to gather in fellowship with you. Visit steubenvilleconferences.com/events/glory for more information or to register! Timestamps: 00:00 - Glory: Women’s Conference 01:10 - Intro 02:01 - Welcome 04:14 - How We Found Out 07:02 - His Funeral and the Upcoming Conclave 08:30 - A Grace-filled Time 09:54 - Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) 13:36 - The Church as a Field Hospital 15:52 - Revolution of Tenderness 18:26 - The Lord Deeply Cares for Us 19:48 - Dilexit Nos (The Sacred Heart) 20:27 - The Holy Spirit and the Holy Family 21:12 - His Lasting Legacy 26:08 - How Can We Pray? 29:52 - One Things
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        14S16 E13 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Epilogue and Preparing for the TriduumIn this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study by focusing on the epilogue and sharing ideas on how to prepare for the Triduum. During Holy Week, our Lord invites us to join Him on His Paschal journey. We reflect on how He takes on our suffering, sin, and brokenness and brings them to the Father so that death may be destroyed forever. We also talk about the importance of remembering how God has transformed our lives, the call to “be not afraid”, and how our Lord is restoring our deepest identities. You are in our prayers dear friends, and we will see you again in the Easter season! Heather’s One Thing - Glory: Women’s Gathering (June 6th-8th 2025) Heather’s Other One Thing - The Pause App from Wild at Heart Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Peaceful Guitar Playlist from Spotify Michelle’s One Thing - Everything about Easter (the Liturgy, flowers, decorations…everything!) Announcement: We will be taking a two week break for Easter and will see you again on May 5th! Journal Questions: - Where do I need the Lord to grow my capacity? - Where do I still need resurrection? - What sorrowful places in my life need a reminder of the Lord’s victory? - Where in my life do I despise or push away or idolize my humanity? Discussion Questions: - How can you embrace a kingdom mindset this Holy Week? - What has been your Jubilee story? - How do you see your humanity as an obstacle rather than a gift to the world? - How does the Lord want to personally and individually restore your humanity? Quote to Ponder: “There are ways of being crucified that do not involve rough wood and heavy nails, but a love beyond our capacity to love, which means a love that has been given to us by God.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “The next day the great crowd that had come to the festival heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem. So they took branches of palm trees and went out to meet him, shouting, “Hosanna! Blessed is the one who comes in the name of the Lord, The King of Israel!” Jesus found a young donkey and sat on it, as it is written: “do not be afraid daughter of Zion; look your king is coming, sitting on a donkey’s colt.”” (John 12:12-15) Sponsor - Mary Powathil: Mary Powathil, a Houston-based iconographer and fine artist, creates sacred artwork that invites us into a deeper relationship with God. Mary’s work has been featured worldwide, at the National Eucharistic Congress, and even the upcoming Sugar Land Arts Festival. Her icons serve as windows into heaven and can be commissioned or printed. Mary also designs custom prayer books to help families grow in holiness through daily prayer. Her art truly can be used as tools for living a faith-filled life. Visit www.marypowathil.com or follow her on Instagram @mkpcreates. Use code ABIDE10 for 10% off your first order! Commissions Original Artwork for Sale Prints for Sale A Look at the Icon Design Process Timestamps: 00:00 - Mary Powathil 01:25 - Intro 02:18 - Welcome 03:44 - Our Personal Resurrection Stories 05:24 - Do Not Be Afraid 08:10 - Speaking Truth 09:39 - Honor and Honesty 11:09 - Restoration of Our Deepest Identities 13:14 - The Importance of Remembering 15:13 - Humanity 17:11 - An Individual and Unique Love 17:49 - Pray for Priests and Holy Week Services 21:03 - The Tears that Fell 22:49 - One Things
        Abiding Together29 min
        15S16 E12 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapter Nine and ConclusionIn this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapter 9 and the conclusion. We reflect on the goodness of God and why we need not be afraid even when we do not understand what He is doing or how He is working in our lives. We also talk about how the Holy Spirit is like a salve to the wounds in our life, the importance of taking the authority we’ve been given by God, and why hungering and thirsting for God allows us to grow in intimacy with Him. Heather’s One Thing - Healing Prayers and Renunciations by Dr. Bob Schuchts Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Mango Salsa Recipe Michelle’s One Thing - The Way of Love by Marie Miller Journal Questions: - How can I make Jubilee a lifestyle? - How does my heart respond to the unexpected works and movements of the Holy Spirit? - Where in my life do I need to welcome the Holy Spirit? - Where does the Lord want to liberate me? Discussion Questions: - How can you embrace the spirit of Jubilee and not the letter of Jubilee? - How will you embrace the sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences this year? - Where in your heart do you feel like you need to be cautious and protective with the Lord? - What are the things in your life filling you with a false satiation? - What are the graces you’ve received this Lent? Quote to Ponder: “For that reason, the Jubilee 2025 is a highly appropriate time for individuals and communities to enter more deeply into the life of the Holy Spirit.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 111) “What are some practical steps to bring jubilee into our hearts? How do we embrace the Spirit of jubilee and not the letter of jubilee? How do we make good use of 2025 and the years following? How do we make jubilee a lifestyle? How do we sustain liberty? There are three simple answers: sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 113) Scripture for Lectio: "Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” (2 Corinthians 3:17) Sponsor - West Coast Catholic: If you want to create a beautiful Catholic home or you’re looking for that perfect Catholic gift, but struggle to find pieces that match your modern aesthetic then you have just found the perfect brand for your life and home. West Coast Catholic is a Catholic lifestyle brand that creates beautiful faith filled lifestyle products and prayer tools that bring an essence of Heaven to your everyday life. From rosaries to home goods, jewelry, apparel, devotionals and more, all of their products are made to draw you closer to God and are uniquely designed with a modern aesthetic so you don’t have to compromise your personal style when incorporating faith into your life. Whether you’re shopping for Easter or Mothers Day coming up or other events like weddings, sacraments and birthdays, — West Coast Catholic has the most beautiful and meaningful gifts designed to inspire and equip you to live a faith-filled life. So head over to westcoastcatholic.co to explore the shop, and use code ABIDE10 for 10% off your order! And be sure to follow along on Instagram at @westcoastcatholic and their founder Mari @mari.c.wagner for more faith-filled inspiration. Timestamps: 00:00 - West Coast Catholic 01:30 - Intro 02:06 - Welcome 05:20 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 06:20 - The Holy Spirit 08:40 - A Salve to Our Wounds 10:28 - He is Good 12:28 - In the School of the Holy Spirit 14:23 - Sacraments, Pilgrimages, and Indulgences 18:31 - Taking Authority 20:30 - Are We Hungry Enough? 22:44 - Stirring Up Hunger 24:44 - The Price of Liberation 27:40 - Graces Received During Lent 29:09 - One Things
        Abiding Together34 min
        16S16 E11 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Seven and EightIn this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 7 & 8. We reflect on the many ways Jesus wants to make us whole, by exercising the evil out of our lives, forgiving our sins, and leading us to freedom. We also compare that to what the enemy is trying to do, make us feel alone, scatter the pieces of our heart, and bring us out of communion with each other and with God. Jesus wants to love us into healing and is waiting for our invitation. It is up to us to open the door and allow Jesus to enter ever deeper into our hearts. Heather’s One Thing - Authentic Masculinity and Intimacy with Jesus - A Pints with Aquinas Episode w/ John Eldredge (YouTube) (Spotify) Heather’s Other One Thing - Songs in the Desert Spotify Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - March Madness Michelle’s One Thing - She Loved: Resting in the Beauty of Motherhood by Suzanne Bilodeau Other Resources Mentioned: - Daily Examen - The Song “When I Forget” by Amanda Cook Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: - Have I experienced the revelation of Christ’s identity as the Messiah in a personal way? - What little parts of my heart has the Lord been restoring this Lent? - How has God been personally restoring my relationship with Him, exorcising me from evil, and bringing me into relationship with my neighbor? - Spend time in prayer and meditate on the image of a door with locks on it. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you: What is the name of this lock? Discussion Questions: - How has my heart been pierced by this intricate story of salvation? - What are you feasting on in relation to your fasting this Lent? - “We all need exorcism.” How do you see this truth in your own heart and life? - Where can you invite the Holy Spirit into my heart for restoration? Quote to Ponder: “Even though he is God in the flesh and could organize his ministry in any way, notice that Jesus chose: (1) relationship with God, (2) exorcism of evil, and (3) relationship with neighbor. Deliverance flows from God, not man.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 72-73) Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” (Matt 18:18) Sponsor - Heritage Retreat Center: Discover Heritage — A Sacred Destination for Renewal Looking for a place to unplug, reconnect, and deepen your faith? Heritage is a revitalized Catholic settlement, just two hours east of Atlanta, where faith, history, and natural beauty converge. Set on 200 peaceful acres, Heritage offers: - Cozy cottages for restful overnight stays - A historic church rich in tradition - Religious art to inspire reflection - Prayer gardens for quiet contemplation - Meeting spaces for groups seeking connection - Delicious, all-inclusive meals to nourish both body and soul Whether you’re coming for the day or staying overnight, Heritage provides a serene escape with plenty of outdoor space for exploring nature and embracing stillness. One guest described her visit as: “Serene, beautiful, and oh so peaceful. This place truly fills your cup! I’ve visited twice now and can’t wait to go back.” Come experience the peace for yourself! ➡️ Learn more at HeritageGA.org or follow us on Instagram at @heritage.ga. Have questions? DM us anytime! ❤️ Timestamps: 00:00 - Heritage Retreat Center 01:23 - Intro 02:15 - Welcome 03:26 - Deliverance Comes from the Lord 04:59 - A World at War 07:19 - Back to Nazareth 08:48 - Bringing the Many Parts Together 10:15 - He is Who He Says He is 11:32 - A Continuous Liberation and Invitation 14:09 - The Arrows the Hit Our Soul 16:39 - We All Need Exorcism 19:28 - Feasting on the Holy Spirit 21:29 - The Power of Confession 25:36 - One Things
        Abiding Together31 min
        17S16 E10 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Five and SixIn this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 5 & 6. We talk about the original roots of jubilee in the Old Testament, if the Israelites actually observed the jubilee, and how the Dead Sea Scrolls are relevant to jubilee. We also reflect on the importance of prophetic voices, the need to prepare for Sabbath, and why having an open heart allows the Lord to exceed our expectations. Heather’s One Thing - Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls Video Series with Dr. John Bergsma and Fr. Dave Pivonka Sister Miriam’s One Thing - How Change Occurs Series Part 1 and Part 2 from Restore the Glory Podcast Michelle’s One Thing - The House of David (Trailer) Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: - What areas are the smallest and weakest in my life that God wants to magnify in the Jubilee? - What are the laws and rituals of the Catholic Faith that I ignore or overlook? - How did the Lord design you to rest? - Where are the parts of my life where I say “this is as good as it’s gonna get?” - When in my life has God exceeded my expectations? Discussion Questions: - How are you putting the Jubilee into practice? - How can I prepare my heart and my life for deeper rest? - When are you tempted to offer something up that the Lord didn’t ask you to offer up? - Who are the prophetic voices of hope and repentance in your life? Quote to Ponder: “Jeremiah decreed that the land would rest seventy years – one for each missed Sabbath year – before the Lord would fulfill his promises, provided Israel repented and had an obedient heart.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bersgma, Page 57) Scripture for Lectio: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me. Because the Lord has anointed me to bring good tidings to the afflicted.He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound. To proclaim the year of God’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn.” (Isaiah 61:1-2) Sponsor - The Inspired Living: The Inspired Living is your one-stop shop for Easter basket items & Sacrament gifts this Spring! As an online shop sourcing Catholic home decor, books, and gifts, we believe that our spiritual lives begin at home, and should be a reflection of that which is eternally beautiful, God Himself. At The Inspired Living we have intentionally curated and sourced into one place the best Catholic products - whether that be decor for your home, gifts for sacraments, or books and sacramentals that will enhance your domestic church. We offer a unique array of handcrafted goods and exquisite gifts made by artisans not only in the United States, but around the world. Head to our website to find: - Beautiful fine jewelry - One-of-a-kind sacrament gifts - Sacred art & crucifixes - Faith-enriching toys -  And so much more Use the code ABIDE20 for an exclusive 20% off discount at checkout! Timestamps: 00:00 - The Inspired Living 01:00 - Intro 01:52 - Welcome 02:32 - Scripture Verse 03:08 - Our Roots in the Old Testament 05:20 - Did the Jews Practice the Jubilee Year? 06:42 - Times and Places of Grace 08:16 - You Prepare for Sabbath 10:03 - Come Back to Your First Love 12:42 - Settling for Bondage 13:32 - Prophetic Voices 16:14 - The Dead Sea Scrolls 18:45 - Letting Go of Our Expectations 22:17 - One Things
        Abiding Together26 min
        18S16 E9 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Three and FourIn this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 3 & 4. We discuss the Ten Commandments, how they teach us to say yes to true freedom, and why our voluntary yes helps us live in deeper communion with God and those around us. We also reflect on finding Eden in our Churches or homes, discovering our golden calves, and the significance of doing our daily duty well. Heather’s One Thing - Abundance of Grace Prints Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Vickie, Chris, and Fr. Patrick at Holy Trinity and St. Michael's Parishes in Kewaskum, WI (See the picture on our website here) Michelle’s One Thing - The Richest Leprechaun in Ireland by Elise Daniel Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: - How is my experience of the Church being broken open and expanded throughout this study? - Where have I been filling myself with things other than the Lord? Where have I been the unfaithful bride to the Lord? - How do I rationalize your idols and areas of bondage in daily life? - Do I allow myself to rest well and rest deeply? Discussion Questions: - How can we create a space in our home for people to rest? - How have you experienced authentic freedom and sanctity in the “no’s” of Christianity and the Commandments? - What external and internal structures in different areas of your life help to sustain your freedom? - How are you tempted to replace the honest work of doing your daily duty well with other good things? Quote to Ponder: “But they lacked the garden-sanctuary of Eden. The Israelites were going to need a place where God could walk and talk with his children. Also, they had a long journey ahead through the desert to the Promised Land, a land flowing with milk and honey (an image of Eden), so their meeting-place with God had to be portable. Therefore, Moses went back up the mountain to get instructions for the tabernacle. The tabernacle would be a portable Eden, a place of communion and rest.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 38) Scripture for Lectio: “Every fifty years, the Day of Atonement also marked the beginning of the jubilee year. God commanded Moses on the day of atonement you shall send abroad the trumpet throughout all your land. And you shall hallow the fiftieth year, and proclaim liberty throughout the land to all its inhabitants; it shall be a jubilee for you, when each of you shall return to his property and each of you shall return to his family.” (Leviticus 25: 9–10) Sponsor - Camp Wojtyla: Are you looking for a transformative experience for your middle school or high school student? Camp Wojtyla helps young people fall more in love with Jesus Christ and His Church through epic adventures in the Colorado mountains, awesome community, and huge fun. Camp Wojtyla helps kids learn they are stronger than they thought, and that God is bigger than they could ever have imagined. Camp Wojtyla is nestled in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado on a beautiful, 1200-acre wilderness property, and offers fourteen different single gender programs, giving campers a unique opportunity to LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL! We have a God of adventure. He has a story and a plan for each of us. Camp Wojtyla teaches about God and the Catholic Church through authentic and life-changing adventures in creation. In a culture that inundates us with noise, unplugged time on the mountain helps us understand who God is and who He has made us to be. While at Camp Wojtyla,campers experience expertly designed and sequenced programming that helps them understand that they are called to sainthood…and how they can achieve it! Our carefully selected, and highly trained team of staff and counselors are joyful and faithful role models who can’t wait to help give your camper their best summer ever! Come check us out at www.camp-w.com. We can’t wait to offer you or your child a transformative adventure! Sign up for our newsletter Instagram Facebook Online Trading Post Store Timestamps: 00:00 - Camp Wojtyla 01:32 - Intro 02:24 - Welcome 05:43 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 07:11 - Finding Eden Today 10:18 - True Freedom 15:22 - Enslaved to the Little Things 17:28 - In Right Order 18:37 - Our Golden Caves 20:24 - The Bride that is Unfaithful 21:39 - What We Need for Freedom 23:34 - Doing Our Daily Duty Well 25:05 - Trusting in God’s Provision 28:19 - One Things
        Abiding Together33 min
        19S16 E8 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters One and TwoIn this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 1 & 2. We reflect on how God originally designed us in the Garden of Eden, how the lies and idols we invite into our lives strip away this identity, and how the Jubilee is a time of restoration. We also dive deep into the biblical significance of the ten plagues, why tearing down our idols is a painful process, and the beauty of hoping for a good not yet seen. Heather’s One Thing - The Festival of Praise at Franciscan University and the song Fall Like Rain Heather’s Other One Thing - Ascension’s Holy Bible – The Great Adventure Catholic Bible, Second Edition Premium Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Those who live in Lafayette and attended an event at the University of Louisiana Sister Miriam’s Other One Thing - Jean Valjean: Bought with a Price (a scene from the 1998 Les Miserables with Liam Neesen) Michelle’s One Thing - Her recent trip with family to the Dominican Republic Jesus and the Jubilee Reading Schedule: - March 10th: Chapters 1 & 2 - March 17th: Chapters 3 & 4 - March 24th: Chapters 5 & 6 - March 31st: Chapters 7 & 8 - April 7th: Chapter 9 & Conclusion - April 14th: Epilogue and Preparing for the Triduum and Easter Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: - How can I embrace freedom, family, and fullness this Lent? - What is the Lord inviting me to this Lent? What gift is He trying to give me? - What does the Holy Spirit want to co-create with me this Lent? - What idols do I sense the Lord destroying in my life? Discussion Questions: - How are you approaching a Jubilee Lent differently? - What is taking up more room in your life than it needs to? - How do you see Lent as a season of hardship versus a season of restoration? - How can you press into prayer, fasting, and almsgiving to open yourself up to freedom this Lent? Quotes to Ponder: “The Story of the biblical jubilee does not begin with Leviticus 25, the first chapter where the institution is mentioned. The jubilee is at its heart an act of restoration, which means it recreates and reestablishes a situation that existed beforehand. And what is that situation? It’s the Good Creation!” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 9) Scripture for Lectio: “God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.” (Genesis 1:31) Sponsor - Into the Deep: A Lamp & a Light is a Scripture prayer journal for women that walks you through the movements of lectio divina with prompting questions. The journal provides 40 pre-selected Bible passages for you that are ideal for imaginative prayer. Then, you’ll have 40 blank pages where you can choose your own passages. If you have wanted to pray with Sacred Scripture but aren’t sure how or if you feel like you need a guide, this Scripture journal can help you go deeper in your personal relationship with the Lord. If you are in need of hope, perseverance, direction, joy, or faith through God’s unfailing Word, A Lamp & a Light is for you. You can get one for yourself, your mom, sister, and friends for 10% off at intothedeep.co with code ABIDE10. Timestamps: 00:00 - Into the Deep 01:34 - Intro 02:27  - Welcome 04:30 - Back to the Garden 08:38 - Our Need for Jubilee 10:22 - What is Taking Up Room in Our Hearts? 12:10 - Approaching Lent Differently 14:19 - Five Identities 16:10 - Restoring what was Lost 18:31 - A Glimpse into Full Restoration 20:41 - Self-Reliance vs Communion 22:38 - The Ten Plagues 24:26 - Spiritual Slavery 25:53 - God is Trying to Help You 27:30 - Continual Conversion 28:30 - Hope and Patience 31:35 - One Things
        Abiding Together38 min
        20S16 E7 - Our Need for Jubilee with Dr. John BergsmaIn this episode, we begin our Lenten book study “Jesus and the Jubilee” and welcome the author, Dr. John Bergsma, to the podcast! Dr. Bergsma shares his powerful conversion story during the Great Jubilee Year in 2000 and why he felt called to write a book about this Jubilee Year of Hope. We also reflect on this Jubilee year as a time of abundant grace, why Reconciliation is the Sacrament of Jubilee, and how we can engage the virtue of hope this Lenten season. Heather’s One Thing - Fathering Sons by Dominic Polito Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Floriani (Chants of Deliverance CD) (Spotify) Michelle’s One Thing - Jesus and the Jubilee Dr. Bergsma’s One Thing - Dr. Scott Hahn’s meditations on “The Seven Last Words of Christ”. (Sign up to be sent a weekly video reflection during Lent) Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: - How does the Lord want to invite me more deeply into the Jubilee Year? - What am I seeking freedom from this Lent? - How can I approach Lent with a spirit of hope? - What do I need to repent of this Lent? Discussion Questions: - What is your current understanding of the Jubilee? - How have you experienced interior miracles from the Lord? - What stuck out to you from Dr. Bergsma’s statement: “The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a perpetual Jubilee”? - What is a miracle you want to pray for this Lent? Quote to Ponder: “I’m convinced in my heart that the proper response to the announcement of Jubilee 2025 should be joy, hope, and excitement. Lived well, this Jubilee Year can be a moment of miracle and grace for all of us, a kind of yearlong spiritual Christmas season in which we daily awake to open the gifts of grace that God our Father so lovingly gives us.” (Dr. John Bergsma) Scripture for Lectio: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me to bring good tidings to the afflicted; he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound; to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all who mourn; to grant to those who mourn in Zion— to give them a garland instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the mantle of praise instead of a faint spirit; that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he may be glorified. They shall build up the ancient ruins, they shall raise up the former devastations; they shall repair the ruined cities, the devastations of many generations.” (Isaiah 61:1-4) Sponsor - CORDA: CORDA translates the stories of the saints into scents, and handcrafts those scents into gorgeous Catholic candles. Each candle scent is directly inspired by different saints and aspects of the faith, and is made with clean coconut wax and a beautiful, modern design. Be sure to sign up for the CORDA Fan Club, too: it’s free and an awesome way to earn points that you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. You can join the club and explore CORDA’s gorgeous Catholic candles (and 3,000+ reviews!) at cordacandles.com. And don’t forget to enter code ABIDE15 to save 15% on everything, now through May 31, 2025. Thank you for supporting this family owned, Catholic small business! Timestamps: 00:00 - CORDA 01:34 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 04:55 - Dr. Bergsma’s Conversion Story 12:58 - The Jubilee Year of Hope is a Time of Grace 16:07 - St. Pope John Paul II 17:35 - The Inspiration to Write Jesus and the Jubilee 21:29 - Why the Jubilee Year is a Personal Experience 28:16 - Reconciliation is the Sacrament of Jubilee 31:38 - Engaging the Virtue of Hope 37:38 - Hope in Prayer 40:12 - One Things
        Abiding Together47 min
        21S16 E6 - Spiritual Mentorship: Being Formed in JesusIn this episode, we talk about spiritual mentorship and being formed in Jesus. We reflect on the spiritual mentors who have journeyed with us and share stories about the lessons that have shaped who we are today.  We also talk about why comparison crushes our ability to receive, our calling to make disciples of all nations, and how the daily witness of our lives is an answer to this call. Heather’s One Thing - Fix You (Live from the O2 Arena) by Jacob Collier and Chris Martin Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Dr. Christin McIntyre on the Restore the Glory Podcast and her lectures on Thomistic Psychology (Part 1) (Part 2) Michelle’s One Thing - Dr. Mary Lou and Chris O’Grady and letting us use their beach home Announcement: Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through “Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God’s Favor“ by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee. Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. The St. Paul Center just restocked their inventory so they have plenty of books for you to order! Journal Questions: - Who has mentored me throughout my life? - Who have I mentored throughout my life? - How have I failed to acknowledge the humanity of my mentors? - What intentional “yeses” can I give to mentoring or being mentored in this season? Discussion Questions: - What were the practical ways that you were able to receive mentorship in your life? - What parts of the Face of God did my mentors reveal to me despite their own brokenness? - How have your peers mentored you in different seasons? - Who can you help discover & release their gifts to the world? Quote to Ponder: “Modern man listens more willingly to witnesses than to teachers, and if he listens to teachers, it is because they are witnesses.”  (Pope Paul VI, On Evangelization in the Modern World) Scripture for Lectio: “How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!” (Romans 10:14-15) Sponsor - Hallow: This episode is sponsored by Hallow, the #1 prayer app in the world with over 10,000 prayers, meditations, and music to help you find peace and grow closer to God. Hallow's annual Pray40 challenge for Lent is a powerful way to dive deeper into the three pillars of Lent: prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. This year's Pray40 is called The Way and focuses on the writings of St. Josemaría Escrivá and the story of Servant of God Takashi Nagai. You can join Sr. Miriam as well as other Christian voices like Jonathan Roumie, Fr. Mike Schmitz, Mark Wahlberg, actor Chris Pratt, and more for this 40-day journey to the cross. As we meditate on the lives of those who follow Christ, we’ll see that despite the noise and distraction of today, Jesus died on the cross so that we might know His love and, ultimately, eternal life. We need only to follow His Way. Get 3 months free of Hallow at hallow.com/abide Timestamps: 00:00 - Hallow 01:23 - Intro 02:15 - Welcome 03:26 - The Loss of a Mentor 05:20 - Receiving and Giving 06:40 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 07:16 - Michelle’s Mentors 11:26 - Sister’s Mentors 15:02 - Heather’s Mentors 18:04 - Sitting at Each Other’s Feet 18:50 - St. Pope John Paul II 19:47 - The Next Generation 22:06 - Spiritual and Biological Grandparents 25:04 - We are Called to Disciple 26:36 - Where You are Standing is Holy Ground 28:13 - Giving Our Yes to Jesus 30:56 - Speaking Blessings 32:10 - One Things
        Abiding Together38 min
        22S16 E5 - Happy 8th Birthday!In this episode, we celebrate eight years of abiding together with you! We want to celebrate what God has done and is doing in not only our lives, but also in yours. We reflect on why we started the podcast and how our hearts still echo with a desire to help women grow closer to our Lord through communion with others. We share why we surrender the podcast to the Holy Spirit, how we’ve navigated supporting each other through different seasons of life, and what our hopes are for the future of the podcast. Most of all, we want to thank you for how you’ve received our vulnerability, your openness to us and the Lord, and your steadfastness in journeying with us along the way. Heather’s One Thing - Jubilee Spotify Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Our very first episode - Coffee, Unity, and Companionship Michelle’s One Thing - Our listeners! We are so grateful for you! Announcement: Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through “Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God’s Favor“ by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee. Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. While “Jesus and the Jubilee” is currently backordered, the St. Paul Center expects a new shipment of books later this week and plans to fulfill your orders by late February. Journal Questions: - Have I experienced friendships and relationships that have been anointed by the Lord? - How can I steward my relationships, gifts, time, and opportunities well? - When have I seen the difference between success and fruitfulness? Discussion Questions: - When did you first start listening to the podcast? - Do you have a favorite episode, season, series, or study? How did it bless you? - What areas of your life can you surrender to the Lord to give growth? Quote to Ponder: "To be grateful is to recognize the Love of God in everything He has given us - and He has given us everything. Every breath we draw is a gift of His love, every moment of existence is a grace, for it brings with it immense graces from Him. Gratitude therefore takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder and to praise of the goodness of God. For the grateful person knows that God is good, not by hearsay but by experience. And that is what makes all the difference." (Thomas Merton) Scripture for Lectio: "Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen. He named it Ebenezer, saying, 'Thus far the Lord has helped us.'" (1 Samuel 7:12) Sponsor - The Little Rose Shop: Discover the beauty of integrating faith into your everyday life with The Little Rose Shop. Our Morning Offering Prayer Mug the perfect companion for your morning routine, allowing you to start each day with a heartfelt prayer, focusing your thoughts on Christ. Plus, explore our Quiet Books collection, including the Mass Quiet Book, Rosary Quiet Book, the Where is Jesus Quiet Book, and Wrapped in Mary’s Mantle Quiet Book. These engaging books are designed for babies and toddlers, making it easy to introduce them to the wonders of faith in a quiet and interactive way—perfect for adoration or Mass. As a special treat for Abiding Together listeners, use promo code ABIDING15 for an exclusive 15% discount at checkout. Enrich your spiritual journey and bring the joy of faith into your home with The Little Rose Shop. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Little Rose Shop 01:17 - Intro 02:09 - Lenten Book Announcement 02:54 - Welcome 04:40 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 05:53 - Born Out of Friendship 09:19 - Surrendering Everything Back 10:39 - Honest Conversations 12:05 - Stewarding Well 15:22 - Thankfulness 18:23 - Hearing from Listeners 20:35 - A Collaboration 22:47 - Your Starting Point 24:26 - Hope for the Future 28:29 - One Things 31:12  - Lenten Book Study Reminder
        Abiding Together34 min
        23S16 E4 - Journey to NazarethIn this episode, we talk about how we can receive graces by making a spiritual pilgrimage to Nazareth. We reflect on the Holy Family, how they teach us to love well, and how they show us how to build a family that heals and transforms its members. We also discuss the sanctification of the ordinary, how life is found in doing our daily duty well, and how to dialogue with others. Nazareth is a place of love, and we invite you to use your imagination and make the journey with us. Heather’s One Thing - Discovering your God-given Identity Course Heather’s Other One Thing - Memorize Scripture by Jackie Angel Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Last Paragraph of Pope Benedict XVI’s Inaugural Homily Michelle’s One Thing - Everyone who experienced the loss of home from a natural disaster. We are praying for you. Other Resources Mentioned: For any alumni of the JPII Healing Center’s Holy Desire retreat, Jake Khym is offering a free online course “The Freedom Series: Journeying with Holy Desire” Announcement: Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through “Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God’s Favor“ by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee. Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins! Journal Questions: - Have I ever prayed about life in Nazareth? - How can I experience Nazareth in an ordinary way? - Where do I need to be transformed in family life? - Spend time this week meditating on life in Nazareth. How did I encounter the Holy Family in my meditation? - When are the times that I want to rebuke and accuse others? Do I want holiness and transformation more than being right? Discussion Questions: - What renewal and transformation do you need to experience in Nazareth? - How do you see ordinary life as the path to sanctification? - How do you see ordinary life as an obstacle to sanctification? - Where are you in bondage within family life? How can you allow an encounter of Nazareth to set you free from that bondage? Quote to Ponder: “Pilgrimages are a call to return to the roots of our faith. Nazareth, where Jesus lived His hidden life, is a place that invites us to reflect on our own journey. It is not only a place of memory but also a place of renewal and transformation.” (Pope Francis, Homily, Mass at the Basilica of the Annunciation, 2014) Scripture for Lectio: “And he went and lived in a town called Nazareth. So was fulfilled what was said through the prophets, that he would be called a Nazarene.” (Matthew 2:23) Sponsor - CMF CURO: Embrace the Wholeness God Desires for You Are you looking for a community of Catholics that is open to Christ’s healing love, prays together and is striving for excellence in spirit, mind and body? We know it can be hard to find that. That’s why CURO offers its Belong, Thrive and Share communities. As a listener of Abiding Together, we’re excited to offer you a free session of Catholic spiritual direction or personalized wellness coaching. We’re confident that you’ll love your time with our trained and experienced coaches and spiritual directors. Our members can’t stop saying how grateful they are to grow closer to Christ, form new habits and progress in virtue. If online is your thing, then check out the Belong wellness portal with a free 30-Day trial. It’s designed to help you learn your strengths, discover areas to grow in, and lets you sync with your smart device to seamlessly track your progress towards your goals. To sign up or learn more just visit: cmfcuro.com/abiding. Timestamps: 00:00 - CMF CURO 01:37 - Intro 02:30 - Welcome 04:30 - Rest in Nazareth 06:45 - How Do We Go to Nazareth? 11:57 - Spiritual Pilgrimage of Hope 13:31 - The Sanctification of Ordinary Life 15:34 - We Find a Love that Heals 18:00 - A Place to Dialogue 20:39 - Bringing Our Littleness to Nazareth 24:07 - An Encouragement to Try 24:37 - A Place of Astonishment and Wonder 28:50 - One Things
        Abiding Together35 min
        24S16 E3 - Rosary in a Year with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFRIn this episode, we welcome Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR to talk about his podcast Rosary in a Year. He shares the inspiration behind his podcast and the importance of meditating on and understanding the mysteries of our faith. We also reflect on prayer being something received not produced, how the Rosary specifically answers the cry of our hearts to learn how to pray, and how Mary intercedes for us within this prayer. Our desire is that Fr. Mark-Mary’s podcast will be an aid as you take the next step deeper in your prayer life. Heather’s One Thing - Instant Pot Creamy Tomato Basil Soup Recipe Heather’s Other One Thing - Sharing the Gospel with Our Lives: A Relational Approach to Catholic Youth Ministry by Bob Rice Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Creamy Chicken Rice Soup Recipe Michelle’s One Thing - The Franciscan Friars of the Renewal Fr. Mark-Mary’s One Thing - Christ in the City Missionaries Other Resources Mentioned: - Rosary in a Year Podcast on Spotify, Apple, Ascension’s Website (or app) Announcement: Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through “Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God’s Favor“ by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee. Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins! Journal Questions: - What has my relationship been with the Rosary? - Do I often perceive the Rosary to be a formulaic task or a channel of grace? - How have I experienced a strengthening of my “concentration muscle” in the past? - Do I see prayer as something I produce, or something I receive? Discussion Questions: - How were you formed in how to pray the Rosary? - What obstacles do you experience when praying the Rosary? - What do you desire for your relationship with Our Blessed Mother? - How can I enter more fully into the Rosary during this Jubilee Year of Hope? Quote to Ponder: "Mary was the first person to take the 'way' to enter the Kingdom of God that Christ opened, a way which is accessible to the humble, to all who trust in the word of God and endeavor to put it into practice." (Pope Benedict XVI) Scripture for Lectio: “Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.” (John 19:27) Sponsor - Ascension: Join Fr. Mark-Mary Ames and Ascension Press for a new installment of the “In a Year” series with the new Rosary in a Year podcast, which debuted in January as the #1 podcast in the U.S.! The podcast’s host, Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR, takes listeners on a step-by-step journey that will change how they approach the Rosary—and prayer in general—no matter where they are in their spiritual life. By starting small and adding on over time, listeners will find themselves falling more in love with this powerful Marian devotion, becoming a source of grace for the whole world. In six different phases throughout the year, the podcast builds up from just an “Our Father", three “Hail Mary’s”, and a “Glory Be” at the beginning, to joyfully praying the entire Rosary together by the end. Along the way, listeners will learn the basics of prayer, discover the Biblical roots of the Rosary, and learn to meditate on each mystery like never before with help from Sacred Scripture, the writings of the saints, and Sacred Art. You can listen to the podcast and download the Rosary in a Year Prayer guide by visiting our website here. Whether you’re already listening every day or this is your first time hearing about the podcast, it’s never too late to start and there is no better place to listen to Rosary in a Year than in the Ascension app. You’ll get exclusive content and special features you won’t find anywhere else, like full transcripts of each episode, the full text of the prayers and litanies Fr. Mark-Mary shares in the podcast, references to Sacred Scripture and the Catechism, images of sacred art, and much more that help you dive even deeper into each reflection on the Rosary. You can also pray all four mysteries of the Rosary with recordings from Fr. Mark-Mary, Fr. Mike Schmitz, and Jeff Cavins, all for free in the Ascension app. Download the Ascension App on your smartphone or tablet from wherever you get your apps, or by visiting https://link.ascension-app.com/Abide15 Additionally, you can get 15% off the following Rosary in a Year resources by clicking the links and using the promo code ABIDE15 at checkout: Rosary in a Year Prayer Guide (preorder) How to Pray a Better Rosary Rosary in a Year 5 Decade Gemstone Rosary (preorder) Timestamps: 00:00 - Ascension 01:33 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 03:20 - Fr. Mark-Mary 09:30 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 09:59 - Inspiration for Rosary in a Year 13:16 - A Podcast for Formation in Prayer 15:00 - Mary and the Rosary 18:12 - Organization of the Podcast 22:18 - Prayer is Something Received 25:08 - Father’s Hope for the Podcast 27:37 - One Things
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        25S16 E2 - Pilgrims of HopeIn this episode, we talk about Pope Francis’ Bull of Indiction on the Jubilee Year of Hope! A Jubilee year occurs once every 25 years and it is a year set apart and consecrated just for our Lord. We chat about what it looks like to be pilgrims of hope, especially in the places where we have deep sorrows or unfulfilled desires. We reflect on how we can bring these tender places to our Lord and let them be illuminated, so He can redeem and restore the light of hope in our lives. Keeping our hearts open to hope can be painful and crucifying. But when we enter into this pilgrimage, we are transformed in the light of hope. Heather’s One Thing - The Podcast Burning Hearts with Rachel Herbeck Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Heather’s Acoustic Worship Spotify Playlist Michelle’s One Thing - Jubilee by Maverick City Music Other Resources Mentioned: - In Defense of Hope a talk by Jackie Hill Perry Announcement: Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through “Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God’s Favor“ by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee. Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins! Journal Questions: - Where in my life am I experiencing hopelessness? - What idols do I place my hope in? - How can I look at this year through the lens of hope? - Think about an area of hopelessness in your life. What do you believe about the situation? What do you believe about yourself in this situation? What do you believe about the Lord in this area? Discussion Questions: - Where in your life is it scary to have hope? - When have you experienced the buoyancy and freedom of hope? - How is Christ inviting you to hope this year? - How does your hopelessness impact your understanding of the character of God? Quotes to Ponder: "Begin again with hope." (Pope Francis) “Indeed, the jubilee is a new beginning, the possibility for everyone to start anew from God. With the jubilee we start a new life, a new phase.” (Pope Francis) Scripture for Lectio: “Hope does not disappoint.” (Romans 5:5) Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Gathering: Franciscan University, and Heather Khym from Life Restoration are holding their first ever Steubenville women’s conference! We absolutely love the theme they've chosen: The Spirit and the Bride Say Come. Heather will be joined by an amazing lineup of speakers including Michelle Benzinger, Sr. Josephine Gerrett, Sarah Kaczmarek, Debbie Herbeck, Fr. Tim Hepburn, and Sarah Kroger leading worship! Join women across generations to worship God, hear from Spirit-filled speakers, and make room for conversation with one another and with Jesus the Bridegroom. Mark your calendars for June 6th-8th 2025 and click this link to register! Timestamps: 00:00 - Glory: Women’s Conference 1:31 - Intro 1:39 - Welcome 6:16 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 6:51- Why Hope? 10:01 - Hopelessness and Fear 12:20 - Grieving Hopeless Areas 16:29 - A Place of Healing 17:41 - It’s A Pilgrimage 19:33 - The Grace of Jubilee 21:55 - Patience 23:50 - An Invitation to Transformation 25:50 - Challenge to Mature 27:22 - Our Lady Mother of Hope 29:26 - Lenten Book Study Announcement 32:01 - One Things
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        26S16 E1 - Word of the YearWelcome to the season 16 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2025 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to seeing what this season will bring. Heather’s One Thing - This Strange Land Podcast Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Jubilee Year podcast episode from the Poco a Poco Podcast Michelle’s One Thing - Notre Dame Football and Marcus Freeman and time with Heather and Sister at the 2025 SEEK Conference in DC Other Resources Mentioned: - Word of the Year video from Blessed is She - Beautiful Holiness Beautiful Holiness: A Spiritual Journey With Blessed Conchita to the Heart of Jesus by Kathleen Beckman - Under the Gaze of the Father by Archbishop Martinez (A retreat written for Blessed Conchita) Journal Questions: - If you’ve been selecting a word of the year for a few years now, reflect on how the words have built on each other over time. - Through what golden lens does God want me to see my year? - How can I approach this new year with a spirit of integration rather than novelty? - In what circumstances of your life do you feel like God isn’t showing up? Discussion Questions: - How did you experience your word for 2024? - What is the Lord doing for you this year? - How is the Lord inviting you to greater faithfulness in 2025? - Do you feel like any particular saints have been chosen to journey with you this year? - What is your word for 2025? Quote to Ponder: “The object of a new year is not that we should have a new year, but rather that we should have a new soul.” (G.K. Chesterton) Scripture for Lectio: “And a word spoken in due season, how good it is.” (Proverbs 15:23) Sponsor - Rooted for Good: Rooted For Good is your go-to destination for luxurious, all-natural skincare and self-care products designed to nurture your skin and enhance your well-being. Our products not only smell and feel incredible but also reflect your commitment to clean, wholesome living. As a Catholic-owned and operated business, Rooted For Good is dedicated to making a difference. With every purchase, 10% of the proceeds go toward uplifting individuals in need in developing countries. When you choose Rooted, you're not only caring for your skin—you’re contributing to a mission of hope and generosity! We’re honored to sponsor the Abiding Together podcast, a community rooted in faith, inspiration, and connection. This partnership is extra special, as many women in the Abiding Together community have been integral to Rooted’s amazing growth. Today, women across the U.S. and beyond trust Rooted products as a key part of their skincare routines. Discover why over 90% of Rooted’s customer reviews are 5-star testimonials! Our thoughtfully priced products make premium natural skincare accessible to everyone. Founded by a Catholic mom of six boys, Rooted For Good was built on the belief that every woman deserves high-quality skincare that aligns with her values. Make the switch to all-natural skincare in 2025—your skin will thank you, and your heart will feel good knowing you’re making an impact. Join the growing community of women who love Rooted For Good and experience the difference for yourself. Use promo code Abide10 to enjoy 10% off your purchase at RootedForGood.com. Start your journey to radiant, natural beauty today! Timestamps: 00:00 - Rooted for Good 01:31 - Intro 02:23 - Welcome 04:01 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 04:34 - What is a Word of the Year? 08:24 - Michelle’s Word(s) 14:10 - Heather’s Word 24:10 - Sister’s Word 32:15 - One Things
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        27S15 E14 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week FourIn this week's episode, we conclude our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel. We discuss how we all have deep cries within our hearts and how Jesus coming as a baby gives voice to those longings and sorrows that we hold. We also reflect on the role of the Holy Spirit in revealing the love of God, the power of a name in calling out our truest identity, and the great adventure of falling in love with the Lord. Friends, thank you for joining us on the journey this Advent season. We look forward to next year and pray the Lord reveals Himself to you in a deeper and more intimate way this Christmas season. God bless! Heather’s One Thing - 2025 SEEK Conference in DC and the Ave Maria Press team Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Lo, How a Rose E’er Blooming choral arrangement Michelle’s One Thing - Our amazing staff (Kristina, Camille, Kate, and Kathy) and The Genesis Prescription Program with SoulCore Other Resources Mentioned: Encountering Emmanuel Resources Announcement: Season 16 will begin on January 20th, 2025! Journal Questions: - What would it look like for light to be born in the darkness of my life? - Where are the places I’m trying to escape or overcome my own humanity? - Where in my spiritual life do I feel like I’ve plateaued? - Pray the Litany of Encounter. Which line resonates with you at this moment? Discussion Questions: - When you think about seeing Jesus face-to-face, what questions, fears, or excitement are in your heart? - Where do you need the Holy Spirit to overshadow you? - What graces have you received this Advent? - What is Jesus inviting you to this Christmas season? Quote to Ponder: “Jesus has chosen to show me the only way which leads to the divine furnace of love; it is the way of a childlike self-surrender, the way of a child who sleeps, afraid of nothing, in its fathers arms.” (St Therese of Lisieux) Scripture for Lectio: “And His name shall be called Emmanuel, which means God with us.”  (Matthew 1:23) Sponsor - Stonecrop Wealth Advisors: Are your financial decisions truly aligned with your Catholic faith? Many investors are unaware that their portfolios might be supporting causes that contradict their deepest values in Christ. At Stonecrop Wealth Advisors, we believe it’s possible to invest in a way that reflects and honors your beliefs. We offer faith-based investment portfolios that avoid companies involved in activities contrary to Christian values, such as abortion, pornography, or pride parades. Instead, we focus on supporting businesses that align with the teachings of the Church and work to build the Kingdom of God while contributing positively to society. As a fee-only fiduciary, our primary mission is to serve your best interests. We offer financial advice and investment management designed to help you achieve your long-term goals without compromising your values. Whether you’re an individual, family, business, or non-profit, we’re here to provide you with a new path toward a faith-driven financial future. No matter where you are on your financial journey, you can start aligning your investments with your faith today. If you’re ready to transform your financial strategy and help ensure your investments are working to build a future guided by faith, reach out to Stonecrop Wealth Advisors. As part of our commitment to helping you, we’re offering a free financial plan and portfolio analysis. We’ll help you discover which of your current investments might be funding activities that go against your beliefs and guide you toward a faith-aligned investment strategy. To learn more and take the next step toward aligning your finances with your faith, visit https://www.stonecropadvisors.com/abidingtogether Investment advisory services are offered through Stonecrop Wealth Advisors, LLC, a Registered Investment Advisor with the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission. Timestamps: 00:00 - Stonecrop Wealth Advisors 01:13 - Intro 02:19 - Welcome 05:03 - Jesus Comes to Show Us God’s Love 07:07 - The Liturgical Seasons 08:33 - He Comes with a Cry 11:38 - He Comes with a Name 12:27 - He Comes as a Person with a Face 16:00 - He Comes with the Holy Spirit 20:30 - He Comes as a Gift to the World 25:10 - Litany of Encounter 29:02 - One Things
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        28S15 E13 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week ThreeIn this week's episode, we continue with “Week Three” in our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel. We meditate on the vulnerability of Jesus as a baby and how He comes as one who is little so we can know that we are loved in our littleness. We also reflect on what it looks like to have hope, how to love with an open heart, and the deeper meaning of incense. Jesus’ heart is an open place of refuge where we find the comfort and relief we so desperately need this Advent season. Heather’s One Things - The upcoming women’s conference at Franciscan June 6-8  (registration opens January 29, 2025) Sponsored by Abiding Together and Deacon Bob Rice’s new Scriptural Rosary Cards Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Restore the Glory Podcast episodes on redemptive suffering (Carrie Archual) (Part 1) (Part 2) Michelle’s One Things - This mug from Deacon Bob Rice, Trader Joe's winter peonies, and The Portal of the Mystery of Hope by Charles Peguy Other Resources Mentioned: - Encountering Emmanuel Resources Resources - The Hidden Meaning of Incense w/ Fr. Boniface Hicks Journal Questions: - What does abundant life look like in my life at this time? - How can I lean into Hope today? - When did I become so serious? - How can I allow the Lord to transform my woundedness into a sweet fragrance for the Lord? Discussion Questions: - How do you conflate abundant life with perfection? - Where are you holding onto hopelessness? - How can you live more openly even in the midst of pain? - How can you embrace more play in your life? Quote to Ponder: “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken.” (C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves) Scripture for Lectio: “I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them.”  (Hosea 11:4) Sponsor - Catholic Women & Couples NFP: Catholic Women & Couples NFP (CWCNFP) is a lay Catholic organization that is pleased to offer 100% free Natural Family Planning and Fertility Awareness Classes to any Catholic woman or couple 18 years of age and older. Their ministry exists to aid Catholics in pursuing lives in full harmony with Church teaching. By learning a fertility awareness method, Catholic women can be more in tune with their hormones, understand their fertility patterns, and plan their family in accordance with Church teaching. It is estimated that only 20% of Catholics have ever attempted a NFP method. CWCNFP’s ministry exists to change that statistic. They believe  all Catholic women and couples should learn a fertility awareness method, no matter their vocation or state in life. With online classes, they work with your busy schedule and offer classes in both Spanish and English. Many NFP courses can cost up to $300, but CWCNFP’s classes are ALWAYS free. They specifically teach the Billings Ovulation Method ®, which is very similar to the Creighton Method. However, they know that the Billings Method might not be for everyone, so if a client would like to learn a different NFP method they have a special partnership with MyCatholicDoctor that allows them to learn any method of their choosing as long as they have qualifying insurance. With qualifying insurance, this NFP instruction through MyCatholicDoctor would be covered. In addition, teens or non-Catholics who do not qualify for CWCNFP’s free NFP program will be able to find fertility awareness courses through MyCatholicDoctor, in which CWCNFP will assist with setting up. To learn more and to sign up for free classes, visit their website www.ccnfp.org or follow them on Instagram @cwcnfp Timestamps: 00:00 - Catholic Women and Couples NFP 01:30 - Intro 02:22 - Welcome 04:20 - Vulnerability and Hope 08:12 - Loving with an Open Heart 11:41 - Incense 16:06 - The Language of Play 22:22 - Thoughts for the Third Week of Advent 24:37 - One Things
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        29S15 E12 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week TwoIn this week's episode,  we continue in our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on “Week Two”. We ponder the reality that we are welcomed into Jesus’ family as heirs and children of God. We also discuss the restoration that takes place in family, relating to each other as spiritual family, and the ache we experience for union with God in Heaven. Heather’s One Thing - The community at Franciscan Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Gingerbread and gingerbread cookie recipes Michelle’s One Thing - The gift of community in North Carolina Other Resources Mentioned: Encountering Emmanuel Resources - Journal Questions: - How do I “sanitize” the Gospel and oversimplify the transformation Christ came to bring us? - In what parts of my heart am I not attached to the Lord? - Do I believe the Lord delights in the poor parts of my heart? Or do I believe He merely tolerates them? - How do I experience the Divine Ache in my life? Do I run from the ache or run towards the Lord when I experience it? Discussion Questions: - How have you experienced healing and restoration within your family? - How have you experienced the Trinity as a family? - How often do you consider the hope and reality of Heaven? - Have you experienced the transformation from deep aches to lasting hope? Quotes to Ponder: “The Word became flesh to make us “partakers of the divine nature”: “For this is why the Word became man, and the Son of God became the Son of man: so that man, by entering into communion with the Word and thus receiving divine sonship, might become a son of God.” “For the Son of God became man so that we might become God.” “The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods.” (CCC 460) Scripture for Lectio: “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received a spirit of adoption. When we cry, “Abba! Father!” it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ—if, in fact, we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him.” (Romans 8:14-17) Sponsor - In.spired Living: Inspired Living is a Catholic home decor, book and gift shop dedicated to helping you create a beautiful home full of reflections of the eternal. At Inspired Living we believe that our lives of faith begin at home, and therefore should be a reflection of that which is eternally beautiful, God Himself. At Inspired Living we have intentionally curated and brought to one place, the best of Catholic items across the web- whether that be, decor for your home, gifts for sacraments or books and sacramentals for enhancing your Iives of faith. We have brought them all together in one place, offering a unique array of handcrafted goods and exquisite gifts, made by artisans, not only in the United States, but around the world. Inspired Living is a small, family run business and we love partnering with artists and their families, all who are committed to bringing eternal beauty into the home. For all Abiding Together Listeners enjoy an exclusive 20% off discount using the code ABIDING20 at checkout. Visit us at theinspiredliving.net Inspired living - bringing eternal beauty to the home Timestamps: 00:00 - In.spired Living 01:08 - Intro 02:00 - Welcome, Scripture Verse, and Quote 04:58 - Familial Love of God 06:58 - Adoption and Belonging 10:47 - The Desire to Be Received 15:13 - A Way to Heaven 19:53 - The Ache Within Us 21:45 - Kindness vs. Comfort 24:59 - One Things
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        30S15 E11 - Encountering Emmanuel: Intro and Week OneIn this week's episode, we begin our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on the “Introduction” and “Week One”. We discuss the inspiration behind the book, the fruit that comes from journaling, and the call to recognize the voice of the Good Shepherd.  We also reflect on allowing Jesus to be born in our hearts, encounter our wounds, and bring light to our personal darkness. Heather’s One Thing - Josiah Henley’s artwork for Encountering Emmanuel and the wallpapers made by our friends at Tilma Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Heather’s updated advent worship playlist Michelle’s One Thing - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit with Dr. Mary Healy (S14 E15) and the Auburn win against Texas A&M Other Resources Mentioned: - Encountering Emmanuel Weekly Videos (sign up at the bottom of the page) - Encountering Emmanuel Leaders Guide (free resource) - Subscribe to our weekly newsletter Journal Questions: - In what ways am I transparent, but not vulnerable? - Am I allowing Jesus to come into my heart and actually transform me? - What is holding me back from letting “it be done according to [His] Word?” - What parts of yourself have yet to encounter the Real Jesus? Discussion Questions: - Do you believe the Lord has something new to offer you this Advent? - How are you experiencing resistance in your heart this Advent? - When it comes to your faith, are you completing tasks or are you encountering Jesus Christ? - How can you “wake up” from sleepwalking through life? Quotes to Ponder: “Awake, my soul, awake! Show thy spirit, arouse thy senses, shake off the sluggishness of that deadly heaviness that is upon thee, begin to take care for thy salvation. Let the idleness of vain imagination be put to flight, let go of sloth, hold fast to diligence” (St. Anselm of Canterbury) Scripture for Lectio: “I have come into the world as light, so that whoever believes in me may not remain in darkness.” (John 12:46) Sponsor - Into the Deep: A Lamp & a Light is a Scripture prayer journal for women that walks you through the movements of lectio divina with prompting questions. The journal provides 40 pre-selected Bible passages for you that are ideal for imaginative prayer. Then, you’ll have 40 blank pages where you can choose your own passages. If you have wanted to pray with Sacred Scripture but aren’t sure how or if you feel like you need a guide, this Scripture journal can help you go deeper in your personal relationship with the Lord. If you are in need of hope, perseverance, direction, joy, or faith through God’s unfailing Word, A Lamp & a Light is for you. You can get one for yourself, your mom, sister, and friends for 10% off at intothedeep.co with code ABIDE10. Timestamps: 00:00 - Into the Deep 01:34 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 05:32 - The Heart of Encountering Emmanuel 06:51 - Vulnerability and Openness 09:13 - Disposition of Our Hearts 11:30 - Quote to Ponder 12:21 - Coming Awake 13:40 - Personal Encounter 17:46 - The Fruit of Journaling 20:53 - Exploring Areas of Darkness 22:00 - He Comes with Power 26:17 - A Journey of Healing 29:48 - The Voice of the Shepherd 32:04 - One Things
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        31S15 E10 - Preparing for AdventIn this week's episode, we reflect on how to prepare for Advent. During this busy season, it is easy to spend more time preparing our home than our hearts and we chat about the need for slowing down, quieting our hearts and surroundings, and becoming attentive to God’s presence in our daily lives. We also share practical ways we prepare and wait for the coming of our Lord at Christmas. Heather’s One Thing - The songs Holy Forever (YouTube) and The Story I’ll Tell (YouTube) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Carmellite Sisters (View their upcoming events here) Michelle’s One Thing -  The song You Know My Name by Tasha Cobbs and This “Full of Hope” Advent Mug from Blessed is She Announcement: Our Advent study begins next week! Be sure to subscribe to our weekly email to receive each episode, discussion questions, and videos to your inbox. Journal Questions: - Ask the Holy Spirit: What do you want me to be present to this season? - Where do I need hope in my life? - Where do I lack peace in my life? - Where do I need joy in my life? - Where do I need to birth joy in my life? Discussion Questions: - What practices do you incorporate in Advent to embrace the season of preparation? - When will you take time for prayer this week and throughout Advent? - How can you better embrace Advent rather than just tolerate it? - How can you slow the interior pace of your heart in Advent? Quotes to Ponder: “The liturgy of Advent…helps us to understand fully the value and meaning of the mystery of Christmas. It is not just about commemorating the historical event, which occurred some 2,000 years ago in a little village of Judea. Instead, it is necessary to understand that the whole of our life must be an ‘advent,’ a vigilant awaiting of the final coming of Christ. To predispose our mind to welcome the Lord who, as we say in the Creed, one day will come to judge the living and the dead, we must learn to recognize him as present in the events of daily life. Therefore, Advent is, so to speak, an intense training that directs us decisively toward him who already came, who will come, and who comes continuously.” (St. John Paul II) Scripture for Lectio: “Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” (1 Peter 1:13) Sponsor - The Little Rose Shop: Discover the beauty of integrating faith into your everyday life with The Little Rose Shop. Our Morning Offering Prayer mug , is the perfect companion for your morning routine, allowing you to start each day with a heartfelt prayer, focusing your thoughts on Christ. Plus, explore our Quiet Books collection, including the Mass Quiet Book, Rosary Quiet Book, the Where is Jesus Quiet Book, and Wrapped in Mary’s Mantle Quiet Book. These engaging books are designed for babies and toddlers, making it easy to introduce them to the wonders of faith in a quiet and interactive way—perfect for adoration or Mass. As a special treat for Abiding Together listeners, use promo code ABIDING15 for an exclusive 15% discount at checkout. Enrich your spiritual journey and bring the joy of faith into your home with The Little Rose Shop. Timestamps: 00:00 - The Little Rose Shop 01:31 - Intro 02:24 - Welcome 04:44 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse 05:54 - Stillness 07:20 - Preparing Our Hearts 11:29 - Distractions 14:16 - Intentional and Incarnational 17:25 - Slowing Down 18:57 - Finishing Well 20:16 - Practical Ideas 25:59 - Announcement 27:36 - One Things 30:08 - Closing Prayer
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        32S15 E9 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 3)In this week's episode, we conclude our three part series on the heart and  Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on Scripture as a personal love story, how it speaks to our areas of weakness, and the awesome reality of Jesus desiring to love and heal us there. The Lord meets us where we are and He is always seeking to bring our hearts closer to His. He speaks directly to each one of us with an invitation to be loved and to love. This invitation of love requires a response not only in big moments but in the ordinary moments of each day. Heather’s One Thing - Her friends Laura and Brandon Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Farkle Classic Dice Game Michelle’s One Thing -  Nazareth Organics (especially the Sleep Balm) Michelle’s Other One Thing - The Florida State vs UNC game Other Resources Mentioned: - “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers - Dilexit Nos audio version Journal Questions: - How do I experience spiritual amnesia and forget the ways the Lord loves me? - When have I experienced the tender love of the Lord in places of poverty and isolation in my heart? - Where in my life do I need to hear the sweet sound of the Lord’s heartbeats? What does Jesus want to convey to me through that sound? - What parts of Christ’s Body, the Church, do I fail to love? Discussion Questions: - How has the Lord being present to your heart brought you healing and communion? - How has the barrage of tragedy and hardship from the news and social media hardened your heart toward human suffering? - Where are the lukewarm places of your heart? - What conversations can you have, actions can you take, or apologies can you make to love your neighbor like Christ? Quotes to Ponder: The pierced heart of Christ embodies all God’s declarations of love present in the Scriptures. That love is no mere matter of words; rather, the open side of his Son is a source of life for those whom he loves, the fount that quenches the thirst of his people. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 101) Saint Augustine opened the way to devotion to the Sacred Heart as the locus of our personal encounter with the Lord. For Augustine, Christ’s wounded side is not only the source of grace and the sacraments, but also the symbol of our intimate union with Christ, the setting of an encounter of love. There we find the source of the most precious wisdom of all, which is knowledge of him. In effect, Augustine writes that John, the beloved disciple, reclining on Jesus’ bosom at the Last Supper, drew near to the secret place of wisdom. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 103) Scripture for Lectio: “I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them.” (Hosea 11:4) Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. We love her prints and her candles. These candles smell so good and burn super slowly. She just released a beautiful collection of candle tins that are the perfect size for stockings and hostess gifts! She has a new image of the three wisemen on a Frankincense and Myrrh candle. Her candle scents are really unique and the artwork on the labels make them very intentional gifts. Her most popular candle in November is the Cranberry Orange Spice. It has a stunning image of the Holy Family on the label. She also has a Chrism Sacred Heart candle that smells JUST like Chrism! Leanne also offers Christmas cards of the Holy Family, Saint Nicholas, the three wisemen, and Mary holding Jesus. She is offering 15% off to all our listeners with the code ABIDE15 at www.LeanneBowen.com. We think you’ll love her stuff! Timestamps: 00:00 - Leanne Bowen 01:33 - Intro 02:26 - Welcome 05:10 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 06:26 - This is a Love Story 08:17 - Thirsting for God 10:30 - God Will Never Forget You 12:29 - Being Loved in Our Weaknesses 17:38 - Deeply and Individually Loved 19:42 - A Lament and a Request 22:42 - Loving Like Jesus 25:01 - Repairing 29:26 - Final Thoughts 30:36 - One Things
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        33S15 E8 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 2)In this week's episode, we continue our three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on our ache to be loved, how Jesus heals in close proximity to us, and the “science of the caress”. We also talk about how Jesus is a man who comes and finds us wherever we are and longs to open up a new place for us in relationship with Him. Will we allow our hearts to beat again with love? Heather’s One Thing - Thai Peanut Chicken Stir Fry Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Abuses in the Religious Life and the Path to Healing by Dom Dysmas de Lassus Michelle’s One Thing(s) - Fr. Mark Mary’s podcast: Rosary in a Year and Vanilla Caramel Nut Butter Other Resources Mentioned: “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers and Dilexit Nos audio version Journal Questions: - Do I perceive Jesus’ presence in my life as being up close to me, or at a distance? - How have I encountered Jesus as the Lover? - How do I project my scars onto Jesus? - Who in my community or in the Church is hardest for me to love right now? How can I love them better? - Where do I have a belief that Jesus is indifferent to me? Discussion Questions: - How have you experienced the ache to be cherished? - How can you bring communion where there is polarity and discord? - What happens in you when you consider the Sacred Heart of Jesus? - When have you blindly trusted in Jesus and His Love and Providence for you? How did He prove Himself trustworthy? Quotes to Ponder: “The heart of Christ, as the symbol of the deepest and most personal source of his love for us, is the very core of the initial preaching of the Gospel. It stands at the origin of our faith, as the wellspring that refreshes and enlivens our Christian beliefs.” (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 32) Scripture for Lectio: “Take heart, daughter!” (Matthew 9:22) Sponsor - Florecita Design: Florecita Design wants to help you build your domestic church. The Florecita Design Activity Bundle is a set of 12-15 printable activities for young children, delivered each month and based on the Catholic liturgical calendar. Every month, Florecita Design will help you incorporate math, science, and pre-literacy skills with your little kids all within the context of the Catholic Church. This Activity Bundle is a digital subscription created by a speech-language pathologist to provide parents with the tools and language to incorporate the faith easily into every day play for their 2 to 7 year-olds. All parents have to do is print the activities and follow along the instructional booklet for enriching, screen free ways to entertain their kids. Florecita Design just released the Advent and Christmas Activity Bundle, which is a holiday special with TWENTY activities, including puzzles, an Advent prayer banner, St. Nicholas activities, and so much more. To learn more, visit florecitadesign.com. You can use the code ABIDE10 for 10% off your first three months of the Activity Bundle! You can also follow along on Instagram @florecitadesign for speech-language tips, sales and liturgical living ideas for little kids. Let’s teach our kids the Catholic faith in ways that are simple, tangible and beautiful! Timestamps: 00:00 - Florecita Design 01:19 - Intro 02:12 - Welcome 02:43 - Actions Reflect Our Heart 04:09 - The Science of Caress 05:37 - The Humanity of Christ 08:26 - Aching to Be Loved 10:11 - The Holy Spirit and Community 14:03 - The Human Heart 17:08 - Vulnerability and Secure Love 20:00 - Our Image of God 23:08 - One Things
        Abiding Together29 min
        34S15 E7 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 1)In this week's episode, we begin a three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos (on the human and divine love of the Heart of Jesus Christ). We discuss how God, as the Divine initiator, loved us first and continuously calls us deeper into His most Sacred Heart. We also reflect on the meaning of our hearts, being captivated by Jesus’ love, and the beauty of allowing Him to set our hearts aflame. Heather’s One Thing - Man and Woman and the Order of Creation Conference at Franciscan University (view the livestream here) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Tomato Basil Soup Michelle’s One Thing - The book Sons in the Son by Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR, and Fr. Angelus Montgomery, CFR ( Sign up here to get the consecration reflections) Other Resources Mentioned: - “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers - Dilexit Nos audio version Journal Questions: - Who am I, really? What am I looking for? - What direction do I want to give to my life? Why and for what purpose am I in the world? - How do I want to look back on my life once it ends? What meaning do I want to give to all my experiences? - Who do I want to be for others? - Who am I for God? Discussion Questions: - How do you belittle or dismiss the movements of your own heart? - When do you feel distanced from your heart in this season? - How can you minimize the distance you have from your heart this week? - How do you self-protect instead of making a self-gift? - What direction do you want to give to your life? Why and for what purpose are you in the world? Quotes to Ponder: “The heart is also the locus of sincerity, where deceit and disguise have no place. It usually indicates our true intentions, what we really think, believe and desire, the “secrets” that we tell no one: in a word, the naked truth about ourselves. It is the part of us that is neither appearance or illusion, but is instead authentic, real, entirely “who we are”.”  (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 5) Scripture for Lectio: “He loved us first.”  (1 John 4:19) Sponsor - Reform Wellness: Reform Wellness is a Christ-centered functional medicine and holistic wellness ministry. Reform redefines health as the state of your body and soul. Their mission is to empower the whole person to find well-being in Christ and become the best versions of themselves physically and spiritually. Reform works with private clients, corporate teams, religious communities, and educational institutions worldwide, both in-person and online. They offer valuable information, educational resources, and lifelong tools to improve your physical and spiritual well-being. We invite you to learn more about Reform’s foundational course Reform Online which offers educational tools, best practices, and community through their nine wellness pillars centered in Christ. Reform is extending an exclusive discount for all our listeners on their upcoming Cohort: Reform Your Home and Family. We highly recommend this three-month foundational course; we’ve each taken Reform Online and still benefit from the fruits in our daily lives. Use code “Abide10'' for your exclusive discount through November 15. Timestamps: 00:00 - Reform Wellness 01:39 - Intro 02:31 - Announcement and Welcome 05:04 - About the Encyclical 06:53 - The Importance of the Heart 11:16 - The Heart as the Locus of Sincerity 14:54 - Our Heart is Meant for Love 18:46 - Being Captivated by Jesus’ Love 24:20 - The Sacred Heart Aflame with Love 25:51 - One Things
        Abiding Together31 min
        35S15 E6 - Practical Aspects of Living Out CommunityIn this week's episode, we continue our discussion on communion and focus on the practical aspects of living out in community. We reflect on the four main pillars of building a community: intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organically. We also talk about community as a journey and that we learn to love others by experiencing the love of God ourselves. This experience brings communion within us, which bears fruit, and then we are then able to give that love away to others. Heather’s One Thing - Friends of the Bridegroom Sister Miriam’s One Thing - What Vegetable are You? Quiz Michelle’s One Thing - Monk Manual Announcement: Check out our new Small Group Resource page! Journal Questions: - How can I express more mercy and curiosity within my community? - Who in my local community can I extend an invitation to? - Is there variety in my family’s community (vocations, ages, stages of life, etc)? - For those not currently in an Abiding Together small group: Consider praying about starting an Abiding Together small group or study group. What fears or concerns do I have about starting a group? Discussion Questions: - When do you feel more tempted to speak out harshly instead of conversing gently with those you’re in conflict with? - What repeating strains and roadblocks have you observed in your relationships over the years? What do you think God may be teaching you through those strains? - Throughout the episode, we covered four different aspects of community (intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organic engagement). Which of these aspects is hardest for you within your relationships? - How can you initiate moments of organic community in your current season? Set a goal for yourself this week and check back in with each next time you connect. Quotes to Ponder: "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331) “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community) Scripture for Lectio: “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47) Sponsor - Nazareth Organics: Nazareth Organics (@nazarethorganics) is a Catholic family-owned natural skincare company that handcrafts balms with high quality, wild-crafted, and organic ingredients from nature. From facial moisturizers and serums to diaper creams and body butters, Nazareth Organics carries nourishing natural products for a wide array of skin conditions. They use grass-fed tallow from a local Catholic farm as a base for many of their balms, because it is rich in fat-soluble vitamins and fatty acids that can increase collagen production, strengthen the skin, and calm inflammation. The best thing about this business is that it’s dedicated to the Holy Family of Nazareth. From website to packaging, every sustainably sourced product points back to the faith and the ultimate source of creation. They also donate a portion of all proceeds to Catholic charitable organizations. If you want to honor and care for your body using pure and natural ingredients straight from God’s hands, then check out Nazareth Organics. Find them at nazareth-organics.com and use code ABIDE10 at checkout for a 10% discount. Follow them on Instagram and Facebook at: @nazarethorganics. Timestamps: 00:00 - Nazareth Organics 01:31 - Intro 02:23 - Welcome and Recap 03:23 - Judgement vs Curiosity 06:36 - Bearing Fruit in Community 08:43 - Jesus as a Model of Community 11:05 - Aspects of Community 18:28 - Good Community Takes Time to Build 19:17 - Abiding Together Small Group Resources 22:22 - One Things
        Abiding Together29 min
        36S15 E5 - Theology of CommunionIn this week's episode, we talk about the theology of communion. Our desire for communion with others is very good and comes from God Himself. In fact, our ache for community is an ache for eternity. God desires to bring us into an eternal communion with Him and the community here on earth points towards this in a small way. We discuss what happens when we experience a broken community, the challenges faced in building community, and how community changes throughout the seasons of life. Heather’s One Thing - My art on the “They That Hope” podcast mug (add photos to website) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Best Ever Crock Pot Roast Recipe Michelle’s One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday Mass Journal Announcement: Order your Abiding Together shirt in our shop today! Journal Questions: - How have I been wounded within community? How have I been healed through community? - In what ways are my friendships free, total, faithful, and fruitful? In what ways are my friendships not free, total, faithful, and fruitful? - What kind of friend do I need to tend to my heart? - What kind of friend am I to my friends’ hearts? - How have I withheld belonging from others? Discussion Questions: - How has your need and capacity for community changed over the years? - How can you extend belonging to people in your community? - What lies isolate you from entering into friendship? - How is God inviting you to cultivate and receive community? Quotes to Ponder: "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331) “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community) Scripture for Lectio: “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47) Sponsor - CORDA: Connect with the saints through scent with CORDA’s handcrafted Catholic candles. Each candle scent is directly inspired by different saints and aspects of the faith, and is made with clean coconut wax and a beautiful, modern design. Be sure to sign up for the CORDA Fan Club, too: it’s free and an awesome way to earn points that you can redeem for free products, gift cards, and free shipping. You can join the club and explore CORDA’s gorgeous Catholic candles (and 3,000+ reviews!) at cordacandles.com. And when you’re placing your order, don’t forget to enter code ABIDINGTOGETHER to save 15% on everything, now through the end of the year. Thank you for supporting this Catholic small business! Timestamps: 00:00 - CORDA 01:23 - Intro 02:15 - Announcement 02:42 - Welcome 04:23 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quotes 05:47 - Initial Thoughts 08:41 - The Desire for Communion is Good 13:39 - Community Takes Work 16:36 - Learning How to Love 18:04 - Identifying the Lies 24:34 - Understanding the Wounds of Others 29:00 - One Things
        Abiding Together35 min
        37S15 E4 - Lectio DivinaIn this week's episode, we model what it looks like to pray Lectio Divina, which is a divine reading of Sacred Scripture. We begin by sharing the different ways we spend time in Sacred Scripture, how it has impacted our lives, and model how to pray Lectio Divina. We invite you to follow along and join us as we spend time reading and reflecting on John 15:5-8. Sacred Scripture is the voice of God and what He has said is alive forever and relevant to our lives in all situations. We encourage you to journey with us as we deepen our relationship with God through His word. Heather’s One Thing - Franciscan University’s Austria Study Abroad Program and Guadalupe Pilgrimage Sister Miriam’s One Thing - FOCUS film Radiating Joy: The Michelle Duppong Story (trailer here) Michelle’s One Thing -  Praying for anyone affected by hurricane Helene  Catholic Charities, Samaritan's Purse, Change Lives Now Other Resources Mentioned: Steps for Lectio Divina and  The Art and Practice of Lectio Divina Announcement: We are so excited to announce that we will have new Abiding Together shirts in our shop next week! Follow us on social media for all the latest updates! Journal Questions: - When do I encounter the Scriptures throughout my day? - Do I incorporate Lectio Divina into my prayer routine? - What obstacles prevent me from entering into Lectio Divina? - How can I begin to incorporate Lectio Divina more frequently into my prayer? Discussion Questions: - How have you been nourished by the Word of God? - Have you struggled to hear the voice of God in the past? - When do you hear the voice of God in this season of your life? - What stuck out to you during the Lectio Divina within the episode? Scripture for Lectio: “I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit; because apart from me you can do nothing. Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned. If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and become my disciples.” (John 15:5-8) Sponsor - Emmaus Road Publishing: Introducing Saints Around the World for Little Ones, a new six-volume collection from Emmaus Road Publishing! Following the success of the original Saints Around the World, this set for ages 0-8 shares the inspiring stories of 90 saints, presented through stunning illustrations and child-friendly text. Each book focuses on different types of saints—from young adventurers to warriors and royalty. You can purchase the books individually or get the whole set at a 15% discount, and you can use promo code Abide10 for an additional 10% off your purchase! Get them today at stpaulcenter.com/saints. Timestamps: 00:00 - Emmaus Road Publishing 01:09 - Intro 02:01 - Welcome 07:23 - Sacred Scripture in Our Lives 12:45 - How to Pray Lectio Divina 15:37 - First Reading 17:59 - Second Reading 19:23 - Third Reading 21:01 - Reflections 28:23 - One Things 32:06 - Announcement
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        38S15 E3 - Suffering & LoveIn this week's episode, we reflect on suffering and love. We all have deep and tender places in our hearts where we suffer. Sometimes we feel alone in these sorrows and because of this, turn inwards into our pain. But the reality is, we are never alone in our suffering; God is always with us. We also reflect on fear in suffering, suffering in isolation vs suffering in communion, and how to allow God’s light to shine into these sorrowful places. Heather’s One Thing - The Liturgy of the Hours subscription and Providential Co. (especially this Sacred Heart candle) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Magnificat (particularly a recent excerpt from Spe Salvi paragraphs 37-40) Michelle’s One Thing -  “Home: A Blessed Conversations Study on the Virtues of Mary” from Blessed is She and all the women in her small group (use link or code MICHELLE10 for 10% off) Announcement: Friends, we are excited to announce our 2024 Advent Study will be the book Encountering Emmanuel by Heather Khym! Journal Questions: - What suffering am I running from? - Take some time to identify your current fears. How can you let these fears bring you into an encounter with Love Himself? - Do I have a friend I can invite into my suffering? How can I be present to her suffering as well? - How has Jesus transformed injury into compassion in my life? Discussion Questions: - Are you suffering in communion or in isolation? - How can you suffer more like Jesus in this season? - What habits in your spiritual toolbox protect your heart in moments of suffering and desolation? - How can you love well when your heart is broken? Scripture for Lectio: “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8) Sponsor - Laura-Anne: Laura-Anne is a Catholic wedding photographer and marriage mentor who will help you thrive during your engagement, capture heirloom-quality photos of your wedding, and prepare for a joy-filled marriage that reflects God’s design. Because it's possible to plan a beautiful, thoughtful wedding reflective of both you and your fiance and, ultimately, surrender your desires for the day to the Lord…all while preparing your heart for the Sacrament of Marriage. Laura-Anne’s resources, like The Catholic Wedding Kit, will help you do just that. The Catholic Wedding Kit is a collection of digital tools to guide you through every decision you need to make about your wedding and the why behind each one, helping you communicate, pray, and discern as a couple. Learn more about The Catholic Wedding Kit and the rest of Laura-Anne’s resources and photography services at laura-anne.ca or on Instagram @lauraannesmid Use code ABIDE for 15% off any digital resources. Timestamps: 00:00 - Laura-Anne 01:28 - Intro 02:20 - Welcome 06:57 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 09:02 - Fear in Suffering 12:13 - Suffering in Communion 19:28 - Choosing to Love 27:41 - Transformation in Freedom 29:23 - Prayer 34:20 - Advent Study Announcement 36:13 - One Things
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        39S15 E2 - Living the Mysteries (Part 2)In this week's episode, we look back and remember both the glorious and luminous moments in our lives. We share how allowing the Holy Spirit to overshadow us has brought forth an overflowing of grace and restoration in our lives. We also reflect on how God desires to restore our voices in places where we are afraid and have become silent. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own glorious and luminous mysteries. Glorious - something you see the Lord redeeming and restoring (it can be in process) Luminous - something the Lord brought to light, an area or pruning, longing, and an ache Heather’s One Thing - The song Hell or High Water by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing - All moms whose kids went away to the first day of school Michelle’s One Thing - Spindrift half lemon & half tea and this  Ice Maker Journal Questions: - What were the glorious mysteries (something you see the Lord restoring) of my summer? - What were the luminous mysteries (something the Lord brought to light, an area of pruning, an ache) of my summer? - How is God restoring your voice in this season? - How have I forgotten that the Gospel is costly? Discussion Questions: - What have you been carrying by your own power, instead of by the Holy Spirit’s overshadowing? - “You do not need a new plan, you need a new posture.” What new posture is the Lord inviting you to? - What parts of your life need the gentle, healing touch of Jesus? - How has God responded to the aches and longings of your life right now? Quote to Ponder: "Dear friends, what an immense joy to have Mary Immaculate as our Mother! Every time we experience our frailty and the promptings of evil, we may turn to her and our hearts receive light and comfort. Even in the trials of life, in the storms that cause faith and hope to vacillate, let us recall that we are her children and that our existence is deeply rooted in the infinite grace of God. Although the Church is exposed to the negative influences of the world, she always finds in Mary the star to guide her so that she may follow the route pointed out to her by Christ.” (Angelus, December 8, 2009) Scripture for Lectio: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6) Sponsor - Ascension: It may seem like holiness is unattainable for normal, everyday people. But one saint shows us that our littleness is actually the way to holiness. In Story of a Soul, St. Thérèse of Lisieux’s autobiography, this little saint has taught generations that God can make us saints through unbounded confidence in his love and an embrace of our littleness. Starting October 1st, the feast day of St. Thérèse, you can listen to the only authorized full English translation of Story of a Soul, along with expert commentary, for free on the Catholic Classics podcast! This podcast is available to you on all major podcast platforms including Apple podcasts and Spotify. Plus, you can get the beautiful Catholic Classics edition from Ascension of Story of a Soul to follow along with the podcast. Ascension’s Catholic Classics edition of Story of a Soul is created in collaboration with the Institute of Carmelite Studies. Included in this new edition are photos from St. Thérèse’s life, additional expert commentary, plus more to help you understand and dive into this important Catholic text. Download the reading plan and order your copy of Story of a Soul at AscensionPress.com/Abide. Timestamps: 00:00 - Ascension 01:12 - Intro 02:05 - Welcome 03:36 - Guiding Quote 04:44 - Glorious 15:22 - Luminous 24:32 - Scripture Verse 24:52 - One Things
        Abiding Together30 min
        40S15 E1 - Living the Mysteries (Part 1)In this week's episode, we look back over the past year and remember both the joyful and sorrowful moments in our lives. We discuss the importance of regularly bringing our attention to what God is doing in our lives and reflecting on the opportunities we have to deepen our surrender to God’s provision. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own joyful and sorrowful mysteries. Joyful - an area of delight or gratitude where you have felt the tangible presence of the Lord Sorrowful - a hurt or an obstacle we’ve noticed Heather’s One Thing - Big Apple Catholic’s new shop! Especially the Holy Spirit crew neck Sister Miriam’s One Thing - A quote from St. Catherine of Siena “He will provide the way and the means, such as you could never have imagined. Leave it all to Him, let go of yourself, lose yourself on the Cross, and you will find yourself entirely.” Michelle’s One Thing - LifeTeen Summer Camp and Camp Chosatonga Other Resources Mentioned: - The Women Doctors of the Church Podcast Series Announcement: New Abiding Together merch is coming soon! Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter to receive updates. Journal Questions: - What were the joyful mysteries (delights, tangible gratitude) of my summer? - How are you waiting on the Lord’s Providence? - What were the sorrowful mysteries (hurts, obstacles) of my summer? - Where in my life do I believe that if “it feels bad, it is bad?” Discussion Questions: - Who walked with you throughout this summer? - How have you tangibly experienced Christ’s presence in the midst of sorrow? - Where have you experienced healing from the Lord this summer? - What changes are you sensing (internally or externally) with the start of fall? Quote to Ponder: “Looking at Mary, how can we, her children, fail to let the aspiration to beauty, goodness and purity of heart be aroused in us? Her heavenly candor draws us to God, helping us to overcome the temptation to live a mediocre life composed of compromises with evil, and directs us decisively towards the authentic good that is the source of joy.” (Angelus, December 8, 2005 Pope Benedict) Scripture for Lectio: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) Sponsor - Called to Communicate Our baptism equips and compels us to extend the prophetic mission of Jesus Christ.  Each woman who has encountered Christ has a story and a message of hope. We live in times that need women’s voices to reclaim the power of words and put them in the service of the Gospel. Called to Communicate is a free 5-day online conference beginning September 30, 2024. This online event promises encouragement, laughter, tears, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom from the women leading in the Church’s mission of evangelization. Register at CalledtoCommunicate.com. If the event dates have passed, the entire conference is still available to purchase and watch!  Listen to powerful interviews with Heather, Michelle, Sister Miriam and many others. Use code “Abide” for $10 off extended access and bonus gifts. Timestamps: 00:00 - Called to Communicate 01:28 - Intro 02:21 - Welcome 06:37 - Guiding Quote 07:40 - Joy 15:36 - Sorrow 30:05 - One Things 33:02 - Announcement
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        41Bonus: Abiding in HopeIn this bonus episode, Heather is joined by Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR live at the National Eucharistic Congress (NEC) for a special Abiding Together and They that Hope podcast mashup. They reflect on their experiences at the NEC and share how they hope God will transform the lives of not only those in attendance, but also those at home. Heather and Fr. Dave also discuss finding Jesus in our daily lives and the importance of feasting on God instead of earthly things. This episode is a production of Franciscan University and OSV. Special thanks to MAX Studios for recording and hosting the live podcast stage. Heather’s Highlight from the NEC - Adoration with Floriani Heather’s One Thing - Receiving a copy of her new book:  Encountering Emmanuel (A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Meditation) Fr. Dave’s Highlight from the NEC - His time spent with the young people at the Congress Fr. Dave’s One Thing - Deep friendships Other Resources Mentioned: - Msgr. James Shea’s Full Speech at the National Eucharistic Congress Announcement: - Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates! Journal Questions: - How have I experienced Eucharistic revival this year? - Have you allowed the stress of your duties and burdens take your eyes off Christ in this season? - How can I shift my gaze from my inner world to Christ? Discussion Questions: - How has Christ encountered you personally when you felt lost in the crowd? - What obstacles cause you to miss Him when He’s right in front of you? - How can you put yourself back into the reality that God is sovereign and in control? Quote to Ponder: “The One whom the Father has sent into our hearts, the Spirit of his Son, is truly God. Consubstantial with the Father and the Son, the Spirit is inseparable from them, in both the inner life of the Trinity and his gift of love for the world. In adoring the Holy Trinity, life-giving, consubstantial, and indivisible, the Church's faith also professes the distinction of persons. When the Father sends his Word, he always sends his Breath. In their joint mission, the Son and the Holy Spirit are distinct but inseparable. To be sure, it is Christ who is seen, the visible image of the invisible God, but it is the Spirit who reveals him.” (CCC 689) Scripture for Lectio: “When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight. They said to each other, “Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?” (Luke 24:30-32)
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        42S14 E22 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 13-17)In this week's episode, we conclude our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe. We chat about the resurrection, what it means to be restored and reconciled, and making space for childlike wonder. We hope you’ve enjoyed this book study with us and will see you again this Fall! Everyone’s One Thing - The “Abiding” Women’s Conference in Louisiana Journal Questions: - Where do I need to ask God for mercy in my life right now? - Where is my heart hard? - How can I allow time and space for playfulness, joy, and childlike wonder? - Where am I dying and need Christ to bring life and make things new? Discussion Questions: - When have you experienced mercy? - Who is someone that you need to offer mercy to? - What do you experience when God has you in a process or journey? Are you able to be patient or are you filled with unrest and anxiety? - In what ways do you live life in gray? In what ways do you live life in technicolor? Quote to Ponder: “We are not on earth to guard a museum, but to cultivate a flowering garden of life.” - Pope John XXIII Scripture for Lectio: “Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in the newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his.” - Romans 6:4-5 Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:37) - Welcome (03:00) - Aslan Gives His Life for Edmund (07:27) - The Process and Pain of Restoration (11:16) - Communion in Suffering (15:17) - Resurrection (19:32) - Living in Technicolor (23:53) - The Final Battle (24:25) - Returning to the Wardrobe (27:42) - Childlike Faith (29:08) - One Things
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        43S14 E21 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 9-12)In this week's episode, we continue with our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe (chapters 9-12). We discuss themes like the false narrative of the enemy, the dynamic of stoney hearts that God wants to restore and turn to flesh, true living of the paschal mystery, and the power of God’s resurrection power in our lives. We hope you enjoy this episode! Heather’s One Thing - The Abiding Together small groups! We love you! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Fire Within- Fr. Thomas Dubay Michelle’s One Thing - The movie “Gifted” Journal Questions: - Instead of being child-like, we can be childish with God. What is the difference between these two dynamics that I can see in my own life? - The enemy makes empty promises. What is one empty promise that he has made to me? - What is one promise of God and His faithfulness that I have seen at work in my life? - “Battle looks like surrender.” What is one battle that I need to move into a disposition of surrender to God? Discussion Questions: - What is one of the false narratives that the enemy has been telling in your life? - What do you think the Father wants to say about that false narrative? - What area of your heart do you feel has been turned to stone or has been hardened? Why? - “Hurting people, hurt people.” How have you experienced this concept and how can we offer a response of healing? - Where have you settled for the dry bread from the enemy instead of the banquet that God is offering you? Quote to Ponder: "Aslan is on the move” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe Scripture for Lectio: “A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you; and I will remove from your body the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” -Ezekiel 36:26 Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:36) - Welcome (03:42) - Edmund’s Narrative (10:48) - The Winter in Our Hearts (13:16) - Father Christmas vs the White Witch (15:15) - The Gifts of Father Christmas (20:03) - The Empty Promises of Turkish Delight (23:02) - The Thawing of Winter into Spring (27:09) - One Things
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        44S14 E20 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 5-8)In this week's episode, we continue our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Chapters 5-8. We reflect deeper on the story and how it relates to our spiritual lives. Themes such as the battle of light and darkness, jealousy and making others feel small, the power of the name of Jesus, surrender vs control and how the story of Narnia is an echo of what our hearts long for in Christ. Heather’s One Thing - Evangelization Ministry of Catholic Christian Outreach Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The women from the “Undone” retreat Michelle’s One Thing - The book “Just Mercy” by Bryan Stevenson Journal Questions: - Who can I go to who will speak wisdom into my life? - Like Edmund, are there any places in my life that I feel fear when I think about God? - What parts of my heart have been turned to stone and need the warmth of God’s hand to bring them back to life? Discussion Questions: - What is one truth about God that you can see in your story? - Where do you need to grow into your royal identity as a daughter of God? - Discuss the truth about how the name of Jesus contains His presence. How could this change how you pray? - “He isn’t safe, but He’s good.” How have you experienced the truth of this quote? Quote to Ponder: “"Safe?" said Mr. Beaver ..."Who said anything about safe? Course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you.”” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Scripture for Lectio: "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true. He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children." - Revelation 21:4-7 Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:36) - Welcome (03:48) - Discovering the Truth (08:33) - The Professor (14:14) - Going Back into the Wardrobe (15:22) - The Power of Aslan (23:54) - Safety and Goodness (29:56) - One Things
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        45S14 E19 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4)In this week's episode, we begin our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4). We dive into the themes of this chapter such as innocence, faith, temptation, sin, and shared adventure. We hope you will continue to join us on the journey into this wonderful story, which we hope will help us reflect more deeply on our relationship with Christ, our own story of faith and redemption, and the invitation to adventure with God. Heather’s One Thing - Her Into the Deep Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song “Pieces” (the live version) by Amanda Cook Michelle’s One Thing - The song “Electricity” by Ellie and Drew Holcomb Other Resources Mentioned: - Audiobook on YouTube Journal Questions: - How has the enemy spoken things in my life that bring about shame? - What are the parts of Edmund that I see in myself? What parts of Lucy do I see? - What is my Turkish delight (sin or temptation) that keeps me bound? - Where are the places I hide from the Lord and others? Discussion Questions: - What stood out to you in the reading for this week? - Where in my life has the enemy taken a place and I need "Christmas" to come? - Discuss the difference of femininity between Lucy and the witch. How have different examples of femininity affected your life? - When we numb our heart and our identity, we numb our wonder and our inheritance. How have you seen this truth in your life? - Where are the places and spaces that you can find wonder that leads to God? Quote to Ponder: "And what wonderful adventures we shall have, now that we are all in it together." - (Lucy) C.S. Lewis Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3) Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction (01:39) - Welcome (4:00) - History of Narnia (9:48) - Lucy in the Beginning (16:37) - Edmund in the Beginning (22:38) - Winter vs Christmas (26:00) - Living like Lucy and Learning from Edmund (30:21) - Final Reflections (33:13) - One Things (36:54) - Photo Challenge
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        46S14 E18 - Lessons LearnedIn this week's episode, we conclude season 14 by reflecting on what we have learned in our lives this past season. We chat about surrendering control and allowing the Holy Spirit to move in power, the need to be grateful for what we already have and the importance of being present in the present moment. We also share personal experiences of transformation and deep intimacy we have found with God, even in the midst of suffering. Thank you for an amazing season, we are truly honored to be on this journey with you. God bless! Heather’s One Thing - Her recent Healing Pilgrimage to France through Franciscan University (check out their website to join future pilgrimages) and Michelle’s Sweatshirt Sister Miriam’s One Thing - You :) Michelle’s One Thing - Her Summer Reading List, Word on Fire’s children’s books, and the book Between Brothers by Sarah Metts Announcements: Join us July 8-29 2024 as we re-release our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by CS Lewis. Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates! Journal Questions: - Which episode, conversation, or theme resonated with me most this season? - What miracles have I been managing lately? - What has the process of transformation looked like in my life? - How do I partner with fear in my life? What freedom and goodness does the Lord offer me in those areas? Discussion Questions: - What does it look like to move through the power of the Holy Spirit? - What is God asking you to get rid of and let go of before you move into the next season of life? - What graces are you grateful for in this season of your life? - How will you cultivate intimacy with the Lord and community with others throughout the summer? Quote to Ponder: “Faith walks simply, childlike, between the darkness of human life and the hope of what is to come.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” (Colossians 3:15) Sponsor - Behold Visio Divina: Encounter the Lord more deeply amidst all the seasons in life through Behold Visio Divina.  Behold is devoted to helping women encounter who Christ is through prayer and sacred art.  Through their books, formation, and workshops, Behold hopes women can encounter the beauty of who God created them to be and share that with the world! Offering over 10 different sacred art prayer companions on themes such as praying through fear, post abortive healing, relational healing, and many others, Behold has options for every woman’s heart. Upcoming book topics include miscarriage and infant loss, iconography, and scrupulosity. Friend, you are seen, known, and loved wherever the Lord has you in life.  And we are here to provide the opportunity to invite you and Jesus into conversation through art and community.  We currently are accepting registration for our in person and virtual groups taking part this summer.  Take a look at our small groups here and join us! Because the Abiding Together community holds such a special place in our heart, Behold is offering 15% off any of their items, small group registration, and books.  Use the code “ABIDING” for this special rate at www.beholdvisiodivina.com.  On our website you can also register for our “Weekly Dose of Beauty” emails! We hope you can join our Behold family soon, please know of our prayers for you!
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        47S14 E17 - Worship (with Sarah Kroger)In this week's episode, we welcome Sarah Kroger, a GMA Dove Award®-nominated artist, songwriter, and worship leader to the podcast to speak into the beauty of worship. Sarah shares her story of becoming a worship leader, how she creates music based on the joys and sorrows from her personal life, and her passion for collaborating with others and the Holy Spirit. We also chat about spiritual dryness, cultivating peace and persisting in faith while in seasons of darkness, and the fruit that comes about from suffering. Check out Sarah’s new album, A New Reality, here! Heather’s One Thing - Pinwheel recipe and the upcoming Restore the Glory Podcast series on our four identities Sister Miriam’s One Thing - CORDA (especially the Valor and Grace candle) Michelle’s One Thing - The book Aslan’s Breath: Seeing the Holy Spirit in Narnia by Matthew Dickerson and her priest friends and the gift of their fatherhood Sarah’s One Thing - The book The Night is Normal by Dr. Alicia Britt Chole and Sourdough bread! Other Resources Mentioned: - Check out Sarah’s website and Listen to her new album, A New Reality, on Spotify Journal Questions: - What parts of my life or my faith scare me? How can I find God in those scary parts? - When have I experienced a dying of my childhood faith? When have I experienced a resurrection of that death? - Whose suffering has borne fruit in my life? - How can I submit my will to God to more closely work in partnership with Him? Discussion Questions: - How has your practice of faith evolved throughout different seasons? - How are you using your gifts to glorify God? How are you withholding my gifts? - How can you invite the Holy Spirit into your own gifts and projects? - What’s your next right step in following the inspiration of the Holy Spirit? Quote to Ponder: “I raise a hallelujah, in the presence of my enemies. I raise a hallelujah, louder than my unbelief. I raise a hallelujah, my weapon is a melody.” (Raise A Hallelujah by Jonathan and Melissa Helser) Scripture for Lectio: “But the hour is coming and is now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:23-24) Sponsor - Annunciation Heights: Looking for an adventure-filled experience rooted in your Catholic faith this summer?  Annunciation Heights Catholic Youth and Family Camp in Estes Park, Colorado is the perfect place for you and your family! As a ministry of the Archdiocese of Denver, Annunciation Heights exists to be a place of transformative encounter with Jesus Christ, so that all who come to camp may live life fully for the glory of the Father.  A Catholic camping experience can be deeply transformative for your child and your family. With week-long youth camps, four-day family camps, and outdoor education and retreat programs throughout the year, the impact of camp can last a lifetime. Join us at the Heights and discover what God has in store!  To register for a camp program or to learn more, visit our website at AnnunciationHeights.org today!
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        48S14 E16 - Mothering Our Little Places (with Brya Hanan)In this week's episode, we welcome Brya Hanan, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to share how we can learn to engage as an adult with the young parts of ourselves. Brya shares her story, the trauma she experienced as a child, and how it affected not only her self-perception but also how she related to others. She reflects on her healing journey and shares practical ways you can begin your healing journey. We also chat about how our unmet needs as a child can affect us as adults, how to have compassion for ourselves in our brokenness, and why healing ourselves allows us to love those around us much more fully. Heather’s One Thing - Her parents Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Lentil Curry and Naan Bread Michelle’s One Thing - Her husband, Chris, and his loving support Brya’s One Thing - Barre Classes! Other Resources Mentioned: - Buy Brya’s book here - Check out Brya’s website and Instagram - Restore the Glory Podcast Episode 99: Parts Work with Brya Hanan Journal Questions: - Where do I sense deep divides within myself? - How do I care for others as a way of avoiding care for myself? - What would it look like for me to befriend my inner child? - What are my defense mechanisms? - Is it time to seek out therapy? Discussion Questions: - What “templates” of wounds and experiences do you find yourself living through? - In your healing journey, when have you experienced things getting worse before they got better? What made the change for the better? - What does your inner child need to hear today? - When do you feel dysregulated? - When do you feel well-regulated? Quotes to Ponder: “Remember, you are held safe. You are loved. You are protected. You are in communion with God and with those whom God has sent you. What is of God will last. It belongs to the eternal life. Choose it, and it will be yours.” (Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love) “The history of every human being passes through the threshold of a woman’s motherhood.” (Saint Pope JPII) Scripture for Lectio: A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She had suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better she grew worse. When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.” Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering. At once Jesus realized that power had gone out from him. He turned around in the crowd and asked, “Who touched my clothes?” “You see the people crowding against you,” his disciples answered, “and yet you can ask, ‘Who touched me?’ ” But Jesus kept looking around to see who had done it. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you.Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” (Mark 5: 24- 34) Sponsor - Holy Confident Birth: Are you an expectant mama who’s dreaming of a natural birth experience that feels like an act of worship, leaves you feeling empowered in your motherhood, and even brings you closer to Christ? Maybe you’ve been searching high and low for a resource that will help you get there AND that aligns with your Catholic values, but it just didn’t seem to exist! If you want to feel EQUIPPED to knock your birth out of the park, EMPOWERED in your ability to make informed decisions, and EXCITED for the Spirit-led, fear-free birth you’ve been dreaming of, The Holy Confident Birth Course might be just the solution you’ve been looking for. Inside this course, you’ll find eight modules comprised of video lessons and handouts,where you’ll learn about the labor and birth process, building the perfect team, managing your options and interventions, advocating for yourself during labor and so much more! If you want to take the next step towards a birth you’ll love, learn more at www.holyconfidentbirth.com/birthcourse and use code ABIDE for an extra $49 off at checkout.
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        49S14 E15 - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit (with Dr. Mary Healy)In this week's episode, we welcome Dr. Mary Healy, author, and professor of Scripture at Sacred Heart Major Seminary, to talk about living life in the power of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Healy shares how her life was radically transformed through an encounter with the Holy Spirit and reflects on the beauty of allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life. We also chat practically about how to live life day by day in the power of the Holy Spirit, how to learn to hear and respond to the voice of the Holy Spirit, and how we can prepare our hearts for Pentecost. Heather’s One Thing - Wild Goose Series on the Holy Spirit Heather’s Other One Thing - Peter and Debbie Herbeck (check out Renewal Ministries and Be Love Revolution) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Springtime! Michelle’s One Thing - Camp Chosatonga (for boys) and Camp Kahdalia (for girls) and Mission on the Mountain Dr. Mary Healy’s One Thing -  Blessed Elena Guerra Journal Questions: - When did the love of God first become real to me? - Have you ever experienced “white knuckle” Christianity? - How can I live my life in the power of the Holy Spirit? - What areas of my life are hardest to surrender to the Holy Spirit? - Where in my life have I rationed the Holy Spirit? Where am I blocking the Holy Spirit? Discussion Questions: - When do you feel like your failures are too much for God? - What has your experience been with the Holy Spirit? - Who in your life is filled with the fire of the Holy Spirit? - What sacrifices have I had to make to surrender more fully to God? Quote to Ponder: “I would sacrifice myself a thousand times if I had the lives . . . I will go and I will do as the Holy Spirit inspires me” (Catherine of Sienna) Scripture for Lectio: “When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them.  All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.” (Acts 2:1-4) Sponsor - Hallow: Get 3 months free of Hallow, the #1 app for prayer, meditation, and music at https://www.hallow.com/abide with over 10,000 audio-guided prayers to help you find peace and grow closer to God. Join the 33 Days to Morning Glory Marian Consecration with Sr. Miriam today!
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        50S14 E14 - Leading with God-Given Authority (Part 2)In this week's episode, we continue our conversation about leading with our God-given authority, particularly in our spiritual or biological motherhood. We talk about how God has blessed us with the Sacraments, Scripture, and prayer to fight spiritual battles. We reflect on the importance of rooting our identity in Christ, how Our Lady modeled feminine leadership, and practical ways to do spiritual warfare. We also discuss generational bondage, repairing trust, and the power of an apology given and received. Heather’s One Thing - Her Battle Cry playlist and her friendship with Michelle and Sister Miriam and the way they have helped her through dark seasons in life Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Having Heather visit and The Litany of the Waiting Woman Michelle’s One Thing - Bee Still a Catholic Jewelry Company Other Resources Mentioned: - Priscilla Shirer’s talk on the Armor of God and the schemes of the devil - Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burn’s talks on forgiveness (Healing Through Forgiveness and Seeking Healing Through Forgiveness) - Sr. Miriam’s  Forgiveness Meditation - Renouncing Lies and Announcing Truth – 7 Deadly Wounds - Scripture Verses on Identity Journal Questions: - What areas does the enemy often attack me in this area? What are my frequent sins? - What are the deeper longs behind my frequent sins? - Am I tempted to under-spiritualize or over-spiritualize the sufferings, temptations, and attacks in my life? - When did I last go to confession? When am I planning to go next? - What battles have I inherited from my family? How can I take responsibility for those battles? Discussion Questions: - How can you apply the invitation to worship rather than worry in your current season? - What are the prayers and tools God has given you out of love to help you on this journey? - Who has been entrusted to you? How can you pray for them and do battle? - Where in my life can I invite Christ’s Precious Blood into my life and family? - What are some of Jesus’ promises in response to the attacks you face? Quote to Ponder: “Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.” (Ephesians 6:10-18) Scripture for Lectio: “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them” (Deuteronomy 4:9) Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. Leanne is a Catholic Artist and a stay at home mom. She has released a beautiful collection of candles, prints, and gifts just in time for Mother's Day, Confirmations and all the upcoming Sacraments! She has an incredible Holy Spirit candle and a baptism candle that smells just like Chrism. These are beautiful gifts intentionally curated for those receiving their Sacraments. Her most popular print, Sacrifice of Love, depicts a married couple embracing the cross on their wedding day. It is bound to be the most intentional gift your friends or family will receive for their wedding. Leanne also just released a batch of bronze Prayer Card Holders that are absolutely stunning. They come in a three pack of each of the Hearts of the Holy Family. They are sturdy and beautiful- the perfect weight to hold small prints. She is offering 15% off site wide to all our listeners with the code ABIDE15 at www.LeanneBowen.com.
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        51S14 E13 - Leading with God-Given AuthorityIn this week's episode, we reflect on leading with our God-given authority rather than worldly influence. We discuss the importance of remembering our identity in Christ and how true authority is a display of intimacy that has been rooted in a real tangible love. We share the ways we may have been wounded by authority figures in our past, why these wounds can distort our perception of authority, and how to heal from these wounds so that we can lead others into the light of Christ. Heather’s One Thing - Chicken Khao Soi (Thai Coconut Curry Noodle Soup) from My Kitchen Little Sister Miriam’s On Thing - The book Litanies of the Heart by Dr Gerry Crete Michelle’s One Thing - Beatify: Lullabies with the Saints (an album of Catholic lullabies) from Beatify with Josh Blakesley and Kelly Lombardi Other Resources Mentioned: The Restore the Glory Podcast series on Parts Work (Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete; Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan; Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller) Journal Questions: - How have I abdicated my God-given authority? - When do I perceive surrender to be a form of defeat? - How has authority been misused in my life? - How is God inviting me to stay with Him in faithfulness and obedience? - Where do I need to be both honoring and honest? Discussion Questions: - How often do you think God is holding out on you? - How do I lose sight of God-given authority by seeking out worldly influence? - What accountability do I need to choose surrendered, God-given authority over worldly influence? - When have you felt safe under God’s authority? - How do you need to grow and mature to better lead and serve others? Quote to Ponder: “The fourth commandment opens the second table of the Decalogue. It shows us the order of charity. God has willed that, after him, we should honor our parents to whom we owe life and who have handed on to us the knowledge of God. We are obliged to honor and respect all those whom God, for our good, has vested with his authority.” (CCC 2197) Scripture for Lectio: “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.” (Deuteronomy 4:9) Sponsor - WalletWin: A big thank you to our sponsor WalletWin, Catholic financial formation for the whole family and creators of The Catholic Money Academy. Most of us were never taught how to manage our money 💰from a Catholic perspective. This has left many feeling weighed down 😩about finances and unable to freely pursue God’s calling. This is why we’re so excited to tell you about Catholic Money Academy from WalletWin. Since 2017, they’ve helped thousands of Catholics… …eliminate debt 💸 …build their savings 💪 …morally invest  🙌 …give generously ❤️ …and more! With their step-by-step program rooted in Catholic principles, they take the guesswork out of managing money. The Catholic Money Academy contains engaging video content, live coaching calls, and thorough financial formation to help you become the good steward you’re called to be. 🕊️💰 If you’re ready to feel confident and at peace with your finances, visit WalletWin.com/AbidingTogether to start your extended 30-day free trial. Other Resources and Products You’ll Love from WalletWin: 🚑 The Catholic Family Emergency Binder 🗓️ The BIG Catholic Calendar 👦🏻 WalletWin Kids 🎧 The Catholic Money Show Podcast
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        52S14 E12 - Living in the ResurrectionIn this week's episode, we reflect on the themes of resurrection, grief, and hope in Pope Francis’ Easter Vigil homily. We chat about the sadness of unfulfilled dreams and the tender places in our hearts where we are afraid to hope and want to stay in the tomb. We also talk about the anxieties and worries that can come with trying to figure things out on our own and the importance of surrendering our plans to God. Just like Christ, we are called to walk through the sufferings of this life with Him into the Resurrection. Heather’s One Thing -  Her Easter playlist Heather’s Other One Thing - The book Becoming Wife: Saying Yes to More than the Dress by Rachel Bulman (or on Amazon here) Sister Miriam’s On Thing - The book Beloved Daughter by Carrie Daunt Michelle’s One Thing - The book Befriending Your Inner Child: A Catholic Approach to Healing and Wholeness by Brya Hanan (or on Amazon here) Other Resources Mentioned: The Restore the Glory Podcast series on Parts Work (Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete; Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan; Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller) Journal Questions: - What hopes have been dashed by the sorrowful mysteries of my life? - Where are the places that I am afraid to hope? - Do I believe my dreams are doomed to fail? - What anxieties in my heart are preventing me from hoping? Discussion Questions: - How are you still living in winter during the spring of Easter? - Do you know how to practice Resurrection? - In what ways do you believe your dreams rely on you for their fulfillment? - How do you intellectualize or explain away your dreams? Quote to Ponder: “Yet the same women who bore this darkness in their hearts tell us something quite extraordinary. When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back. This is the Pasch of Christ, the revelation of God’s power: the victory of life over death, the triumph of light over darkness, the rebirth of hope amid the ruins of failure. It is the Lord, the God of the impossible, who rolled away the stone forever. Even now, he opens our hearts, so that hope may be born ever anew. We too, then, should “look up” to him.” (Pope Francis, Easter Vigil Homily) Scripture for Lectio: “When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back.” (Mark 16:4) Sponsor - Farm of the Child: Farm of the Child is a Catholic children's home, school and clinic in Trujillo, Honduras where children receive healing care from a team of Honduran staff, Franciscan sisters, and international missionaries. Each year, the Farm of the Child attracts dedicated missionaries who make a 2 year commitment of service. Missionaries come from all different walks of life in order to serve in a variety of functions such as teaching, nursing, project management and community outreach. After spending 6 weeks in Antigua, Guatemala learning Spanish, missionaries travel to the children’s home where they live together and are guided by the four pillars of community, spirituality, simplicity and service.  Short term immersion trips, remote and summer service opportunities are also available. If you think you might be called to serve in the capacity of an international missionary, email missions@farmofthechild.org. Want to learn more about how to get involved in the mission in the US? Check out farmofthechild.org and sign up for our monthly newsletter here: https://www.farmofthechild.org/contact-us
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        53S14 E11 - A Time of Renewal (Holy Week: Focus)In this week's episode, we conclude our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and discuss the theme of “focus”. We chat about our natural temptation to focus on our woundedness, why we should take action and invite Jesus into these places, and how our wounds can be transformed into signs of the resurrection power of Christ. We also talk about the crosses we bear and the importance of recognizing the little resurrections in our life. Friends, thank you for journeying with us this Lenten season. We look forward to seeing you again after Easter! Heather’s One Thing -  Our team behind the scenes: Kate, Camille, and Kristina! We are so grateful for you Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Springtime! Michelle’s One Thing - These Easter themed charcuterie boards! Option 1 Here. Option 2 Here. Announcement(s): We will be taking a two week break for Easter beginning on 4/1/24! Season 14 will continue on 4/15/24! Journal Questions: - What was hard for me? - What were the graces and mercies I experienced? - How have I grown? - How can I make this week holy? - What wounds do I bring to Jesus? What wounds do I simply “stare at”? Discussion Questions: - Where in your life are you seeking glory? - Do I live like the Resurrection is a reality? - When do you lose hope? - Does the story you tell yourself about God align with God’s story (the Paschal Mystery)? - What are the places of my heart that I don’t believe the narrative (of the Paschal Mystery)? Quotes to Ponder: “How are wounds made glorious? By our deciding what we will do with them. Our Jesus turned his wounds into beauty, and there is not one of us who would say, “Oh, this should not be in eternity.” Our poor hearts thrill to the verity that he is always showing his wounds to the Father on our behalf. They are transformed now in glory. Likewise, there is a transformation that we too can make of our own little everyday wounds which sometimes seem so deep and so big and so insufferable to us. How do we transform them into glory? By looking at Jesus, by remembering his suffering which was turned into glory.”  (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 207) Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” (John 12:24) Sponsor - Pearl and Thistle: Pearl & Thistle equips Catholics to both understand and love God’s design for our bodies and menstrual cycles – from puberty to perimenopause, and everything in between! Pearl & Thistle features online courses, like: Cycle Prep - for parents and daughters to prepare for her first period, together! Perimenopause Prep - for couples who want to navigate NFP amidst cycle changes, together! Plus, books for teens and single women and tons of downloadable body literacy resources! Pearl and Thistle founder Christina Valenzuela weaves together modern cycle science with insights from Scripture, tradition, and JPII’s Theology of the Body to give us the positive language to talk about cycles, periods, and fertility – even when it all may just feel like a confusing mess. Learn more about Pearl and Thistle’s innovative approach to Catholic body literacy @pearlandthistle or pearlandthistle.com, and be sure to use code TOGETHER to get 10% off at-home courses!
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        54S14 E10 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 5: Scholarship)In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on how life is a continual process of refinement and how true learning comes through the healing found in suffering and communion. We also talk about the feelings of shame that accompany situations where we fall short, the importance of recognizing our limitations in humility, and how God desires to redeem our deepest wounds to help us grow in communion and love. Heather’s One Thing -  Sarah Kroger’s new song No Filter Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Heather Khym’s Lenten Playlist (AGAIN!!) Michelle’s One Thing - Floret Flowers Announcement: We will be taking a two week break for Easter beginning on 4/1/24. Season 14 will continue on 4/15/24! Journal Questions: - What learning curves in my life do I react to with shame or fear? - Where in my life do I feel like I need to figure it out? - What are my most frequent complaints? How do they wound the Heart of Christ? - How can I honor the Lord this upcoming Holy Week? Discussion Questions: - What lessons are you learning this Lent? - What blocks and walls do you experience when learning new lessons? - How is the Lord inviting you to put in effort in learning the lessons of this season? - How can you show loving and attentive devotion to the Lord in your daily life? Quote to Ponder: “Let us think for a few minutes about the process of learning. All real learning requires a great effort….One could perhaps define the greatest scholars as those who have put forth the most effort with the equipment that God gave them. There is always some form of suffering in all learning because there must be patience, and patience is suffering. There is always humility in learning. It is the great scholars who realize how little they know…” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 175) Scripture for Lectio: “He said to his apostles, “I have yet many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now.”” (John 16:12) Sponsor - The Christa McAuliffe Academy School of Arts and Sciences: Discover CMASAS, where education is as unique as your child. CMASAS offers a personalized learning experience that adapts to each student's passions and pace. This WASC-accredited K-12 online school is an asynchronous, mastery-based program is a great fit for families seeking flexibility. CMASAS offers an experienced instructional support team with an average of 15 years’ experience. Course Instructors and Personalized Education Coaches (PECs) work with parents and students to develop a Personalized Education Plan specific to each student’s goals. The CMASAS community represents 30 countries. Students create lifelong friendships as they connect at clubs, homerooms, international trips, and in-person events. With dual-enrollment and AP options, students often graduate with college credits. We're excited to offer Abiding Together listeners a special promo code ABIDE2024 to waive the enrollment registration fee. Discover how CMASAS can redefine education for your child: Visit www.cmasas.org, Email info@cmasas.org, Call 503.226.7374
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        55S14 E9 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 4: Filling Up the Sufferings of Christ)In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of “filling up the sufferings of Christ”. We reflect on the connection between repentance and love, recognizing how they complement each other, and the beauty of repentance as an intimate act of drawing nearer to God. We share our own struggles during this Lenten season, how others have helped keep us accountable, and the importance of helping others grow in holiness. Lastly, we chat about the significance of renouncing falsehoods about ourselves and embracing the truth about our identity that can only be found in God. Heather’s One Thing -The song Jesus is My Healer by Gateway Worship Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Andrew Laubacher and his organization called Humanality Michelle’s One Thing - Fr. Mark Mary CFR new book The Father: 30 Meditations to Draw You Into the Heart of God Journal Questions: - Where is the ease of the Lord in my life? - How can I turn back to the Lord in moments of hardship this Lent? - In the people I struggle with most, how do I encounter the image of God in them? - In my own self-righteousness, from whom do I withhold the kingdom of God? Discussion Questions: - Do you perceive repentance as an opportunity for intimacy or a response to punishment? - How can you more urgently respond to God’s invitation of love? - What accountability can you incorporate to be steadfast to your Lenten promises? - How can you invite a culture of redemption into your life? Quote to Ponder: “Our joy must be in him, where alone things have permanent depth and even eternality. The more earnestly we live our Lent, the more will we be finding our joy in Jesus.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 148) Scripture for Lectio: “He delivered us from the dominion of the darkness and transferred us into the kingdom of his beloved son.”  (Colossians 1:13) Sponsor - Mary’s Meals: Mary’s Meals sets up community-run school feeding projects in some of the world’s poorest communities, where poverty and hunger prevent children from gaining an education. The idea is a simple one that works. Mary’s Meals provides one daily meal in a place of learning to attract chronically poor children into the classroom, where they receive an education that can, in the future, be their ladder out of poverty. Bringing hope to hungry children around the world, their mission is to enable people to offer their money, goods, skills, time, or prayer, and through this involvement, provide the most effective help to those suffering the effects of extreme poverty in the world’s poorest Communities. Today, Mary’s Meals is providing more than 2.4 million children with a daily school meal across five continents. But the need is great! The appalling reality is that there are still 73 million children living in extreme poverty in need of school feeding. Please help to reach the next hungry child waiting for Mary’s Meals. To get involved or learn more visit marysmeals.ca in Canada or marysmealsusa.org in the USA.
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        56S14 E8 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 3: The Right Kind of Zeal)In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of the right kind of zeal. We chat about how we may be feeling tired and tempted to relax our Lenten penances and discuss the importance of taking time to reflect on why we felt called to take on a specific sacrifice and then recommitting ourselves with zeal to carry it out. We also talk about the joys of living in covenant with the Lord, the heartache we should experience when our hearts wander, and the beauty of giving ourselves totally to Him out of love. Heather’s One Thing - Happy 80th birthday to her dad! Heather’s Other One Thing - Episode 5 of Fr. Dave’s series called: My father’s Father. Watch on Wildgoose TV here or Faith and Reason here. Sister Miriam’s On Thing - Heather Khym’s Lenten Playlist Michelle’s One Thing - The song Closing Distance by Seven Hills Worship (acoustic version here) Journal Questions: - What do you need to fill your tank for the long spiritual roadtrip of Lent? - What spiritual rest stops do I need to take to continue to go the distance with the Lord? - How am I letting my emotions drive the bus? - Do I treat my covenant with the Lord with the same respect as I show the covenants of marriage or religious life? Discussion Questions: - How do you need the Lord to love you this week? - Have you been feeling empty, angsty, or frustrated this Lent? How is the Lord inviting you into deeper freedom through this experience? - How can you suffer and fast with more joy? Quotes to Ponder: “The ancient name for Lent is “the season of the battle”, agonia, which was the Greek word for the final testing of the athlete or the warrior, and has become the term for the Agony in the Garden.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 143) Scripture for Lectio: “His disciples recalled the words of Scripture, Zeal for your house will consume me.” (John 2:17) Sponsor - JPII Healing Center: Discover the healing God deeply desires for you. Our brand-new Healing the Whole Person Video Series dives deep into your areas of woundedness and pain and the healing and restoration God deeply longs to give you. All 8 transformational talks by Dr. Bob Schuchts and Sr. Miriam James Heidland, as well as 10hrs of Q&As, are now available to you on our streaming platform right in the comfort of your home. To aid you in your journey to healing and wholeness use code Abiding25 to receive 25% off individual and group leader subscriptions (expires 4/1/24). Additionally, the numerous books and resources offered in our online store offer you insight and accompaniment on your path to healing. There you will find several familiar authors including Dr. Bob Schuchts and Abiding Together’s very own Sr. Miriam.
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        57S14 E7 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 2: In Conversation with Jesus)In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of being in conversation with Jesus. We reflect on the importance of reserving space for dialogue with God, surrendering to Him our own plans and desires, and allowing Him to love us in our poverty. The process of dying to self is always accompanied with the hope in the promise of resurrection and new life that Jesus offers. Heather’s One Thing - In thanksgiving for Deacon Bob and Fr Dave Pivonka letting her use their studio to record this episode and for being asked to be a guest on their podcast called They That Hope. Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen by David Brooks Michelle’s One Thing - Her household sisters at Francisan University Journal Questions: - Am I in conversation with God or in a monologue with myself? - How can I create more space for dialogue with God? - What Isaacs (idols) do I have? - How do I self-sabotage in order to confirm my deepest fears? Discussion Questions: - What does it look like for you to be a new creation in Christ? - Have you ever felt like God contradicts Himself? How did He resolve that apparent contradiction? - What littleness in your life do you tend to hide and run away from? How can you be more open with the Lord in your littleness? - What holds me back from entering into prayer honestly or making a confession regularly? Quotes to Ponder: “Then, a word about the Tabor Gospel. I was newly impressed by the fact that Moses and Elijah were in conversation with Jesus. Let us be occupied always in being in conversation with Jesus. We know the deepest conversations are the wordless ones. We love that simple and profound word of Pope Saint John Paul II, “Let Jesus be the one to whom you talk the most.”” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 76) Scripture for Lectio: “Here am I, Lord!” (Genesis 22:1) Sponsor - CORDA: Connect with the saints and create a peaceful place of prayer with CORDA's handcrafted Catholic candles. Each candle has a custom scent inspired by saints and the faith, and they're made with clean coconut wax and have a beautiful, modern design. There’s 24 candles and counting, including ones inspired by St. Therese, St. Augustine, and Morning Prayer, with unique scents for everyone. There’s even a fragrance-free option, inspired by Mary the Immaculate Conception. Each CORDA candle comes beautifully packaged, with the story behind the scent inspiration on the box. And the simple design of the candle leads with beauty, making them perfect for gifting and helping you share the faith in a lovely and meaningful way. If you know someone getting married or having a baby, CORDA also offers special bulk discounts for wedding favors, bridal showers, and baby showers! CORDA is a Catholic small business run by a husband-and-wife team, and they'd love to gift you a free tealight sampler with your next order of $35 or more - thar's 6 free mini candles! To receive your special gift, be sure to go to cordacandles.com/abiding and follow the steps on that page (good now through April 30, 2024).
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        58S14 E6 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Week 1: True Self-Denial)In this week's episode, we continue our Lenten study on the book “A Time of Renewal” and focus on the theme of true self-denial. We reflect on the importance of recognizing our need for God’s love and allowing ourselves to be transformed by His grace. We also share personal experiences and insights on repentance, amendment, and trusting in God’s plan especially when the desires of our heart are not being fulfilled. We end by discussing the joys that can come from Lent when approached with a tender, sensitive, and alert heart. Heather’s One Thing - Lenten Playlist Heather’s Other One Thing - The talk Joy, Hope, and the Way Around by Monsignor Shea Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Pints with Aquinas episode on Transhumanism and Emerging Technologies w/ Fr. Michael Baggot (Watch on YouTube here) Michelle’s One Thing - The book A Grand Slam for God: A Journey from Baseball Star to Catholic Priest by Fr. Burke Masters Journal Questions: - Have I ever approached Lent with a sense of wonder? - How have I approached Lent with self hatred in the past? - What parts of myself are the stranger I need to welcome home and allow the Father to love? - How can I be more open to God as the Divine Interruptor? Discussion Questions: - Where are you hungry? Where are others in your life hungry? - Who in your life is the stranger you need to welcome? - Do you believe something wonderful can happen this Lent? - Where have you become resigned and hard of heart instead of tender and sensitive? Quotes to Ponder: We are called to a glorious festival of love—to be spiritually dizzied with the fact that this is how much God has loved us. Surely we shall all look at the crucifix with a new vision, a deepened understanding that he really. (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 37) Scripture for Lectio: “After John had been arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the gospel of God: “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the Gospel.”” (Mark 1:14-15) Sponsor - Reform Wellness: Reform Wellness is a Christ-centered functional medicine and holistic wellness ministry. Reform redefines health as the state of your body and soul. Their mission is to empower the whole person to find well-being in Christ and become the best versions of themselves physically and spiritually. Reform works with private clients, corporate teams, religious communities, and educational institutions worldwide, both in-person and online. They offer valuable information, educational resources, and lifelong tools to improve your well-being. We invite you to learn more about Reform’s foundational course Reform Online which offers educational tools, best practices, and community through their nine wellness pillars. Reform is extending an exclusive discount for all our listeners on their Lenten Cohort. We highly recommend this three-month foundational course; we’ve each taken Reform Online and still benefit from the fruits in our daily lives. Use code “Abide10'' for your exclusive discount through February 29.
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        59S14 E5 - A Time of Renewal (Lent Intro: A Time of Reflowering)In this week's episode, we begin our seven week Lenten study of the book “A Time of Renewal” by Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. In this episode we cover the introduction and the sections on the first four days of Lent. We discuss how Lent is an opportunity for us to grow in intimacy with God and how viewing fasting as a time of renewal, not suffering, can help us encounter a deeper transformation. We also reflect on our ability to help others grow in holiness, why Lent is the Springtime of the liturgical year, and how we can allow ourselves to bloom this Lenten season. Heather’s One Thing - Aspire to Live a Quiet Life by Francis Chan Sister Miriam’s One Thing - the women at the Trini-tea fundraiser (pictures here) Michelle’s One Thing - ABBA by Johnathan Helser and the people of Louisiana Journal Questions: - Take inventory of your heart: where are you? Where do I need to reflower? - What areas of my life does the Lord want to prune? - Am I approaching this Lent like “just another Lent”? How can I accept this Lent as a unique season and invitation from the Lord? - What practices put me back in the gaze of the Father? How can I incorporate them into my Lenten plan? Discussion Questions: - Which fruits in my life are good fruits? Which fruits are bad fruits? - How can you be more conscious of your responsibility for one another’s holiness? - Whose growth in holiness is God inviting you to be conscious of? Who can you offer your Lenten prayers and fasts up for? - How close are you to the Lord today? Quotes to Ponder: “I hope we will not allow ourselves to think of it as “just another Lent”. There is a very deep sense in which there is not another Lent and then another and another after that. This Lent is unlike any other. It is this acceptable time. We do not know if there will be another Lent for us, but we do know God has brought us to this acceptable time, to this prolonged day of salvation.” (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 19) Scripture for Lectio: “Is not this the fast that I chose: to loose the bonds of wickedness and to undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free and break every yoke?” (Isaiah 58:6) Sponsor - The Little Rose Shop: Discover the beauty of integrating faith into your everyday life with The Little Rose Shop. Our Morning Offering Prayer mug is the perfect companion for your morning routine, allowing you to start each day with a heartfelt prayer, focusing your thoughts on Christ. Plus, explore our Quiet Books collection, including the Mass Quiet Book, Rosary Quiet Book, and the Where is Jesus Quiet Book. These engaging books are designed for babies and toddlers, making it easy to introduce them to the wonders of faith in a quiet and interactive way—perfect for adoration or Mass. As a special treat for Abiding Together listeners, use promo code ABIDING15 for an exclusive 15% discount at checkout. Enrich your spiritual journey and bring the joy of faith into your home with The Little Rose Shop.
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        60S14 E4 - My Father’s Father with Fr. Dave Pivonka, TORIn this week's episode, we welcome Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR as our guest to dive deep into what it means to be in relationship with God as Father. Together we chat about how our earthly fathers both positively and negatively impact our relationship with God the Father and how to begin to receive the love of God the Father. We also share how our relationship with God the Father has changed through the loss of earthly fathers. Check out Fr. Dave’s new (free!) video series entitled My father’s Father (or watch here on Wildgoose). Heather’s One Thing - Upcoming pilgrimages with Franciscan to France and Alaska Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The the beauty of the Pensacola beach Michelle’s One Thing - Watching NFL Playoffs with Sister Miriam Fr. Dave’s One Thing - The book A Little Liar by Mitch Albom Other Resources Mentioned: - My father’s Father Trailer Link - My father’s Father on Wildgoose - My father’s Father on Faith and Reason - S3 E18: The Holy Spirit with Fr. Dave Pivonka - S5 E22: The Holy Spirit with Fr. Dave Pivonka - The Father’s Love Spotify Playlist Journal Questions: - What does (or did) my father’s relationship with our Heavenly Father look like? - In what ways can I grow in honoring and being honest about my father? - Other than my earthly father, who in my life revealed the heart of our Heavenly Father to me? - For those whose fathers have passed away: how has my relationship with God the Father changed since my father passed away? Discussion Questions: - How has your relationship with your earthly father shaped your relationship with your Heavenly Father? - In your current state of life, when do you feel most connected to your identity as a child? - What thoughts, emotions, and associations arise when you think of your primary identity as a child? - How can you grow in and more deeply receive your daughterhood from the Father? Quotes to Ponder: “The whole of the Christian life is like a great pilgrimage to the house of the Father, whose unconditional love for every human creature, and in particular for the 'prodigal son,' we discover anew each day.” (JPII Tertio Millennio Adveniente) Scripture for Lectio: “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1) Sponsor - Ascension: With the Ascension App, you can easily find answers to the most challenging questions about church teaching and Scripture. Designed to help you understand the faith like never before, you’ll experience the peace that comes from deepening your prayer life and knowledge of God. The Ascension App includes: - Both of Fr. Mike's In a Year podcasts in one place - Transcripts for every podcast episode - The full texts of the Bible and Catechism - Nearly 1,000 questions that Bible In a Year listeners have had over the years with their answers! - Episode summaries, bonus content, and reflection questions - Daily readings with video reflections from your favorite Catholic creators! And if you’re feeling overwhelmed or disconnected as you prepare for Lent, you’re not alone. The Ascension App will be a one-stop-shop for prayer this season, with Fr. Mark Toups’ Lenten Companion audio + video reflections guiding you day-by-day to an encounter with the person of Christ. Explore the Ascension App’s premium features with a free 7-day trial!
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        61S14 E3 - Living in the Tension: Solitude and CommunityIn this week's episode, we discuss the relationship between solitude and community and how no matter if we are introverted or extroverted, we need both in order to live rightly ordered lives. We reflect on how solitude and community has changed throughout the different seasons of our lives and the importance of being open to these changes so we can receive the blessings God desires to give us. When we let our cups be filled by God through authentic solitude, we are able to grow, and therefore build deeper and more intimate relationships within our community. Heather’s One Thing - The book Humans of Heaven from the January Jane Shop Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book Hinds' Feet on High Places: An Engaging Visual Journey (Visual Journey Series) by Hannah Hurnard Michelle’s One Thing - Spending time with Sister Miriam at the O’Grady’s Beach House Journal Questions: - What obstacles do you encounter to being in communion with Christ when you enter into silence? - How am I tempted to perceive solitude as isolation? - How am I tempted to perceive being with people as community? - When I think about solitude and community and which one I currently need more of, how can I create space in my life to tend to that need? - What needs do I need to voice to someone in my life? Discussion Questions: - Which comes more naturally to you: solitude or community? - Throughout your life, which communities have brought you closer to Christ and allowed you to become more fully human? - In your current season of life, have you sensed a stronger need for solitude or community? - What daily, weekly, or monthly rhythms do you have to cultivate community and solitude? Quotes to Ponder: “Let him who cannot be alone beware of community... Let him who is not in community beware of being alone... Each by itself has profound perils and pitfalls. One who wants fellowship without solitude plunges into the void of words and feelings, and the one who seeks solitude without fellowship perishes in the abyss of vanity, self-infatuation and despair.”  (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Faith in Community) “True silence is a garden enclosed, where alone the soul can meet its God.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up the mountain by himself to pray.” (Matthew 14:23 ) Sponsor - Ascension: With the Ascension App, you can easily find answers to the most challenging questions about church teaching and Scripture. Designed to help you understand the faith like never before, you’ll experience the peace that comes from deepening your prayer life and knowledge of God. The Ascension App includes: - Both of Fr. Mike's In a Year podcasts in one place - Transcripts for every podcast episode - The full texts of the Bible and Catechism - Nearly 1,000 questions that Bible In a Year listeners have had over the years with their answers! - Episode summaries, bonus content, and reflection questions - Daily readings with video reflections from your favorite Catholic creators! And if you’re feeling overwhelmed or disconnected as you prepare for Lent, you’re not alone. The Ascension App will be a one-stop-shop for prayer this season, with Fr. Mark Toups’ Lenten Companion audio + video reflections guiding you day-by-day to an encounter with the person of Christ. Explore the Ascension App’s premium features with a free 7-day trial!
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        62S14 E2 - Living in the Tension: Joy and SorrowIn this week's episode, we reflect on the role both joy and sorrow simultaneously play in our lives. We chat about how pressing into grief allows us to more fully experience joy, and how when we try to numb ourselves to the sorrow we also numb ourselves to the experience of joy. We also talk about the importance of naming disappointments, intentionally maturing in our faith, and what we have personally learned while grieving the loss of a parent. When we learn to suffer well and meet God in the midst of our sufferings, we can reach a deep joy we never thought possible. Heather’s One Thing - Attending and speaking at SEEK ‘24.  Watch the impact session here. Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Therapist’s Conference with the JPII Healing Center Michelle’s One Thing - Nick Sabn Retiring From College Football Journal Questions: - What paradoxes am I called to live in right now? - How can I bring the Lord into my disappointments? - Am I more prone to pushing my emotions aside or letting my emotions rule my life (emotional gluttony)? - In seasons of grief, who are the people who have been my midwives and accompanied me through those seasons? Discussion Questions: - What disappointments have you experienced this past year? Is it hard for you to be honest with God about those disappointments? - What is God redeeming and restoring in your life? - In a current disappointment or heartbreak you are feeling, what gratitude are you experiencing alongside it? - What gifts of daily bread is the Lord providing for you in this season? Quote to Ponder: “Our life is a short time in expectation, a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment. There is a quality of sadness that pervades all the moments of our lives. It seems that there is no such thing as a clear-cut pure joy, but that even in the most happy moments of our existence we sense a tinge of sadness. In every satisfaction, there is an awareness of limitations. In every success, there is the fear of jealousy. Behind every smile, there is a tear. In every embrace, there is loneliness. In every friendship, distance. And in all forms of light, there is the knowledge of surrounding darkness . . . But this intimate experience in which every bit of life is touched by a bit of death can point us beyond the limits of our existence. It can do so by making us look forward in expectation to the day when our hearts will be filled with perfect joy, a joy that no one shall take away from us.” (Henri J.M. Nouwen, Making All Things New: An Invitation to the Spiritual Life) Scripture for Lectio: He turns my mourning into dancing. You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, so that my soul may praise you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever. (Psalm 30:11-12) Sponsor - Pilgrimage to Beauty: Pilgrimage to Beauty creates transformative experiences of true rest and retreat, for couples or individuals wired for adventure. Whether you're an adventurer or a contemplative, Pilgrimage to Beauty invites you to Guatemala July 24-31, 2024 for a unique encounter with Blessed Stanley Rother in the Mayan village he served and died for only 43 years ago. Tens of thousands of pilgrims have visited the newly opened Blessed Stanley Rother Shrine in Oklahoma City, but very few have had the experience of praying and serving in Santiago, the village where his heart resides and his mission lives on. We have already had a number of Abiding Together listeners go on this pilgrimage and describe it as one of the most transformational trips of their lives. Our very good friends Ennie and Cana Hickman and Emily Blasdell will guide you to the breathtaking shores of Lake Atitlan, feed you delicious local cuisine, and accompany you on this once in a lifetime encounter with God and His saint. Visit PilgrimageToBeauty.com/abidingtogether to find out all the special perks for our Abiding Together listeners, including $500 off of your registration!
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        63S14 E1 - Word of the YearThis episode continues our annual tradition of sharing our Word of the Year! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2024 mean to us and chat about how our words from last year have impacted our lives. At the beginning of the episode, we also share an announcement about this year’s Lenten book study. We are excited to be back and look forward to seeing what this season will bring. Heather’s One Thing - Her husband Jake’s upcoming course on our God-given Identity. Register here! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Trini-Tea tea party, a ladies tea party in Front Royal, VA on January 27, 2024 to benefit the SOLT Sisters’ Motherhouse Campaign. You are invited! Register for the event here. Michelle’s One Thing - Her 2023 reading recommendation list! Announcement: We are excited to announce that our Lenten book study will be: A Time of Renewal: Daily Reflections for the Lenten Season by Mother Mary Francis, P.C.C. Visit our website for more information! Journal Questions: - If you had a word for 2023, what did God teach you through that word? - Take some time to reflect and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal your word of the year. You could start with a scripture or just silence. After prayer and reflection, what is your word of the year? - How does your 2024 word of the year build upon previous words of the year or seasons? - Who can you discuss your word with and remind them of their word throughout 2024? Discussion Questions: - What themes has God been using as an opportunity to encounter Him? - Are there specific scriptures, saints, or quotes that will serve as a guide or reminder of your word during the year? - What is one change you can make in the coming year to be more open to the will of God? - How can you place tangible reminders of your word in your daily life? Quote to Ponder: "For last year's words belong to last year's language and next year's words await another voice." (T.S. Eliott) Scripture for Lectio: "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit." (Psalm 51:10-12) Sponsor - Franciscan University: One of only 15 faithfully Catholic universities endorsed by the Cardinal Newman Society, Franciscan University of Steubenville continues to lead the renaissance of Catholic higher education called for in Ex corde Ecclesiae. Franciscan integrates excellent academic programs with a dynamic faith environment to serve over 3,800 students from all 50 states and 18 countries on campus, including 1,300 students online. Ranked in the top tier of Midwest universities by U.S. News & World Report since 1998, Franciscan offers over 100 programs of study including 45 undergraduate programs, 10 graduate programs, and 17 online programs—all grounded in Franciscan’s acclaimed Catholic core curriculum. Everything from accounting to engineering, nursing, evangelization, criminal justice, psychology and many more. It’s home to the largest undergraduate Theology Program in the U.S., and has a well-regarded Priestly Discernment Program, which has seen over 250 members ordained to the priesthood since 1985. They also have a study abroad program in a beautifully restored 14th-century Carthusian monastery in Austria attracts up to 200 students each semester. For more about Franciscan University of Steubenville and its mission to educate, evangelize, and send forth Spirit-filled disciples of Jesus Christ, visit Franciscan.edu or connect with Franciscan on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or LinkedIn.
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        64S13 E14 - The Reed of God (Advent Series Part 4)Merry Christmas, friends! In this episode, we conclude our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part four and discuss the sections on Our Lady Seeking, Our Seeking, The Way, and The Assumption. We reflect on the beautiful reality that when Mary looks at us, she sees her Son and how we are also called to not only become aware of Christ’s presence within ourselves but also to seek His presence within those around us. In order to do this, we need to first prepare our hearts to fully accept Christ and we chat about the different ways we can become more receptive to His love. Thank you for journeying with us this Advent season. We look forward to seeing you on January 15th for the start of Season 14! Heather’s One Thing - The moment when no one else is awake and getting to sit with a cup of coffee and enjoy the Christmas tree lights Heather’s Other One Thing - The movie The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse (watch the trailer here) Heather’s Other Other One Thing - The Rescue Project especially Fr. John Ricardo’s videos on the Kerygma Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Nourishing White Bean and Lemon Soup Michelle’s One Thing - Charlie Brown Christmas Special Journal Questions: - How can I bring light into the darkness this Christmas season? - How can I make a gift of myself this Christmas season? - What painful memories or grief has surfaced for me this Christmas and Advent season? Where is God in those memories and grief? - What is the most unsuspecting place where Christ wants to reveal Himself to me? Discussion Questions: - How were you present to the present moment this Advent? - How were you not present to the present moment this Advent? - In what ways are you tempted to block the Holy Spirit throughout the Advent and Christmas seasons? - How has our Blessed Mother encountered you throughout this book study? - What is the Holy Spirit prompting you to do this season to more freely receive the Holy Spirit? Quote to Ponder: “It was another Advent, a withdrawing and folding upon the Life within her life; but a withdrawing that did not separate her from other people but only brought her closer to them; for she had found her Christ in them all.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 66) Scripture for Lectio: "I will arise now and go about the city through the streets and squares. I will seek the one I love. So I sought him but did not find him."  (Song of Songs 3:2) Sponsor - Walking with Purpose: Do you want to help your daughter discover her true identity? Do you long to see her avoid the pitfalls of toxic relationships? Are you ready to guide her toward her God-given calling? There is nothing fiercer than a mother’s love for her children. Many of us feel that influences around our kids are eroding the foundation we’ve worked so hard to build. It’s time to reclaim our motherly influence, because no one loves or knows our girls like we do. Sisters of Strength is a life-changing and vitalizing weekend for mothers and their high school/college-aged daughters from Walking with Purpose. Featuring a lineup of powerful speakers—including our own Heather Khym!—we will delve into the topics of identity, friendship, and purpose, equipping our daughters to answer life’s biggest questions with God’s wisdom and perspective. Join us for Sisters of Strength April 5-7 in Leesburg, VA. You’ll laugh, you’ll connect, and you’ll both return home spiritually stronger and refreshed.
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        65S13 E13 - The Reed of God (Advent Series Part 3)In this episode, we continue with part three of our four part Advent series on the book “The Reed of God” by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part three and discuss the sections on the Lost Child, Idols, and the Last Confession. We chat about how when we lose sight of Jesus, we are called to imitate Mary and seek until He is found. By persevering on this journey and staying strong in the face of distraction or complacency, we cultivate a deeper union with Him. God Himself is calling us to take this journey because out of love, He desires to give Himself to us. We also talk about the various idols in our lives, how these idols block us from growing in communion with God, and how our own woundedness can distort our perception of God. We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. Heather’s One Thing - First snowfall of the season and making an eggnog latte! Heather’s Other One Thing - Grateful for parents living next door and family dinners Sister Miriam’s Half One Thing - The Women’s College Volleyball Division I National Tournament Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Heather’s Advent Playlist Michelle’s One Thing - Her son’s Catholic Youth Sports League won first place Michelle’s Other One Thing - Leanne Bowen’s Instagram Post on Mother’s Intercessors Journal Questions: - How do I react when I am not experiencing consolation or hearing from God? - How have I observed an invitation to deeper freedom in my relationship with God this Advent? - How do I seek to control God? - Where in my life do I believe that God doesn’t love me or care for me? Discussion Questions: - How do you seek out Christ when you sense that He is lost or hidden? - What “imaginary Christs” have you created in your life? - How are you tempted to worship the false “convenient god”? - How are you being inspired to seek Christ out after listening to this episode? Quote to Ponder: “It is this: How is it that the lives of so many people who profess to be Christian are utterly inconsistent with Christianity?” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 93). Scripture for Lectio: “Where has your beloved gone, most beautiful of women? Which way did your beloved turn, that we may look for him with you?” (Song of Songs 6:1) Sponsor - Rooted for Good: We are thrilled once again to be sponsoring another episode of Abiding Together. This podcast holds a special place in our hearts, not only because we love Jesus too, but also because the Abiding community has been a vital part of Rooted’s unbelievable growth story! Today thousands of customers across the country and beyond LOVE using their Rooted products every day. There are so many skincare and beauty companies today promoting values which contradict the treasures of our faith. Founded by a Catholic mom of 6 boys, Rooted stands for Goodness, Truth and Real Beauty. You don’t have to sacrifice your values to experience premium skincare and essential oils that smell and feel amazing! Experience for yourself why greater than 90% of all Rooted customer reviews are 5 stars. From skin care, to essential oils, to all natural soaps, scrubs and soaks, make Rooted a part of your skincare and wellness routine. And with every dollar you spend with us, we will donate 10 cents to uplift someone in need in the developing world! Shop your values, and make a difference all while treating yourself to your new favorite products! Join the thousands of Abiding Together customers who are now part of our growing Rooted Community at RootedforGood.com, and use Abide20 at checkout to save 20% on your whole order!
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        66S13 E12 - The Reed of God (Advent Series Part 2)In this episode, we continue with part two of our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part two and discuss the sections on Et Homo Factus Est, the Fugue, Wooden Bambino, and Et Verbum Caro Factum Est. We chat about our desire as women to protect our children, but how this desire can easily morph into control, manipulation, or possession. We reflect on how Our Lady exemplifies perfect surrender and trust as she continually releases her Son back to God as a gift freely given to her by God. We also discuss the role of suffering and brokenness in transformation and the beauty of silence in the rhythm of life. We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. Heather’s One Thing - Butter Tart Recipe Heather’s Other One Thing - Stovetop Potpourri Recipe Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The simple joys of Advent Michelle’s One Thing - Support for the heartbreaking loss of the Auburn vs. Alabama college football game Michelle’s Other One Thing - Chevrolet Christmas Commercial Journal Questions: - How do I try to possess or manipulate others to protect them from disappointment or pain? - Do I see my humanity as a gift or as a burden? - In the final days before Christmas, when can I create moments of silence to meet Jesus? - Where do I need a mother? - Where am I afraid to be mothered? Discussion Questions: - How do you allow your fears of vulnerability, dependence, and a lack of control rule your life and your decisions? - What parts of your humanity do you find God inviting you more deeply into during this Advent season? - What Fruits of the Spirit do you need to grow in (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control)? - How can you allow Mary to mother you to more fully experience these fruits and bring them to fruition? Quotes to Ponder: “Only Christ-bearers can restore the world to life and give humanity back the vitality of love.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 72). “Our Lady gave humanity to God as she gave the water to Christ at Cana, to be changed into wine.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God, page 83). Scripture for Lectio: “All things were made by him; and without him was made nothing that was made. In him was life, and the life was the light of men. And the light shineth in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.” (John 1:3–5) Sponsor - Whole Mission: Learn to chart your fertility simply and objectively with a healthcare professional teacher at Whole Mission. We use the latest research and technology to help you navigate the highs, lows, and peaks of natural family planning with confidence, and a 98% effectiveness rate, using the Marquette Method of NFP. Learning to chart your fertility might seem intimidating, so let’s take the guesswork out of it. Our classes are recommended for: - Single women desiring to understand their health - Engaged couples preparing for marriage - Postpartum moms seeking to simplify their charting routine - Women in perimenopause who are getting ready for new changes Find an instructor who’s been there, who’s Catholic, and who wants to support the whole “you,” including the intricate and beautiful gift of your fertility. Find out more about Whole Mission’s model for whole person health education at: www.thewholemission.com
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        67S13 E11 - The Reed of God (Advent Series Part 1)In this episode, we begin our four part Advent series on the book The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander. Today, we focus on part one and discuss the sections on Emptiness, Fiat, Advent, and Pastoral. We reflect on the gift of virginity, how our own life experiences can alter how we view this gift, and how Our Lady perfectly models the truth about the fruitfulness of giving our full selves in love. We also chat about the beauty of accepting our littleness and how only through the act of emptying ourselves can God truly give us what He desires. We encourage you to go at your own pace so that the Lord can fill your heart with what you need to hear this Advent season. Heather’s One Thing - Advent Worship playlist and the song Hungry by UPPERROOM Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Christmas Peaceful Piano playlist Michelle’s One Thing - The painting A Mother and Child looking at the Virgin and Child by Reginald Bottomley and steps to practice Visio Divina with the image. Journal Questions: - How do I allow myself to be filled by the Bridegroom? - How do I view chastity – as a sour apple, or as the first fruits? - What is distracting me this Advent season? - What image depicted by Caryll Houselander is resonating with me most (the reed, the chalice, and the nest)? Discussion Questions: - How can I empty myself to more fully receive the Bridegroom? - What is the Holy Spirit inviting you to say “yes” to? - What is the Holy Spirit inviting you to say “no” to? - How is the Lord continually purifying and refining you? - How am I tempted to say “I’m just a…”? Quotes to Ponder: “Advent is the season of the secret, the secret of the growth of Christ, of Divine Love growing in silence.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God (p. 38). Copycat. Kindle Edition.) “It is always a love story, a culmination of love between the Spirit of Light and the Bride of the Spirit.” (Houselander, Caryll. The Reed of God (p. 19). Copycat. Kindle Edition.) Scripture for Lectio: “Be it done to me according to thy word.” (Luke 1:38) Sponsor - Bell Road Beef: Bell Road Beef is two sisters and two husbands, raising thirteen children (currently!) and more than thirteen cattle on the grasslands of Northern New Mexico.  They come from five generations of ranchers who have known, loved, and cared for the land and its animals for decades. From the beginning of new life to harvest, the animals are an extension of Britt, Rozann, and their families. They see life, loss, and everything in between. On Bell Road, these animals have a home…one in which small batches of cattle are raised to the highest standards and eventually brought straight to you. Visit shop.bellroadbeef.com to see the variety of beef that can be shipped straight to your door, and get a free pack of beef sticks while you’re at it!
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        68S13 E10 - Ask Us AnythingIn this episode, for the first time ever, we answer questions submitted by our listeners! We answer questions like: How have we healed in our identity as mother, daughter, sister, and bride? How to handle the pressure of people relying on you for spiritual improvement? How to cultivate a life that reflects beauty? How to heal from childhood sexual trauma? How has our faith evolved over the different seasons in our lives? The difference between being too nice and choosing mercy? And more! Heather’s One Thing - Her daughter’s art and the beauty of Catholic artists building each other up and rejoicing in the talent of others. Heather’s Other One thing - Tammy Peterson’s Rosary Testimony Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Sausage, Potato, and Kale Soup Michelle’s One Thing - All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr and the new Netflix series based on the book Other Resources Mentioned: - Be Healed and Be Restored by Dr. Bob Schuchts - The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender - Restore the Glory Podcast - The Forgiving Life by Dr. Robert Enright - Forgiveness Meditation from Sr. Miriam - Seeking Healing Through Forgiveness SEEK 2019 with Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burns - The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope by Curt Thompson - Anatomy of a Soul by Curt Thompson - The Midnight Library by Matt Haig - Way of the Heart Podcast - Wild at Heart Podcast Journal Questions: - What area of your identity (daughter, sister, mother, bride) has the Lord done the most healing in your life? - Who do I feel unable to forgive? - Who can I make myself more available to as a friend? Discussion Questions: - How can you intentionally bring beauty into your everyday life? - How does God want to meet you with prayer that aligns with the rhythms of your current season? - What boundaries do you sense a need to implement?
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        69S13 E9 - “I Thirst” Part 2 - St. Teresa of Calcutta’s Varanasi LetterIn this episode, we discuss the second half of the Varanasi Letter written by St. Teresa of Calcutta to her MC Community. We reflect on how Jesus is calling us to encounter Him daily and what we can do to open our hearts to deeper communion. We also chat about how our Blessed Mother is a perfect example of how to comfort the Sacred Heart of Jesus in love and how to remain open and vulnerable even with a heart pierced with sorrow. Heather’s One Thing - Panel with Divine Renovation and Alpha Catholic (Click here to listen to the discussion on Tuesday November 21st) Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  Warm and Hearty Meatloaf Recipe Michelle’s One Thing - Holy Water Spritzer from West Coast Catholic Michelle’s Other One Thing - I Thirst,  40 days with Mother Teresa by Joseph Langford, MC Journal Questions: - What is the Lord’s theme for me in this season? - What is the Lord’s theme for me throughout my life? - Where has your heart been pierced? - Do I see myself as a gift? Discussion Questions: - How would you depict your heart? - Where are you blocking the joy of Christ from your life? - How have you allowed your heart to be hardened? - How is the Lord inviting you to respond to His Thirst? Quotes to Ponder: Our Lady will help all of us in this, since she was the first person to hear Jesus’s cry, “I Thirst” with St. John, and I am sure Mary Magdalene. Because she was there on Calvary, she knows how real, how deep His longing for you and for the poor. Do we know? Do we feel as She? Ask her to teach you Before it was Our Lady pleading with Mother, now it is Mother in her name pleading with you — “Listen to Jesus’s thirst.” (Varanasi Letter, St. Teresa of Calcutta) Scripture for Lectio: "But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart." (Luke 2:19) Sponsor - New Jerusalem Studios: New Jerusalem Studios, invites you to encounter Christ’s saving love through the beauty of sacred art by curating a collection for your home.   Artist Ruth Stricklin’s images, informed by eastern and western sacred art traditions, draws the viewer out of themselves and into the New Jerusalem. Consider a large canvas print of The Holy Family in the dining room as our local seminary did.  A Christ the King Sacred Heart image in the foyer radiantly announces to visitors whom you serve. A palm-sized Icon-Mini on a tiny easel is perfect for a bedside table or desk.  Icon Minis and the new angel Christmas ornaments slip easily into a stocking or Christmas Card. We encourage you to become a champion of beauty this Christmas by sharing with your pastor options to elevate an overflow Mass space - visit www.sacredartbanners.com by NJS. Listeners use code ABIDE15 for 15% off icons, ornaments and canvas or ABIDE25 for 25% off paper prints at www.njerusalemstudios.com thru 12/10.
        Abiding Together30 min
        70S13 E8 - “I Thirst” Part 1 - St. Teresa of Calcutta’s Varanasi LetterIn this episode, we discuss the first half of the Varanasi Letter written by St. Teresa of Calcutta to her MC Community. We talk about how Jesus thirsts for our souls and what we can do to care for His Heart. We reflect on what it means to let Jesus gaze upon our souls and receive Him in the areas we have been wounded and experience pain. It can be challenging to allow Jesus to see these broken places in our lives, but through this communion and vulnerability, He can reveal the truth about our belovedness. Jesus is a real living person with whom we can build an intimate relationship and we end the episode by sharing ways we can grow closer to Our Lord. Heather’s One Thing - Her playlist called Battle Cry (particularly the song Sound Mind) Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  On Love: Selected Writings of Pope Benedict XVI Michelle’s One Thing - The Legatus Enclave Retreat and their visit to the National Shrine of Our Lady of Champion Journal Questions: - Am I more concerned with Jesus’ Hands than His Heart? - Have I seen with the eyes of my soul how Jesus looks upon me with love? - When have I heard the loving words Jesus speaks to me? - Where do I fail to trust the Lord? Discussion Questions: - Have you allowed Jesus to look at you with love today? - What does it mean for you to let Jesus see you in the painful and shameful places of your heart? - What limitations do I experience that prevent me from entering into communion with God? - Were you able to pray with a photo of you from childhood / from the past? How did you experience Jesus’ gaze in that prayer? Quote to Ponder: “I worry some of you still have not really met Jesus — one to one — you and Jesus alone. We may spend time in chapel —but have you seen with the eyes of your soul how He looks at you with love? Do you really know the living Jesus — not from books but from being with Him in your heart? Have you heard the loving words He speaks to you?” (Varanasi Letter, St. Teresa of Calcutta) Scripture for Lectio: “I thirst.”  (John 19:28) Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. Leanne is a Catholic Artist and a stay at home mom. She just released a beautiful collection of Fall and Christmas candle tins that are the perfect size for stockings and hostess gifts! Her Cypress and Bayberry candle is indescribable. It smells exactly like a Christmas tree. If you have a fake tree in your home, your guests won't believe you! She also has a Wassail candle designed off the traditional Christmas cocktail served while caroling. It is a delicious spiced cider, orange, cranberry, and currant. Her candle scents are unique and the artwork featured on the label makes them incredibly intentional gifts. Her most popular candle in November is the Cranberry Orange Spice with a Holy Family label. You'll want one in every room. Her most popular candle is a Chrism Sacred Heart candle, and smells JUST like Chrism! She is offering 15% off to all our listeners with the code ABIDE15 at www.LeanneBowen.com.
        Abiding Together37 min
        71S13 E7 - Cultivating Silence and SolitudeIn this episode, we discuss the importance of cultivating silence and solitude in a world full of distractions. Our Lord speaks to us in the still small voice of our hearts and we talk about how the goal of silence is ultimately communion with God. We also chat about the difference between solitude versus isolation, reasons why we may be afraid of silence, and provide practical ways to cultivate silence in our daily lives. Jesus is the rest our souls yearn for and it is in the quiet where we meet Him most deeply. Heather’s One Thing - International Justice Mission -  IJM’s mission is to protect people in poverty from violence by rescuing victims, bringing criminals to justice, restoring survivors to safety and strength, and helping local law enforcement build a safe future that lasts. Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  The Greatest Philosopher Who Ever Lived by Dr. Peter Kreeft Michelle’s One Thing - Poco a Poco Podcast Announcement: We are so excited to announce our Advent book study will be: The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander You can find it on Amazon, Ave Maria Press, and Kindle (for just $1.99!). Your local Catholic bookstore may also carry the book! Click here to subscribe to the study on our website and be the first to receive updates! Journal Questions: - What are the sources of interior and exterior noise in my life? - What forms of silence is God inviting me to? - Have I ever been wounded by silence? Have I ever been healed by silence? - Do I approach silence with fear or trust? Discussion Questions: - What is real solitude? - What scares you most about silence? - Who in your life practices silence excellently? What can you learn from her/him? - What needs do you need to meet before you can enter into silence (childcare, rest, food, movement)? Quote to Ponder: “Without solitude, it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.... We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.” (Henri Nouwen) Scripture for Lectio: He said, “Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.” Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence. When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. (1 KIings 19:11-13) Sponsor - Saintly Heart and Brother Francis Saintly Heart is a family-owned Catholic Toy company in Phoenix, Arizona creating faith-based, educational toys carefully designed by Speech Pathologist Maggie Jetty. Brother Francis is an animated program created to teach kids the basic principles of the Catholic faith. Along with 22 episodes, there are also books, games, prayer cards and more available to teach kids about their faith. Saintly Heart and Brother Francis teamed up to offer parents an exceptional line of toys that encourage children to learn about their faith through hands-on exploration. Best-selling educational and faith-based toys include: A Church Playset, Stations of the Cross Pray and Play set, a Sacraments Puzzle, a Pray and Play ABC Puzzle, and a Fatima Lacing Set. Introduce children to the beauty of our faith while they are developing key cognitive, physical, and language skills with prayerfully and intentionally designed toys at www.saintlyheart.com and www.BrotherFrancis.com and use code TOGETHER  for 15% off
        Abiding Together35 min
        72S13 E6 - St. Thérèse - "C'est la Confiance" (Part 2)In this episode, we conclude our two part series on Pope Francis’ recent Apostolic Exhortation about St. Thérèse of Lisieux entitled “C’est la Confiance: On Confidence in the Merciful Love of God”. We discuss how we are all called to a bridal relationship with Jesus and how our desire to love and be loved is a call to Heaven. We also chat about our vocation to love and the importance of growing in this discipline of love even when it is not reciprocated. Heather’s One Thing - The song Hell or High Water by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  The Way of Trust and Love by Fr. Jacques Philippe Michelle’s One Thing - Story of a Soul - study edition Michelle’s Other One Thing - The song Thank God I Do by Lauren Daigle Other Resources Mentioned: Reading Recommendations about St. Therese: - The Way of Trust and Love - by Fr. Jacques Philippe - The Story of a Soul - by St. Therese - I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Therese of Lisieux - by Jean D'Elbee - 33 days to Merciful Love - Fr. Micheal Gaitley - Shirts of Flame - A year with St. Therese of Lisieux - by Heather King Announcement: We are so excited to announce our Advent book study will be: The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander You can find it on Amazon, Ave Maria Press, and Kindle (for just $1.99!). Your local Catholic bookstore may also carry the book! Click here to subscribe to the study on our website and be the first to receive updates! Journal Questions: - What parts in me long to be right rather than loving? - What hinders me from loving? - What grudges and resentments am I holding today? - How am I tempted to criticize instead of taking action in love and kindness? Discussion Questions: - In what ways do you notice a desire for romance and pursuit in your life? How does this speak to how God reveals Himself to us? - How are you called to choose love in your daily life? - How are you bringing love and light into the church? - Where do I notice division in my heart? How can I invite God in for unity and healing? Quote to Ponder: “I think that the Heart of my Spouse is mine alone, just as mine is his alone, and I speak to him then in the solitude of this delightful heart to heart, while waiting to contemplate him one day face to face.” (St. Therese) Scripture for Lectio: “My beloved is mine, and I am his; he browses among the lilies.” (Song of Songs 2:16) Sponsor - The GIVEN Institute Apply NOW for the 2024 GIVEN cohort! GIVEN's year-long program of faith formation, leadership development and dedicated mentoring includes attendance at the Catholic Young Women's Leadership Forum June 8-12, 2024 at the Catholic University of America in Washington, DC and 1-on-1 mentorship with an established Catholic female leader in the Art of Accompaniment Mentoring Program until May 2025. If you are a woman between the ages 21-35 and are seeking leadership training, faith formation, community and support to better understand and pursue your particular mission and vocation, the program is designed just for you!  You’ll grow in relationship with Christ and understanding of your gifts as you implement a unique Action Plan that helps you follow God’s call. GIVEN is also accepting applications for lay and consecrated mentors and event volunteers. For more info, visit www.giveninstitute.com/forum
        Abiding Together25 min
        73S13 E5 - St. Thérèse - "C'est la Confiance" (Part 1)In this episode, we begin a two part series on Pope Francis’ recent Apostolic Exhortation about St. Therese of Lisieux entitled “C’est la Confiance: On Confidence in the Merciful Love of God”. We reflect on what it looks like to abandon ourselves with total confidence in God's love and how to overcome places in our lives where we feel orphaned or forgotten by God. We also chat about how a praying church is a powerful church and what it means to be childlike instead of childish. St. Therese’s “little way” can guide us in learning to pray, trust, and love. Heather’s One Thing - Renewal Ministries (Check out this video as well) Heather’s Other One Thing - St Therese’s poem “My Wishes Before the Tabernacle” Sister Miriam’s One Thing -  Sarah Kroger’s cover of the song What a Wonderful World Michelle’s One Thing - One of our future sponsors: Bell Road Beef Other Resources Mentioned: S1 E11: Striving vs Abiding Our Searching for and Maintaining Peace Book Study Journal Questions: - Where have I distorted the goodness of the Lord? - How do I treat God like my personal assistant? - When have I felt that God was unsafe for me to trust? - In what ways do I live out of self-reliance? Discussion Questions - How often do you receive the gaze of Jesus in your life? - Does childlikeness come naturally to you? - When have you relied on and trusted in God in your life? - What parts of your daily life can you surrender to God? Quotes to Ponder: “It is confidence and nothing but confidence that must lead us to Love.” (St. Therese) Scripture for Lectio: “God is love” (1 Jn 4:8-16) Sponsor - The National Eucharistic Congress: LEARN MORE ABOUT THE NATIONAL EUCHARISTIC CONGRESS The 10th National Eucharistic Congress will be a pivotal moment in both American history and the legacy of the Catholic Church. The bishops of the United States are calling on each community—from rural Alaska to urban New York—to come be set ablaze, bringing the holy fire back to their home parishes and neighborhoods. Jesus Christ will be there. Sr. Miriam will be there. Will you? When: July 17-21, 2024 Where: Lucas Oil Stadium, Indianapolis, Indiana Learn more: https://www.eucharisticcongress.org/ Speakers: https://www.eucharisticcongress.org/speakers Schedule: https://www.eucharisticcongress.org/schedule Come as an individual/family: https://www.eucharisticcongress.org/register-standard Bring a group: https://www.eucharisticcongress.org/groups/group-leaders
        Abiding Together37 min
        74S13 E4 - Sacrament of the Present MomentIn this episode, we chat about the importance of living in the present moment and recognizing the beauty of ordinary life. In today’s modern world, we are constantly surrounded by distractions and can be tempted to focus on the past or the future and can lose sight of the gifts and graces right in this present moment. We share practical ways we live in the moment, we discuss the struggle of being in the culture, yet living differently from it, and ponder the power of prioritizing people over productivity. We invite you to take the present moment and see how the Lord is working in your life through the people and world around you. Heather’s One Thing - Healing pilgrimage to France with Jake and Heather and Fr. Nathan Malavolti, TOR Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Twitter Feed of @DanWuori Michelle’s One Thing - The book: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Michelle’s Other One Thing - Two recipes: Chili Lime Roasted Cauliflower and Apple Crumble Cheesecake Announcement: Happy birthday to our dearest Sr. Miriam! We love you! Journal Questions: - Do I live like a tourist or a pilgrim? - Do I live like a consumer or a cultivator? - How does the Lord want to reorder my loves? - Where in my life do I feel hurried? Am I the source of hurry or is the source external? - What specific duties of my vocation am I avoiding or too distracted to fulfill? Discussion Questions: - What is distracting you from the present moment in your daily life? - Do you have a favorite way to bring yourself back to the present moment? - What battles are you fighting that God isn’t asking you to fight that are costing your attention? - How is my current relationship with my content and media consumption? Quote to Ponder: “If we have abandoned ourselves to God, there is only one rule for us: the duty of the present moment.” (Jean-Pierre de Caussade, Abandonment to Divine Providence) Scripture for Lectio: But strive first for the kingdom of God and his ]righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.“So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.   (Matthew 6: 33- 34) Sponsor - Sacred Woodworks: It should be easy for your home to reflect the seasons of the Church, drawing your family closer to Christ!  Ashley and Aislinn, the women behind Sacred Woodworks, know how busy lifestyles and our noisy culture can make it difficult to create a beautiful and faith-filled home. They have been developing their family décor and traditions for over a decade and are excited to share them with you. Check out their line of products made from high-quality, sustainable wood and crafted in South Bend, IN: -  Liturgical Lingo bundles of standing wooden letters that spell out Catholic phrases - Sacred Architecture wall art that offers a modern take on timeless stained-glass windows -  Laser-etched Saint Portraits based on photographs of modern saints - Bar Signs that distill practical wisdom for daily inspiration. Discover beautiful décor to nourish Catholic families and traditions at sacredwoodworks.co today. Use code ABIDE15 to get 15% off your entire order! Follow them on social media @sacredwoodworks
        Abiding Together39 min
        75S13 E3 - Discernment of Spirits with Fr. Boniface Hicks O.S.B. (Hearing the Voice of God Series Part 2)In this episode we welcome back Fr Boniface Hicks, OSB, a Benedictine monk and spiritual director at Saint Vincent Archabbey, to talk about the discernment of spirits. We chat about the reality of spiritual warfare, why we need not be afraid, and how to practically discern God’s voice versus our own thoughts. Fr. Boniface also defines the difference between spiritual desolation and psychological depression as well as clarity on whether we should seek spiritual direction or counseling. Heather’s One Thing - Why Not Become Totally Fire Shirts Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song Godhead Here in Hiding - Luke Spehar Michelle’s One Thing - Pumpkin Olive Oil Cake Fr. Boniface’s One Thing - His St. Bernard Honeybee Story Other Resources Mentioned: Fr. Timothy Gallagher’s Podcast, Books, and Resources Journal Questions: - Where do I see division within my heart and seek the Holy Spirit’s bond of love? - When have I experienced spiritual consolation? - When have I experienced spiritual desolation? - Is there anything I am discerning in this season? How can I listen for the movements of the Lord? Discussion Questions: - How have you experienced the closeness of the Lord? - What questions stirred in your heart while listening to this episode? - What obstacles do you experience in noticing the movements of your heart? - Have you been able to distinguish the Lord’s voice and movements? How did you identify His voice? Quotes to Ponder: "Our only desire and our one choice should be this: I want and I choose what better leads to God's deepening life in me."- St. Ignatius Loyola “Lay all of your cares about the future trustingly in God’s hands, and let yourself be guided by the Lord just like a little child” - St Teresa Benedicta of the Cross Scripture for Lectio: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” -Romans 12:2 Sponsor - The Ember Collective “Holistic wellness in light of eternity.” The Ember Collective is a community of women passionate about holistic wellness through the lens of our Catholic faith. They believe that we cannot separate the physical from the spiritual, and that harmony exists among them.You can subscribe to The Ember Journal, a visually stunning quarterly print magazine that dives into nutrition, broader health & wellness topics, our Catholic faith, liturgical living, delicious and nourishing whole food recipes, and more. Beyond the Journal, Ember offers an in-depth home wellness guide, Viriditas, for you and your families. This takes the reader deeper into holistic nutrition and related topics. Use the code ABIDE10 to get 10% off our entire shop.
        Abiding Together40 min
        76S13 E2 - How to Pray with Fr. Boniface Hicks O.S.B. Hearing the Voice of God (Series Part 1)In this episode we welcome Fr Boniface Hicks, OSB, a Benedictine monk and spiritual director at Saint Vincent Archabbey, to talk about prayer and hearing the voice of God. We discuss the beauty of learning to recognize God’s voice and various practical steps we can take to listen to and understand what God is saying in our lives. Fr. Boniface also shares examples of common stumbling blocks and how our woundedness can affect how we pray. Heather’s One Thing - The song Heart of God by Hillsong Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The travel aeropress and travel hot water kettle from Fr. Boniface Michelle’s One Thing - Fr. Boniface’s books on Personal Prayer and St. Joseph Michelle’s Other One Thing - College Football Fr. Boniface’s One Thing - Being a part of the Abiding Together Podcast Other Resources Mentioned: The Fruit of Her Womb: 33-Day Preparation for Total Consecration to Jesus Through Mary by Fr. Boniface Hicks Discussion Questions: - What did you learn about prayer in this episode? - How do you see God’s love for you as you reflect on the Gospels? - What is your current prayer routine? - What pressures and insecurities do you experience when approaching God in prayer? Journal Questions: - What obstacles and distractions in my life prevent me from making space for silence? - What parts of myself do I struggle to bring into my relationship with God? - After listening to this episode, what do I want to incorporate into my prayer life? - Where in my heart and my life do I feel the most poor? Quotes to Ponder: “For by doing what God demands of us with total surrender of our innermost being, we cause the divine life to become our own inner life. Entering into ourselves, we find God in our own selves.”  (St Teresa Benedicta of the Cross/ Edith Stein) “May my life be a continual prayer, a long act of love.” (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity) Scripture for Lectio: “ Lord, teach us to pray.” (Luke 11:1) Sponsor - CORDA Create a place of peace and prayer in your home with CORDA candles - these are Catholic candles like you’ve never seen or smelled before! The candles are made with clean coconut wax and custom fragrances directly inspired by saints and the faith, and are handcrafted by a husband-and-wife team. Each candle comes beautifully packaged and ready for gifting, with the story behind the scent inspiration on the box. And the simple design of the candle leads with beauty, helping you share the faith in a lovely and meaningful way. Explore CORDA’s beautiful Catholic candles and, through October 31, 2023, save 10% with code ABIDE at cordacandles.com
        Abiding Together40 min
        77S13 E1 - Pilgrims into the MysteriesIn this episode, we discuss what happens in our lives during the summer, through the lens of the four mysteries of the rosary: joyful, sorrowful, luminous, and glorious. We chat about how each of our lives are a pilgrimage and how even when we cannot feel or see it, God is continuously working. Today, we invite you to reflect upon your recent faith journey and discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul. Heather’s One Thing - My revised prayer space Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The book: Wisdom of the Heart by Dr. Peter Kreft Michelle’s One Thing - Two songs: Joy by Ben Rector & The Choir Room and Mannasseh by Anna Golden Discussion Questions: - Which Mystery of the Rosary has resonated with you most in this chapter of your life? - Which Mystery of the Rosary has been the hardest for you to resonate with in this chapter of your life? - What does it mean for your body to be a temple of the Holy Spirit? Where in your body are you experiencing healing? - Where in your life are you looking for resuscitation from God when He wants to offer you resurrection? Journal Questions: - When I hear the word “pilgrimage,” what areas of my life come to mind? - Where in my life am I experiencing delight? - Where in my life am I experiencing sorrow? - Where in my life am I experiencing God’s glory? - Where in my life am I experiencing illumination? - Where in my body are you experiencing healing? Where in my body am I in need of healing? Quotes to Ponder: When we enter the desert of doubts, let us stop and pause and understand that we are on a pilgrimage. This moves our soul and our hearts ever closer to God. And that strange mystery, of believing when there is nothing to believe in, is the key to complete trust in God and the dissolution of doubt.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” (Hebrews 11:8) Sponsor - Ave Maria Press Erica Tighe Campbell, owner and designer of Be A Heart, has created a stunning, full-color, hardcover guide to help you celebrate the faith throughout the year. Living the Seasons is brimming with clever, doable, and beautiful crafts and activities; vivid photographs; brief introductions to the seasons and the lives of the saints; heartfelt notes of encouragement; and original Be A Heart illustrations. This gorgeous companion will become your favorite resource for living your faith at home for years to come. LIving the Seasons will help you discover that the liturgical calendar, which follows the seasons of a year in the life of the Church, is a tool that can draw you—individually, as a family, or as a community—closer to God in the midst of a fast-paced and ever-changing world. It would make the perfect wedding, baby shower, housewarming, or Christmas gift this season! Use code ABIDE23 at avemariapress.com to get 15% OFF your order. Order now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/living-the-seasons
        Abiding Together53 min
        78S12 E24 - Christifideles Laici Chapter 5: That You Bear Much FruitIn this episode, we conclude our five part study of Christifideles Laici. We discuss how life is a continual maturation process and in order to bear new fruit, we need to put in the effort to grow. Community is an integral part of this formation and we chat about how allowing others into our lives is necessary for this maturation and healing. We have deeply enjoyed journeying with you this summer and are excited to announce that Season 13 will begin on September 25th! God bless you friends and thank you for being a part of our community! Heather’s One Thing - The song I Just Love You by UPPERROOM and Abbie Gamboa Heather’s Other One Thing - Jake Khym’s new course on Identity. Visit Life Restoration Ministries to find out more information and sign up for the course this fall Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Healing the Whole Person Weeklong Virtual Retreat Michelle’s One Thing - Her friends the O’Grady’s and for their generosity in letting her use their beachhouse to record this summer series. Discussion Questions: - How are you being called to grow and mature? - Do you believe that Jesus desires to heal you? How can you open your life to healing? - How are you letting yourself be formed? Journal Questions: - Where does the Holy Spirit long to bring fruit in my life? - Are the fruits of the Holy Spirit present in my emotions? - Are the fruits of the Holy Spirit present in my relationship with my spouse? With my community? With my children? - Are the fruits of the Holy Spirit present in my home? At work? - Do I have a teachable spirit? Quotes to Ponder: The gospel image of the vine and the branches reveals to us another fundamental aspect of the lay faithful's life and mission:the call to growth and a continual process of maturation, of always bearing much fruit. (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 57) To be able to discover the actual will of the Lord in our lives always involves the following: a receptive listening to the Word of God and the Church, fervent and constant prayer, recourse to a wise and loving spiritual guide, and a faithful discernment of the gifts and talents given by God, as well as the diverse social and historic situations in which one lives. (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 58) Scripture for Lectio: "He who abides in me and I in him bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." -John 15:5 Sponsor - January Jane Shop: January Jane Shop is an online Catholic boutique known for their unique lifestyle products, including trending apparel, vintage stationery, mugs, folk art, tea towels, and other eclectic gifts. Each product is prayerfully made with original artwork and designs by Jana Zuniga, a Colorado based artist. Parents, teachers, and students all over the world have purchased their best selling Heirloom Polaroid Saint Prints for their homes, offices, and classroom walls. Other well loved products include their embroidered Holy Family Floral Sweatshirt, their wooden Wildflower Press Kits, and their Fiat Floral Garden Tee. If you’re looking for meaningful gifts, fresh home decor, or something cute to elevate your wardrobe, January Jane Shop is the place to go. Use code ABIDE15 for 15% OFF your order at January Jane Shop. Please note that inventory is limited, so don’t wait to press purchase if you find something you like! Visit januaryjaneshop.com to start shopping!
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        79S12 E23 - Christifideles Laici Chapter 4: Laborers in the Lord’s VineyardIn this week’s episode, we continue with part four of our study on Christifideles Laici. We dive deep into the role of women and discuss how embracing the fullness of our femininity can uniquely help heal the culture. We also reflect on how the Church is like a loving mother and each one of us belongs and is deeply cherished. Whether we are young or old, a man or a woman, healthy or sick, each of us are invited to offer our gifts in God’s vineyard. Heather’s One Thing - Ascension’s Catechism Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song Peace by Bethel Music Michelle’s One Thing - Word on Fire Bible Volume III (or on Amazon here) Discussion Questions: - How can women prepare Christ’s Bride, the Church, for Christ? - How is God inviting you to see womanhood as a gift? - What is God’s mission for your family? How do each of your family members participate in that? Journal Questions: - Do I feel like I belong in the Church? - How am I being sanctified by my current season of life? - How have I diminished my voice and accepted smallness disguised as littleness? - What is God calling my family to? Quote to Ponder: According to the gospel parable, the "householder" calls the labourers for his vineyard at various times during the day: some at dawn, others about nine in the morning, still others about midday and at three, the last, around five (cf. Mt 20:1 ff.). In commenting on these words of the gospel, Saint Gregory the Great makes a comparison between the various times of the call and the different stages in life: "It is possible to compare the different hours", he writes, "to the various stages in a person's life. According to our analogy the morning can certainly represent childhood. The third hour, then, can refer to adolescence; the sun has now moved to the height of heaven, that is, at this stage a person grows in strength. The sixth hour is adulthood, the sun is in the middle of the sky, indeed at this age the fullness of vitality is obvious. Old age represents the ninth hour, because the sun starts its descent from the height of heaven, thus the youthful vitality begins to decline. The eleventh hour represents those who are most advanced in years... The labourers, then, are called and sent forth into the vineyard at different hours, that is to say, one is led to a holy life during childhood, another in adolescence, another in adulthood and another in old age". (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 45) Scripture for Lectio: "Jesus, looking upon him, loved him" (Mk 10:21). Sponsor - MyCatholicDoctor: MyCatholicDoctor is a nationwide organization that brings a network of faithful medical professionals to patients through video visits/telehealth, home visits, and office referrals. Our clinicians can initiate your medical care virtually, order any necessary labs or imaging, and send prescriptions to any pharmacy of your choice. We practice evidence-based scientific medicine from a Catholic perspective and integrate Catholic spirituality into our care as appropriate to the situation. We accept most major insurances. If you do not have insurance, are out of network, or use a health sharing ministry, we offer discounted self-pay rates. Our clinicians offer a wide range of services such as virtual primary care, urgent care, fertility care and more. Visit www.mycatholicdoctor.com today make an appointment or to get seen now.
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        80S12 E22 - Christifideles Laici Chapter 3: I Have Appointed You to Go Forth and Bear FruitIn this episode, we continue with part three of our study on Christifideles Laici. We discuss how we are all called to evangelization, how our unique gifts allow us to bring Christ’s light to the world in different ways, and how our lives can be a living witness of what we believe. We also reflect on why community with family, friends, and our parishes is essential in cultivating mission, and how our mission is reciprocally accomplished within communion. Heather’s One Thing - The album Live in the Prayer Room by Jeremy Riddle Heather’s Other One Thing - Our staff behind the scenes: Camille, Kate, and Kristina Michelle’s One Thing - The Book Living the Seasons: Simple Ways to Celebrate the Beauty of Your faith Throughout the Year by Erica Tighe Campbell Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Overnight chia protein pudding Discussion Questions: - How is your life and mission bearing the fruit of communion? - How are you being called to participate in the time of re-evangelization? - How are you experiencing a paralytic spirit of fear? - Where in your life do you want to invite the Holy Spirit into? Journal Questions: - Who am I? Where do I belong? - How is God inviting me to make a gift of my life? - How can I be salt and light to the world? - Is my life bearing the fruit of communion? Quotes to Ponder: Communion and mission are profoundly connected with each other, they interpenetrate and mutually imply each other, to the point that communion represents both the source and the fruit of mission: communion gives rise to mission and mission is accomplished in communion (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 32) The family is the basic cell of society. It is the cradle of life and love, the place in which the individual "is born" and "grows". (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 40) Scripture for Lectio: "Each branch of mine that bears no fruit, he (my Father) takes away." John 15:2 Sponsor - SOLT Motherhouse Campaign Instead of a sponsor today, we wanted to highlight a fundraising campaign that is very near and dear to our hearts. The SOLT Sisters (Sister Miriam's order!) are building a Motherhouse in Corpus Christi, TX so that they can not only provide housing and medical care for their aging sisters, but also so they can better serve their community locally and abroad. The mission of the SOLT sisters is to be the light of Christ in areas of deepest apostolic need. They serve in many capacities including education, evangelization, pastoral care, retreats, health care, and drug rehabilitation. The sisters have already raised over $5.5M and are 73% of the way to their $7.5M goal. If you feel the call to donate to the Motherhouse Campaign, you can visit SOLT.net/motherhouse. There you can learn more about the campaign, donate, make a pledge, or share the word about the mission of the beautiful SOLT sisters. If you want to help the SOLT sisters but feel like you are unable to do so financially, join us in saying a prayer for their campaign.
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        81S12 E21 - Christifideles Laici Chapter 2: In All Branches of a Single VineIn this episode, we continue with part two of our study on Christifideles Laici. We chat about unity within the Catholic Church, the role of your local parish, and the importance of community. We reflect on how easy it is to focus on the differences we encounter instead of the beauty of its complementarity and rich diversity. We discuss the need to restore the culture and how participation in our parish communities can build communion and encourage others to develop an authentic love of Jesus. Heather’s One Thing - Family photos taken by Laura-Anne Heather’s Other One Thing - The song Pure Abbie Gamboa from Upper Room Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The Godsplaining Podcast with Fr. Gregory Pine Michelle’s One Thing - Lavender Lemonade and Lavender Lemonade Cupcakes (Gluten Free Version Here). This is the lavender syrup I used. Discussion Questions: - What is your investment in your local parish? - How have you engaged with the Church with a consumerist mentality? - Where in my heart do I fall into divisive thinking about the Church? - What gifts and charisms is God inviting you to use in service of the Church? Journal Questions: - How have I experienced communion with my parish and the Body of Christ at large? - Am I allowing the gifts and preferences of others to be seen in the lens of complementarity? - Am I praying for communion and revival within the Church? Quotes to Ponder: 'Communion' speaks of a double, lifegiving participation: the incorporation of Christians into the life of Christ, and the communication of that life of charity to the entire body of the Faithful, in this world and in the next, union with Christ and in Christ, and union among Christians, in the Church" (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 19) A member of the lay faithful "can never remain in isolation from the community, but must live in a continual interaction with others, with a lively sense of fellowship, rejoicing in an equal dignity and common commitment to bring to fruition the immense treasure that each has inherited. (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 20) Scripture for Lectio: “Abide in me and I in you” John 15:4 Sponsor - Endow Endow seeks to educate women toward a more profound understanding of their God-given dignity through study in small group communities of faith and friendship. John Paul II once said: “Woman has a genius all her own which is vitally essential to both society and the Church.” The Church needs you to be empowered to cultivate the feminine genius in every aspect of life and society. There are women just like you looking for friendship and who are looking to learn from the intellectual tradition of the Church. Be transformed by studying John Paul II’s On the Dignity and Vocation of Women in an 8, 10, or 12-week Endow group. Start or join a group with other women to ponder the anthropology of man and woman, God’s intention for their relationship, woman’s vocation to motherhood, and the Church as Bride of Christ. Visit endowgroups.org for more resources on how to join or start your own Endow group.
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        82S12 E20 - Christifideles Laici Chapter 1: I Am the Vine, You Are the BranchesIn this episode, we begin our five part summer study of St. Pope John Paul II’s Apostolic Exhortation, Christifideles Laici: on the vocation and the mission of the lay faithful in the Church and in the world. We share why we are excited for the study, ways we have been personally convicted to grow in faith, and what the universal call to holiness looks like in our everyday lives. In a time when darkness seems to be growing, we ponder how Jesus is the hope for humanity and the sense of urgency we should feel in being His light bearers to the world. The Lord has called you to holiness and to bear fruit in this world, wherever you may find yourself. Friends, in our study of Christifideles Laici, you will hear us talk about the recurring theme of community. While reading this apostolic exhortation and listening to each episode by yourself will certainly bear fruit in your life, we want to take a moment to encourage you to reach out to your friends and start a small group to discuss each chapter. We provide on our website journaling and discussion questions you can use, download, and print to begin the conversations. Our hope is that wherever you are, you can build authentic friendships, rooted in Christ, with those around you. Heather’s One Thing - The Ember Mug Heather’s Other One Thing - Clothed with Power from on High: A Short Catechesis on Charisms in the Life and Mission of the Church by Bishop Scott McCaig, CC. Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Just a Guy in the Pew Ministry Michelle’s One Thing -  The Rule: St. John Paul II's Rule for a Joy-filled Marriage of Divine Love by Theresa Martin and the Word on Fire article about the book Michelle’s Other One Thing - The song Fear is Not My Future by Todd Galberth and Tasha Cobbs Discussion Questions: - What has been your experience with papal encyclicals? What questions do you have before we dive in? - How is God calling you to recognize the sacredness of the human person in your daily life? - As we discussed in the Lenten study, how have you seen God invite you on mission in this season? - Where is your place in the vineyard and what does it look like? Journal Questions: - What words am I speaking into my family, my community, and my culture? - What sensitivities am I noticing in my heart to the challenges and limitations in the world around me? - How can I help? - How is God inviting me into deeper prayer and surrender in my daily life? Quote to Ponder: The gospel records that the weeds and the good grain grew together in the farmer's field. The same is true in history, where in everyday life, there often exist contradictions in the exercise of human freedom, where there is found, side by side and at times closely intertwined, evil and good, injustice and justice, anguish and hope. (Christifideles Laici Paragraph 3) Scripture for Lectio: "I am the vine and you are the branches." - John 15:5 Sponsor Information: Did you know we have a website? We post the episodes, beautiful PDFs of the discussion and journal questions, links to our One Things, and more. We have a calendar of all our upcoming events — check it out! We also post regularly on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, and we also have a private facebook group where listeners can chat about the episodes, share prayer intentions, and ask questions. For those who prefer YouTube, on our YouTube channel we post the audio from the podcast. Have you prayed about supporting the podcast but don’t know how? First, your prayers mean so much to us. We continue to pray for you as well. Second, consider subscribing to our channel on YouTube, Apple Podcast, Spotify, and/or leaving a review. The more people who subscribe helps our ranking with the algorithms which makes it easier for others to discover Abiding Together. Lastly, on our Patreon, you can support us financially. It takes a team effort to run this podcast, and your contributions make it possible for us to hire staff who manage the marketing and operations. Even $15 makes a difference. Go to Patreon.com/abidingtogetherpodcast. We are so grateful for each of you.
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        83S12 E19 - Where is the Fruit?In our final episode of Season 12, we dive deep into how the Lord has been working in our lives since we began the season in January. We acknowledge how easy it is to get caught up in the struggles of life and forget to take time to stop, pause, and remember the blessings we have received. We open up about the seeds the Lord has planted in our hearts, the areas in our lives He is re-awakening, and the spiritual fruit we have seen blossoming. Through our vulnerability, we hope you are inspired this summer to reflect on how the Lord has been working in your life and share it with someone you’re close to. Friends, we have enjoyed every moment of season 12 and are excited for where the Lord takes us next. Thank you for being on this journey of life with us. We hope you join us for our summer study that begins July 17 and our next season beginning in September. Heather’s One Thing - The song Tend by Bethel and my fruit salad tree Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song Detour by Sarah Kroger (lyric video) or (live performance) Michelle’s One Thing - The song - Benediction (Live) + Before, Behind, Beside (Spontaneous) by Rachel Morley & Kory Miller Discussion Questions: - What is the spirit saying to you? Where is He blowing? What is being reawakened? - What seeds have been planted in this past season? - Where do we see choice fruit in your life? - What desires has God placed on your heart? Journal Questions: - How has the Lord been awakening my heart in this season? - What needs to be nurtured and tended to in my heart? - What needs to be pruned? - What have I been learning about how God made me? Quote to Ponder: Holy Spirit, making life alive, moving in all things, root of all creative being, cleansing the cosmos of every impurity, effacing guilt, anointing wounds. You are lustrous and praiseworthy life. You waken and re-awaken everything that is. - St. Hildegard Scripture for Lectio: “Awake, north wind, and come south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.” - Song of Songs 4:16 Sponsor - Chews Life: At Chews Life, it is their mission to equip all Catholics with Rosaries for life. Chews Life believes that even the youngest Catholic can develop a devotion to the Rosary and come to know our Mother Mary. Their silicone Rosaries make this possible. Children discover through their senses, especially touch. Just as a baby knowingly caresses their mother’s face, so too their little hands will come to know the Rosary and cherish it. Chews Life also makes Rosaries for adults! Chews Life’s Rosaries are actually rosary bracelets, tha are designed to be with you all day and easily accessible. Each Rosary bracelets also feature a “bookmark” crucifix charm so that if you don’t have time to get through a whole Rosary at once, you can use this charm to hold your place until you can continue your prayer. These and so much more are available at www.chewslife.com!
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        84S12 E18 - Family Systems with Special Guest Sr. JosephineIn this episode we welcome Sr. Josephine Garrett, a Sister of the Holy Family of Nazareth, to talk about family systems. As a licensed counselor both in private practice and schools, Sr. Josephine shares the insights she has learned from working with children and parents to heal their relationships with each other and with themselves. We chat about the pain parents feel when their own wounds impact their kids, practical ways we can find hope and restoration, and how the sanctification within families contributes to the sanctification of the Church. Heather’s One Thing - The short film: The Boy, the Mole, the Fox, and the Horse Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Our listeners and college softball Michelle’s One Thing - The NBA playoffs Sister Josephine’s One Thing - The women’s Bible study at her parish Resources Mentioned in this Episode: - Wired to Connect: The Surprising Link Between Brain Science and Strong, Healthy Relationships by Amy Banks - How we Love - How we Love Website - Sr. Josephine’s Instagram Discussion Questions: - How have I experienced wounds in community? How have I experienced healing in community? - How is the Lord inviting you and your family to greater healing and holiness? - Was there anything from this episode that stuck out to you or surprised you? - How do you struggle with setting boundaries with your family? Journal Questions: - What does a healthy relationship look like with myself? With others? With God? - How have I experienced healing in my relationships, family, and friendships? - Where in my family and family systems do I lack hope? - How am I striving for perfection in my family? Quote to Ponder: “The first and fundamental structure for “human ecology” is the family, in which man receives his first formative ideas about truth and goodness, and learns what it means to love and to be loved, and thus what it actually means to be a person.” - Pope John Paul II Scripture for Lectio: “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.” - 1 John 4:7
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        85S12 E17 - Charisms with Special Guest Jill SimonsIn this episode, we welcome Jill Simons as our guest to talk about Charisms. A charism is a grace from God we are called to use to build up His Kingdom here on earth. We acknowledge a deep lie that many people believe they don’t have anything special to offer our communities or the Church, but the truth is that charisms are given to every person by God. Jill offers practical tools to help discern your charisms, the theology behind charisms, and how charisms work within our vocations. Heather’s One Thing - The song Most Beautiful by Upperroom and the unity that is increasing among denominations Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The St. Joseph Consecration on Hallow beginning May 1st (read by Sr. Miriam) Michelle’s One Thing - A Home in Bloom: Four Enchanted Seasons with Flowers by Christie Purifoy and The Blessed is She Journaling Bible Jill’s One Thing - Encounter School of Ministry Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Many Parts Ministries Pink Salt Riot Many Parts on Instagram Pink Salt Riot on Instagram Jill Simon’s Instagram Discussion Questions: - What gifts and charisms has God entrusted to you? - Who in your life lives out their charisms in freedom, boldness and generosity? What have you learned from them? - How do you experience Christ’s love and intimacy through your charisms and prayer? - How have you silenced or hidden the gifts you’ve been given or the call on your heart? Journal Questions: - How do I relate to my own gifts and charisms? Do I operate out of a performance mindset? - How do my charisms play a role with my vocation and the people around me? - What is the story of the Kingdom of God that the Lord is telling through my life and my charisms? - How is Jesus encountering me through my charisms and gifts? - What have I learned about my identity as the beloved through my charisms? Quote to Ponder: Christ has no body but yours, No hands, no feet on earth but yours, Yours are the eyes with which He looks Compassion on this world, Yours are the feet with which He walks to do good, Yours are the hands, with which He blesses all the world. Yours are the hands, yours are the feet, Yours are the eyes, you are His body. Christ has no body now but yours, No hands, no feet on earth but yours, Yours are the eyes with which he looks compassion on this world. Christ has no body now on earth but yours. — St. Teresa of Ávila (attributed) Scripture for Lectio: For God’s gifts and His call are irrevocable. - Romans 11:29 Sponsor - Mary’s Meals: Mary’s Meals sets up community-run school feeding projects in some of the world’s poorest communities, where poverty and hunger prevent children from gaining an education. The idea is a simple one that works. Mary’s Meals provides one daily meal in a place of learning to attract chronically poor children into the classroom, where they receive an education that can, in the future, be their ladder out of poverty. Today, Mary’s Meals is providing more than 2.4 million children with a daily school meal across five continents. But the need is great! The appalling reality is that there are still 73 million children living in extreme poverty in need of school feeding. Please help to reach the next hungry child waiting for Mary’s Meals. To get involved or learn more visit marysmeals.ca in Canada or marysmealsusa.org in the USA.
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        86S12 E16 - Remember Your First LoveIn this episode, we discuss Pope Francis’ Easter Vigil homily about the hope that comes from remembering Jesus, our first love. We reflect on his meditations about how the women in scripture are grieved to find Jesus’ empty tomb, and like these women, we all too often become hopeless and see joy as belonging to the past. We discuss moments of personal encounter with the love of Jesus that has healed us and offer an invitation to a renewed hope in Jesus by remembering the great joy and power that comes through relationship with Him. Let us allow our ‘sealed tombs’ to be opened and restored by hope this Easter season. Heather’s One Thing - The young leaders at Franciscan University Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Savory ham and cheese scones Michelle’s One Thing - Let Beauty Speak: The Art of Being Human in a Culture of Noise by Jimmy Mitchell (or on Amazon here) Michelle’s Other One Thing - The TOR Sisters - Sr. Rita Claire and Sr. Brigid as well as the CSU at Florida State University Resources Mentioned in this Episode: - Adam Young Podcast  - What to do with Your Sorrow and Grief p.1 - The Magician’s Nephew by C.S. Lewis Discussion Questions: - What does it mean to live in Resurrection power? - How is God encountering you in your life today? - In your life today and in the past, how have you experienced disappointment and grief? - Where in your life do you long for deeper freedom and joy? - When have you experienced the faithfulness and kingship of God? Journal Questions: - Where have I come into agreement with despair? - What “tombs” in my life do I run to in the hopes of encountering Christ? - In what ways do I ask God why I experience suffering instead of how He will bring about His Glory through it? - Where am I still hiding from the Lord? What lies do I believe when I am hiding? Quote to Ponder: Yet today, brothers and sisters, the power of Easter summons you to roll away every stone of disappointment and mistrust. The Lord is an expert in rolling back the stones of sin and fear. He wants to illuminate your sacred memory, your most beautiful memory, and to make you relive your first encounter with him.  - Pope Francis, Easter Vigil Homily Scripture for Lectio: “I have found the one my soul loves.” (Song of Songs, 3:4) Sponsor - Into the Deep: Want your kids to know about Jesus, and also to know Him? Into the Deep creates catechetical resources that help Catholic parents build a legacy of faith in their homes. Their resources hand on the fullness of the Faith through beauty, catechizing from classic art, music, poetry, nature study, and story. Their goal is to support parents as primary catechists as they make disciples in their home. These resources are perfect for homeschooling families but are also used widely by traditional schooling families as their touch-point for faith formation at home. Find full-year curricula, unit studies, picture studies, story cards, and more at intothedeep.co. Use code ABIDE 10 for 10% off your purchase!
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        87S12 E15 - How to Root Your Kids in the Soil of FaithIn this episode, we chat about helping children cultivate a deep relationship with God. In today’s culture, with entertainment and distractions at our fingertips, this can seem like a difficult task. We discuss the importance of being a good witness to our children and living out daily what you want them to learn. We also share examples of what we have done well, what we need to improve upon, and the amazing power of intercessory prayer. Heather’s One Thing - Letter to Families from JPII Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Jason and Crystalina Evert’s new book Male, Female, Other? Sister Miriam’s Other One Thing - The Pints with Aquinas episode: Responding to Transgenderism With Truth and Mercy w/ Jason Evert Michelle’s One Thing - The women’s bracket of March Madness Discussion Questions: - How is God inviting you to have a deeper role in the formation of children? - How can we help our kids grow in their relationship with God in the culture? - Do you have a rule of life? If not, what would you like to include in your rule of life? - What is the current culture of your family or household? How would you like it to grow? Journal Questions: - How was I formed in the Faith as a child? - Who are my spiritual children? - What does the Lord want for my family’s rule of life? - How is God inviting me to change the culture of my home? Quotes to Ponder: “As the family goes, so goes the nation, and so goes the whole world in which we live.” - St. Pope John Paul II, November 30, 1986 Homily in Perth “…the family is the centre and the heart of the civilization of love.” - St. Pope John Paul II, Letter to Families Scripture for Lectio: "As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” -Joshua. 24:15 Sponsor - The Augustine Institute: The Augustine Institute exists to help Catholics understand, live, and share their faith. Through initiatives like Amen, FORMED, the Graduate School of Theology, Word of Life, and others, the Augustine Institute forms Catholics for the New Evangelization to renew the Church and transform the world for Christ. The always-free prayer app, Amen, leads Catholics to deeper prayer with guided meditations, sleep stories, and more. The Graduate School of Theology equips thousands of students—including Sr. Miriam James Heidland, Leah Darrow, and other alumni—to know and live their faith. Millions of Catholics worldwide benefit from FORMED, the premier streaming service for Catholic movies, children’s programming, audio dramas, and books. Word of Life makes catechesis fresh and exciting, so kids can grow up with a faith they’ll keep for life. God calls you to understand, live, and share your faith. See how the Augustine Institute can support you in the New Evangelization
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        88S12 E14 - Lent Book Study Part 7: ConclusionIn this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We share what stood out to us most from the book study, how the Holy Spirit has been moving in our lives this Lent, and practical tips to continue your healing transformation this Easter season. Friends, God’s presence is always there, He does not leave us to fend for ourselves. As we journey through Holy Week and into Easter, we have the perfect opportunity to receive the Sacraments with a renewed and transformed heart. We are praying for you! Heather’s One Thing - Easter: Hallelujah is Our Song - Spotify Playlist Heather’s Other One Thing - Dr. Bob Schuchts Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Prayer from Healing the Whole Person Retreat Workbook “I will let God love me in the places where I feel most vulnerable and most dependent.” Michelle’s One Thing - All My Knotted-Up Life: A Memoir by Beth Moore Other resources mentioned in this episode: The Fear of God - talk by Francis Chan (begins at 1:31:40) Discussion Questions: - What have you learned this Lent? - What gifts has God given you this Lent? - Which Sacraments did you encounter deeply this Lent? - Where in your life are you struggling to experience joy and freedom? Journal Questions: - When I judge others, where am I trying to protect my heart? - Where am I afraid of my own needs and wounds? - Where do I need the Lord to love me? - How is the Lord inviting me to bring the healing I have experienced through this book study into Easter? Quotes to Ponder: To be sure, it was not Easter Sunday but Holy Saturday, but, the more I reflect on it, the more this seems to be fitting for the nature of our human life: we are still awaiting Easter; we are not yet standing in the full light but walking toward it full of trust. - Pope Benedict XVI Faith in the resurrection of Jesus says that there is a future for every human being;  the cry for unending life which is a part of the person is indeed answered… God exists: that is the real message of Easter. Anyone who even begins to grasp what this means also knows what it means to be redeemed. – Pope Benedict XVI Scripture for Lectio: “His divine power has bestowed on us everything that makes for life and devotion” - 2 Peter 1:3 Sponsor - The Little Catholic: Today's sponsor is The Little Catholic. Beauty has a powerful ability to draw people to the Church, whether it be the sound of prayers, the beautiful stained glass windows of a church, or the kindness of another person. With each hand-crafted item, the Little Catholic Shop seeks to empower women to cultivate a deeper faith and inspire a beauty that heals each person who sees or wears their pieces. Their impact extends beyond jewelry and empowering women. They also empower and partner with nonprofits around the globe, designing beautiful pieces unique to their cause and donating a portion of all proceeds back to their mission. Giving back is one of their fundamental values. The Little Catholic has jewelry for everyone. One of their most popular collections is the Holy Family Hearts Jewelry Collection. This Jewelry collection shows all three Sacred Hearts of the Holy Family: Jesus' Sacred Heart, The Immaculate Heart of Mary and the most chaste heart of St. Joseph.  The pendant shows Jesus's Sacred Heart nestled between Mary's Immaculate Heart and Joseph's Chaste Heart, just as they were on the day Jesus was born in that simple Stable. Abiding Together listeners can receive 15% their order with the code Abide 15. Head over to their shop at thelittlecatholic.com to find a piece that inspires you.
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        89S12 E13 - Lent Book Study Part 6: Anointing of the SickIn this episode, we continue with part six of our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We discuss how the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick heals the wound of hopelessness and share the different ways we approach these dark and sometimes scary places in life. While, in the moment, it may appear that we are alone, God never leaves us and wants to restore our hope in Him. Whenever you experience hopelessness, we invite you to surrender your sorrows to Him and courageously place your hope in our faithful God. Hey friends! We are going to continue this series with one more bonus episode next Monday, April 3rd to share further insights and conclude Be Transformed. Heather’s One Thing - Matt Maher’s new albums exclusively on Hallow Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The wonderful people in Grand Rapids, MI from the KEPHA men’s and women’s conferences! Michelle’s One Thing - Missionaries! Other resources mentioned in this episode: S6 E13 - The Light Shines in the Darkness with Fr. Justin Brady Why Your Story Makes It Hard to Hope - Adam Young (The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast) Discussion Questions: - Is Jesus’ resurrection real and important in your daily life? - What prevents you from believing that Jesus is who He says He is? - For which wounds or sorrows have you started to lose hope for healing? - What is the truth that God is inviting you to proclaim in response to feelings of hopelessness? Journal Questions: - How have you encountered the sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick? - Where in my life do I experience hopelessness? - What obstacles in my life and heart make it hard for me to experience hope? - What does the Holy Spirit need to remind me of in this season of life? Quotes to Ponder: “Every temptation comes down to this one final temptation, it is the temptation to believe that the satisfaction of the deepest desires of our heart is totally up to us.” - Fr. Albacete Healing and miracles often increase our hope, but they are not the basis for our hope. We have another more trustworthy, rock-solid foundation for our hope: the person, Jesus Christ, who describes himself as “the resurrection and the life.” He told Martha, anyone who believes in him will never die (see Jn11:25-26). Holding firm to this hope, we are promised a share in his life. All of us who believe in the Resurrection are already “raised to life” This is our hope.   - Be Transformed, pg 150 Scripture for Lectio: "Cure the sick, raise the dead." - Matthew 10:7–8 Sponsor - Leanne Bowen: Today’s sponsor is Leanne Bowen Fine Art. Leanne is a Catholic Artist and stay at home mom. She just released a beautiful collection of candle tins that are the perfect size for gift giving. She offers bulk rates for Confirmation and Ordination Classes. She also has candles that are Tuscan Lemon, Orange Blossom and Magnolia, Peony, and Rose candle. They have beautiful paintings and quotes on them. Her most popular candle is Chrism scented, and smells exactly like the oil used at Baptism! Leanne also has incredible prints in her shop. One of her recent prints is of Our Lady of Guadalupe, placing her mantle gently around a priest, as he lifts the Eucharist. Leanne makes beautiful wedding and Sacrament gifts, as well as great gems for Easter. If you are looking for a truly beautiful and unique gift, please visit www.leannebowen.com. She is offering 15% off to all our listeners through May 1st with the code ABIDE15.
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        90S12 E12 - Lent Book Study Part 5: ReconciliationIn this episode, we continue with part five of our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We discuss how Reconciliation heals the wound of shame. We chat about how we all have wounds that make us feel unlovable and send us into isolation, which opens the door for the enemy to attack us with doubts and lies about these tender places. When we go to Confession, these places are brought out of shame, into the light, and restored to the truth that we are deeply and tenderly loved by God. This Lent, we encourage you to allow God’s mercy to restore you in the sacrament of confession. Heather’s One Thing - Jordan Peterson Heather’s Other One Thing - The song Communion by Maverick City (feat. Steffany Gretzinger & Brandon Lake) Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Springtime! Yay! Michelle’s One Thing - Holy Grit - Paul George (you can find on Amazon here) Discussion Questions: - How have you experienced healing in the Sacrament of Reconciliation? - How do you hide in your shame and sinfulness? - In what ways do you desire to more deeply experience the power of the sacrament? Journal Questions: - In what ways am I hiding my sinfulness when I confess my sins? - Where do I experience shame that the Lord is inviting me to bring to Him for healing? - Have I been hurt by the brokenness of priests in the Sacrament of Reconciliation? What does Jesus say to me in that wound? - When was the last time I made a good confession? Quotes to Ponder: The sacrament of Reconciliation is one of the Church’s primary means of communicating this incredible and completely underserved gift of God’s compassion and forgiveness. Through the sacrament, the Holy Spirit is capable of reaching the deepest areas of our heart that keep us in degradation and separation. - Be Transformed, pg 123 “The whole power of the sacrament of Penance [Reconciliation] consists in restoring us to God’s grace and joining us with him in an intimate friendship” (CCC, 1468). As such it heals the wounds of shame (dis-grace) and restores us to our true identity in Christ, as pure and undefiled children of the Father (see 1 Jn 3:1–3). - Be Transformed, pg 123 Scripture for Lectio: “Neither do I condemn you. Go, and from now on, do not sin anymore.” John 8:11 Sponsor - House of Joppa: This week’s episode is sponsored by House of Joppa.  If you are looking for beautifully curated Catholic home décor, jewelry, art, rosaries, and other gifts, look no further than House of Joppa.  Each product is designed to draw you deeper into your faith and help you to fall more in love with Christ and His Church. Whether you are looking for something for yourself or a special gift for a friend, you will love House of Joppa.  My favorite products are their Vintage Sacred Heart Medallion which opens to reveal a place for prayer intentions, and their Last Supper print is so unique. Abiding Together listeners receive 15% off their purchase at checkout with discount code: ABIDE15.  Visit them online at https://www.houseofjoppa.com or on Instagram @houseofjoppa.
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        91S12 E11 - Lent Book Study Part 4: Holy Orders and MarriageIn this episode, we continue with part four of our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We begin by discussing how Holy Orders heals the wound of confusion. Through the priesthood, God is giving us His Heart and confirms our identity as His beloved adopted children. We share ways different priests have impacted our lives both positively and negatively and chat about the importance of praying for priests. Next, we discuss how Marriage heals the wound of fear. This Sacrament is a beautiful window into the mystery of Trinitarian love. We touch on how Marriage can heal those in the single state as well as those in a difficult or broken marriage. Remember, God is the only One who can give us the perfect love we crave. We need to draw our strength from Him as we journey towards healing and transformation. Hey friends! We know that Be Transformed is packed with incredible things, so we encourage you to not feel the need to rush. We want this to be a place where you can rest and be with the Holy Spirit. If you find yourself stuck on a chapter, we invite you to take the time you need and join us again when ready. May God bless you and bring you healing through His Sacraments! Heather’s One Thing- Daily Mass Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Gift and Grit: How Heroic Virtue Can Change Your Life and Relationships by Sarah and Andy Swafford Michelle’s One Thing - Blessed is She Burn Retreat Michelle’s Other One Thing - College roommates and friends Michelle’s Other Other One Thing - Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett’s podcast and book Daughter by Design Discussion Questions: - In what ways has God brought restoration in your relationship with Him as Father? - How is God inviting you to draw nearer to the fathers in your life? - In what ways are you withholding yourself from Christ (and your spouse)? - What fears do you bring into your relationships? - How can you open yourself to the beauty of the marriages around you? Journal Questions: - What is my story of fatherhood with my biological father? With my spiritual fathers? With our Heavenly Father? - How am I presently choosing self-reliance as the result of a father wound? - How have I experienced woundedness from my parents’ marriage? From my own marriage? - How have I experienced healing from my parents' marriage, other marriages, or my own marriage? Quotes to Ponder: According to St. John Paul II, our rebellion against God’s fatherly authority has permeated all of history since the fall: “This is truly the key to interpreting reality. . . . Original sin, then, attempts to abolish fatherhood, destroying its rays . . . placing in doubt the truth about God, who is love.” - Be Transformed, pg 88 You may ask, as I have, what can heal us collectively and individually from this primordial wound of confusion and disorder? Since the wound is rooted in distorted perceptions of the Father’s authority and our rebellion against his authority, the antidote must be the opposite: restoring our understanding of his authority and humbly submitting to that authority in our lives.  - Be Transformed, pg 88 Scripture for Lectio: “What God has joined together, no human being must separate.” -  Matthew 19:6 Books & Resources Mentioned in this episode: - Intimate Allies by Dan Allender - Be Devoted by  Dr. Bob Schuchts - Unveiled Couples Retreat Sponsor - Chews Life: At Chews Life, it is their mission to equip all Catholics with Rosaries for life. Chews Life believes that even the youngest Catholic can develop a devotion to the Rosary and come to know our Mother Mary. Their silicone Rosaries make this possible. Children discover through their senses, especially touch. Just as a baby knowingly caresses their mother’s face, so too their little hands will come to know the Rosary and cherish it. Chews Life also makes Rosaries for adults! Chews Life’s Rosaries are actually rosary bracelets, tha are designed to be with you all day and easily accessible. Each Rosary bracelet also features a “bookmark” crucifix charm so that if you don’t have time to get through a whole Rosary at once, you can use this charm to hold your place until you can continue your prayer. These and so much more are available at www.chewslife.com!
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        92S12 E10 - Lent Book Study Part 3: Communion and ConfirmationIn this episode, we continue with part three of our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. First, we discuss how Holy Communion heals the wound of abandonment, ponder what it means to allow the fullness of this Sacrament take root in our lives, and reflect on the beauty that Jesus will never leave us. Then, we move into how Confirmation heals the wound of powerlessness and share ways the Holy Spirit has inspired us to do things we never could do on our own. Hey friends! We know that Be Transformed is packed with incredible things, so we encourage you to not feel the need to rush. We want this to be a place where you can rest and be with the Holy Spirit. If you find yourself stuck on a chapter, we invite you to take the time you need and join us again when ready. May God bless you and bring you healing through His Sacraments! Heather’s One Thing- Restore the Glory Podcast Sister Miriam’s One Thing - March Madness Michelle’s One Thing - Corda Candles especially the St. Francis of Asissi scent (Poverello) Michelle’s Other One Thing - Hope’s Garden’s resources on the Song of Songs Discussion Questions: - What in my life and heart hinders the Sacrament of Holy Communion from fully transforming me? - What do you believe was present in the early Church community that is missing today in our communities? - When have I experienced the fruits of Confirmation in my life? - Where in my life do I need the Holy Spirit to overwhelm my fear? Journal Questions: - When and how have you experienced the pain of abandonment in your life? - How has Christian community either reinforced or healed those wounds? - What are the obstacles that prevent me from loving Him fully and receiving His Love fully? - When do I resist the embrace of the Lord? Quotes to Ponder: “Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him” - John 6:56 “Anointing is not an act, but rather a state or mode of being and behaving and, so to say, a whole style of living.” -  Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa (Be Transformed, pg 74) Scripture for Lectio: “I have the strength for everything through him who empowers me” (Phil 4:13). Sponsor - Live Liturgically: Live Liturgically helps Catholic families bring peace into their homes with products that bring order and intention. Their flagship product, the Liturgical Family Wall Planner, is a game-changer for families seeking to live with more purpose. Many families are using and LOVING the Wall Planner. Paulette, a planner user said, “An absolute must for organization in a Catholic way!” The planner includes: - A memorable quote from Sunday's Gospel across the top as a focal point for the week - Space for a Gratitude List, Prayer Intentions, and Meal Planning - Reminder of the liturgical week and color of the current Church season - Daily list of National Holidays and Catholic Feast Days - Colored circle to indicate the liturgical color of the day - Grocery List - To-Do List - Section to plan Sunday Mass time See what 3 months using this calendar will do for your family! Head over to LiveLiturgically.com and check it out. You can try your first planner for 50% off with the code AbidingTogether50.
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        93S12 E9 - Lent Book Study Part 2: Blessing and BaptismIn this episode, we continue with part two of our Lenten book study Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We discuss the power of God’s blessings and how curses block our ability to receive His blessings. We dive into the seven types of deadly wounds that distort our identity and how each Sacrament restores a specific wound. In particular, we discuss how Baptism heals the wound of rejection and share how we have allowed God to speak the truth in our own lives that we are His beloved daughters. If you find a tender place in your heart, remember, it isn’t because God wants to hurt you. It is because He wants to set you free. Hey friends! We know that Be Transformed is packed with incredible things, so we encourage you to not feel the need to rush. We want this to be a place where you can rest and be with the Holy Spirit. If you find yourself stuck on a chapter, we invite you to take the time you need and join us again when ready. May God bless you and bring you healing through His Sacraments! Heather’s One Thing - The Song Holy by Martin Smith Heather’s Other One Thing - Her Playlist - Only Jesus Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The National Eucharistic Revival and Congress. Sign up for the newsletter here. Learn more about the pilgrimage here. Register for the pilgrimage here. Get involved on social media: Facebook, Instagram, or YouTube. Sister Miriam’s Other One Thing - The Song -  Break Every Chain Michelle’s One Thing - Young Moms Discussion Questions: - Where in your life is the Lord inviting you to go to the roots? - Where in my life am I keeping the Lord at an arm’s length? - How is Jesus teaching you how to love and be loved? - What lies have you been identifying with in this season of my life? Journal Questions: - Where is my connection broken with the Father? - Where do I not trust the Lord? - Where in my heart do I earnestly need and desire the Father’s blessing? - Where in my life, my heart, and my story do I experience the most wounds and the most spiritual attack? - What do I believe about myself? What do I believe about the Lord? Quotes to Ponder: “The seven sacraments touch all the stages and all the important moments of Christian life: they give birth and increase, healing and mission to the Christian’s life of faith” (CCC, 1210). “From the very beginning, God blessed all living beings, especially man and woman” (CCC, 1080). This is why St. John Paul II concludes, “At the root of human sin is the lie which is a radical rejection of the truth contained in the word of the Father.”  - Be Transformed, Page 25 Baptism is a public blessing declaring that you and I are precious and unrepeatable gifts of the Father. By restoring our relationship with God, Baptism fundamentally heals the wounds of rejection that have plagued the human race since our fall from grace.  - Be Transformed, page 37 The goal of our spiritual life is to be transformed into the image of Christ so that we share in the divine intimacy that He enjoys with the Father and the Holy Spirit.  - Be Transformed, page 17 “Catholic theology can help us understand how a sacrament can be valid and legal but ‘unreleased’ . . . if its fruit remains bound or unused. . . . Sacraments are not magic rites that act mechanically, without people’s knowledge or collaboration. . . . The fruit of the sacrament depends wholly on divine grace, however this divine grace does not act without the ‘yes’—the consent and affirmation—of the person.” (Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa)  - Be Transformed, page 39 In the exercises, Ignatius identifies two opposing spirits that he says are always at work in our lives and in the world. He simply calls them the “good spirit” (which represents our hearts attuned to the Holy Spirit) and the “evil spirit” (which refers to our fallen human nature influenced by the father of lies and subject to the world’s influences).  - Be Transformed, page 46 Scripture for Lectio: “Behold, I make all things new.” (Revelation 21:5) Sponsor - Word of Life: Word of Life is a religious education curriculum created in partnership by the Augustine Institute and Ignatius Press to help Catholic schools and parishes meet the challenges and opportunities of proclaiming the Gospel. Word of Life uses four key themes to awaken an authentic Catholic identity and demonstrate how the truths of the faith speak to the human heart. Through activities, videos, and other digital resources, students and parents can interact with faith formation materials in the classroom and at home. 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        94S12 E8 - Lenten Study Part 1 - Be Transformed with Special Guest and Author Dr. Bob SchuchtsIn this episode, we begin our six-part Lenten series on the book Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. We welcome Dr. Bob, as our special guest, to introduce his book and set the stage for what you can expect in the following five weeks. He shares an overview of how the seven Sacraments heal our wounds, he breaks down the three-fold transformation process, and explains why the disposition of our heart is pivotal to being transformed by the Sacraments. Friends, we are excited to continue this journey of being transformed with you next week! See you then! Heather’s One Thing- Lenten Playlist:  Songs in the Desert Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Virtual Healing of the Whole Person Retreat on March 27-31 Michelle’s One Thing - White Chicken Chili (or try this Seafood Chili  or White Bean and Fish Chili for Fridays in Lent) Dr. Bob Schuchts’ One Thing - Rediscovering Our Lost Fullness by Andrew Comisky and the exciting news that the JPII Healing Center will have a new publishing house! Click here to check out Dr. Bob’s podcast Restore the Glory! Discussion Questions: - How have you been approaching the Sacraments? - Have you had an experience where Christ encountered you deeply in the Sacraments? Please share. - Where in my life do I observe how each of the Sacraments impact my identity and my relationships? - What fears, concerns, or intrigue do you have about this upcoming season of Lent and diving into the Sacraments? Journal Questions: - What am I seeking from Christ in the Sacraments this Lent? - How do I currently engage in the Sacramental life of the Church? - Where in my life do I need more humility? - How can I create more space for communion with others in my life, my home, my church, and my community? Quotes to Ponder: Celebrated worthily in faith, the sacraments confer the grace that they signify. They are efficacious because in them Christ himself is at work: it is he who baptizes, he who acts in his sacraments in order to communicate the grace that each sacrament signifies. The Father always hears the prayer of his Son's Church which, in the epiclesis of each sacrament, expresses her faith in the power of the Spirit. As fire transforms into itself everything it touches, so the Holy Spirit transforms into the divine life, whatever is subjected to his power.  - CCC# 1127 “The desire and work of the Spirit in the heart of the Church is that we may live the life of the risen Christ.” - CCC, 1099 The sacraments are God’s chosen remedy for healing our deadly wounds and infusing our souls with Christ’s resurrection life. - Be Transformed, pg xv In the words of St. John Paul II: “The Holy Spirit [working through the sacraments] . . . purifies from everything that disfigures man . . . , he heals even the deepest wounds of human existence.” - Be Transformed, pg xv But when inspired and empowered by the Holy Spirit, our personal mission becomes a dynamic participation in Jesus’ work of restoring all things to the Father. - CCC 850 Fr. Jacques Philippe expresses this common human condition of ours with great insight: “It is worth reflecting on the problem of pride. We are all born with a deep wound, experienced as a lack of being. We seek to compensate by constructing a self, different from our real self. This artificial self requires large amounts of energy to maintain it; being fragile, it needs protecting. Woe to anyone who contradicts it, threatens it, questions it, or inhibits its expansion. When the Gospel says we must ‘die to ourselves,’ it means this artificial ego, this constructed self, must die, so that the real self, given us by God, can emerge.” - Be Transformed, pg 2 Scripture for Lectio: “All of us, gazing with unveiled faces on the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory.” - 2 Corinthians 3:18 Sponsor - CORDA Candles: Draw closer to the saints and create a peaceful place of prayer with CORDA candles. Handcrafted by a husband-and-wife team, and made with clean coconut wax and a beautiful, modern design, these are saint candles like you’ve never seen, or smelled before! 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        95S12 E7 - Heart to Heart PrayerIn this episode, we dive into the power of prayer. Prayer is the language we use to talk to God, the Lover of our souls. Many times, it can be easy to approach prayer haphazardly, forgetting that we are meant for intimacy and speaking heart to heart with each Person of the Trinity. When we remember that prayer is really about two hearts connecting, our prayer can be transformed. Join us as we share about our prayer lives and how the different seasons of our lives have changed how we pray. Heather’s One Thing - Picture Bible Heather’s Other One Thing - Soaking Worship Instrumental Spotify Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Magnificat Magazine Michelle’s One Thing - Jesus and You, Women: Ignatian Retreat for Women under the guidance of Edith Stein  By Fr. Sergio M Fita Discussion Questions: - What holds you back from approaching the Lord in prayer from the heart? - What is your quickest avenue to get to the heart of God? - What obstacles are you experiencing in your prayer life? - How can you embrace your current season in life and its impact on your prayer life with greater freedom? Journal Questions: - How does the Lord call me to prayer uniquely? - Have I been approaching prayer as something on my to-do list? - What changes could I make to approach God with a more open heart? - How has my prayer life changed over the years? What does intimacy with God look like today? - Quotes to Ponder: Prayer is the life of the new heart. It ought to animate us at every moment. But we tend to forget Him who is our life and our all. This is why the Fathers of the spiritual life in the Deuteronomic and prophetic traditions insist that prayer is a remembrance of God often awakened by the memory of the heart "We must remember God more often than we draw breath." But we cannot pray "at all times" if we do not pray at specific times, consciously willing it. These are the special times of Christian prayer, both in intensity and duration. (CCC, 2697) Through his Word, God speaks to man. By words, mental or vocal, our prayer takes flesh. Yet it is most important that the heart should be present to him to whom we are speaking in prayer: "Whether or not our prayer is heard depends not on the number of words, but on the fervor of our souls.” (CCC, 2700) "Prayer is a surge of the heart, it is a simple look turned toward heaven, it is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both trial and joy." - St. Therese of Lisieux Scripture for Lectio: “Jesus was praying in a certain place and after He had finished, one of His disciples said to Him, Lord, teach us how to pray as John taught his disciples.” - Luke 11:1 Sponsor - House of Joppa: This week’s episode is sponsored by House of Joppa.  If you are looking for beautifully curated Catholic home décor, jewelry, art, rosaries, and other gifts, look no further than House of Joppa.  Each product is designed to draw you deeper into your faith and help you to fall more in love with Christ and His Church. Whether you are looking for something for yourself or a special gift for a friend, you will love House of Joppa.  Abiding Together listeners receive 15% off their purchase at checkout with discount code: ABIDE15.  Visit them online at https://www.houseofjoppa.com or on Instagram @houseofjoppa.
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        96S12 E6 - Who Do You Love?In this episode, we discuss how easy it is to settle for less than what God offers by clinging to earthly idols and loving other things more than Him. We share about some of our own idols and how turning to God instead has transformed our hearts. We admit how easy it is to accept less than the fullness of life in Jesus and turn to something or someone else in our sorrows. The truth is that Jesus is the only One who can truly satisfy us and bring real comfort in the broken places. Heather’s One Thing - As the Deer Heather’s Other One Thing -  “Return”  by Fr. John Burns Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Surrender Novena (can also be found on the Hallow app) Michelle’s One Thing - Amy Heyes Art Michelle’s Other One Thing - Comforter, Amanda Cook Michelle’s Other Other One Thing - Revival, Judah and the Lion Michelle’s Other Other Other One Thing - Blessed is She "Burn” Virtual Retreat Discussion Questions: - When you are in pain, who or what do you reach for first? - What good things in your life is the Lord calling you to reorder? - How might the Lord be inviting you to give up your idols in Lent? - What healing have I experienced in the past from loving Christ the most? Journal Questions: - Who/what do I love the most? - What am I placing my salvation in rather than God? - What idols is the Lord inviting me to give up? - What fears do I have about intimacy with the Lord? Quotes to Ponder: “It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.” ― C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory “Let yourself be vulnerable. Let your walls down, your carefully constructed fortresses breached, your fiercely guarded heart laid bare. Let your wounds be touched, your fears revealed, your deepest desires, damaged dreams, and most daring hopes unveiled before the Bridegroom, who has the power to redeem, restore, and resurrect them. Drop your independence and the idea—which you clutch so tightly—that you can do anything to protect and save yourself. And LET HIM LOVE YOU.” ― St Elizabeth Scripture for Lectio: “‘For I will take you out of the nations; I will gather you from all the countries and bring you back into your own land. I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your impurities and from all your idols. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.  And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.” ―Ezekiel 36:24 - 27 Sponsor - Be Love Revolution: Ten years ago, Be Love Revolution began with the intention of helping young women know the personal and transformative love of Jesus, and empowering them to be God’s love in the world today. Be Love Revolution (BLR), a dynamic Catholic ministry, desires to personally accompany young women on their journey of faith through one-on-one mentoring and discipleship. Be Love Revolution operates in cooperation with Renewal Ministries, a Catholic ministry of evangelization and renewal throughout the world. Be Love Revolution’s mission is three-fold: BE HIS: To help young women meet Jesus and grow in a life-long, personal relationship with Him. BE FREE: To help young women live freely and confidently in their identity as beloved daughters of God. BE LOVE: To equip and empower young women to be God’s love in the world today. Based in Ann Arbor Michigan, BLR leads weekly bible studies, Adoration Nights, small groups, retreats, service and mission opportunities, and collaborates with two high schools and four middle schools for ongoing evangelization and discipleship. Every August, Be Love Revolution hosts Pine Hills Girls Camp, where more than 200 middle schoolers and a staff of 100 young women from Michigan and beyond gather for a life-changing and unforgettable week. The Revolution of Love is on the move and there are BLR Chapters located in Traverse City, Michigan, London, Ontario, Lansing, Michigan, Leonardtown, Maryland, and Jacksonville, Florida. Learn more about the Be Love Revolution here Connect with Be Love Revolution on Instagram here Learn more about Pine Hills Camp here Connect with Pine Hills Girls Camp on Instagram here
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        97S12 E5 - Revolution of TendernessIn this episode, we reflect on how “humility and tenderness are not virtues of the weak but of the strong (Pope Francis)”. We discuss how we as Christians are called to cultivate a posture of humility and tenderness in a culture that is quick to criticize and condemn. We also chat about how often we forget that we belong to each other and end up picking sides, which results in more division and hostility than relationships that are filled with vulnerable love and truth. Today let us ask for the tenderness of God to be a gift that He gives us in our own hearts first, so that we can then give it to others. Heather’s One Thing- Lessons from the School of love - Debbie and Peter Herbeck Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Spicy Korean Style Gochujang Meatballs Michelle’s One Thing - The Olive Tree from Jackie Mulligan Discussion Questions: - What does it mean to receive the tender and compassionate love of the Lord? - What does it mean to be tender to other people? - What shuts down our sensitivity? - How is God inviting you to receive and give His Tenderness? Journal Questions: - How can I grow in tenderness towards myself? - How is God inviting me to show tenderness with the person I struggle with most? - Where are the places in my heart where I have been hurt and allowed a coldness to enter my heart? - Where in my life and my heart am I struggling to receive the Tenderness of God? Quotes to Ponder: I no longer need the armor, my softness is the strongest part of me. - Brianna Wiest The Heart of Christ is so great it wants to welcome us all into the revolution of tenderness. - Pope Francis Tenderness is not a weakness. Tenderness is the path for the strongest, most courageous men and women. It is the path of humility. The more powerful you are, the more your actions will have an impact on the people. the more responsible you are to act humbly. If you don’t, your power will ruin you and you will ruin the other. Connect your power with humility and tenderness. - Pope Francis Mary gave us a mother’s warmth, the warmth that shelters us amid troubles, the maternal warmth that keeps anything or anyone from extinguishing in the heart of the Church the revolution of tenderness inaugurated by her Son. Where there is a mother, there is tenderness. By her motherhood, Mary shows us that humility and tenderness are not virtues of the weak but of the strong. She teaches us that we do not have to mistreat others in order to feel important. - Pope Francis The lack of physical (and not virtual) contact is cauterizing our hearts (cf. Laudato Si’, 49) and making us lose the capacity for tenderness and wonder, for pity and compassion. Spiritual orphanhood makes us forget what it means to be children, grandchildren, parents, grandparents, friends, and believers. It makes us forget the importance of playing, of singing, of a smile, of rest, of gratitude. - Pope Francis Tenderness is the best way to touch the frailty within us. - Pope Francis Prayer: Saint Joseph, father in tenderness, Teach us to accept that we are loved precisely in that which is weakest in us. Grant that we may place no obstacle between our poverty and the greatness of God’s love. Stir in us the desire to approach to Reconciliation, That we may be forgiven and also made capable of loving tenderly our brothers and sisters in their poverty. Be close to those who have done wrong and are paying the price for it. Help them to find not only justice but also tenderness so that they can start again. And teach them that the first way to begin again Is to sincerely ask for forgiveness, to feel the Father’s caress. Amen. Scripture for Lectio: So he got up and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. - Luke 15:20 Sponsor - Rooted for Good: Rooted for Good hand makes premium all natural products that feel amazing and work really well! Enhance your skincare experience with Rooted and join the growing number of satisfied customers across the US and beyond who are switching to Rooted and going all-natural. On top of the amazing benefits and affordable pricing, using Rooted products makes a difference for others as well. Every time you choose our all natural premium products 10% of your purchase goes to help someone in need in a developing country! From Coffee Exfoliators & Sugar Scrubs to foaming Face Wash,  luxurious Bath Salts to Premium Therapeutic Grade Essential Oils and everything in between, make Rooted for Good your source for all natural healthy living. Rooted provides an option to choose all natural living that resonates with your Catholic values. See all of our amazing products and read the stories of the lives that are being blessed through Rooted purchases at RootedForGood.com.
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        98S12 E4 - Salt and Light: Live from SEEK 2023This week, we have a very special episode that was recorded live from the FOCUS SEEK 2023 Conference in St. Louis! Here we discussed the importance of surrendering to God the tender and wounded places of our soul. Just as salt can flavor a dish from the inside out, so must we allow God’s abundant love to transform our hearts. Only once we do this, can we be a light to others. This transformation can sometimes be a painful process. Many times, when we see the struggle ahead, we can be tempted to turn away from the good. But friends, pain is part of the process, and it makes us love the outcome even more. As you listen to today’s episode, ask yourself, “if you just said yes to God, what would your light look like if you let it shine?” Heather’s One Thing- Glass Canvas Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Michelle and Heather’s kids Michelle’s One Thing - Everyone at the SEEK conference and all our listeners Michelle’s Other One Thing - the FOCUS staff Michelle’s Other Other One Thing - Pope Benedict XVI Michelle’s Other Other Other One Thing - College Football (especially SEC University of Georgia) Discussion Questions: - What is the Lord calling you to in this season? - How are you responding to the Lord’s calling in your life? - How has Christ conquered you with Love? How is He conquering you with Love now? - What do you think Jesus believes about you in your weaknesses? Journal Questions: - Where in my life am I choosing lukewarmness or mediocrity over abundant life? - How do you experience your own weaknesses? - What do you believe about yourself in your own weaknesses? - What do you think Jesus believes about you in your weaknesses? - How do you experience other people’s weaknesses? Quotes to Ponder: “Each of you has a personal vocation which He has given you for your own joy and sanctity. When a person is conquered by the fire of His gaze, no sacrifice seems too great to follow Him and give Him the best of ourselves. This is what the saints have always done, spreading the light of the Lord ... and transforming the world into a welcoming home for everyone.” ― Pope Benedict XVI “Fear not; rise, He is calling you.” ― Mark 10:49 “I have called you by name & you are mine.” ― Isaiah 43:1 “God came into the world to reawaken the thirst for great things in us.” ― Pope Benedict XVI “Holiness never goes out of fashion.” ― Pope Benedict XVI Scripture for Lectio: “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:13-16) Sponsor - Walking with Purpose: Are you looking for an opportunity to dive deeper into Scripture? Do you long for the wisdom of Christ as you navigate the messages of today’s culture? Rooted and Radiant is the newest Bible study from Walking with Purpose, a Catholic women’s ministry whose mission is to help women and girls encounter Jesus through Scripture. Rooted and Radiant is written for any woman who wants to live her life grounded in Jesus Christ. In this study, you will learn the book of Colossians verse by verse and understand the challenges that faced the Colossians, which are remarkably similar to our own challenges today. Learn how to abide in the wisdom of Christ and encounter the God of clarity and peace. AT podcast listeners can receive 15% your Rooted and Radiant study - available in both paperback and e-book format - with the code ABIDING2023 (thru 3/1/2023).
        Abiding Together56 min
        99S12 E3 - Made for FreedomIn this episode, we discuss freedom in Christ. We all have places in our lives where the enemy has whispered a lie. A lie that tells us we will never escape the bondage of our sins. That we will always be slaves to something. But these whispers are just that - a lie. We are not made to be filled with weakness! We are made to live in freedom. Christ came to earth to break the chains of sin and death. He has created a pathway for us to live in freedom. Friends, what if the place of your greatest pain could become the place of your greatest holiness? Join us as we discuss how we are made for freedom. Heather’s One Thing- Live in the Prayer Room by Jeremy Riddle Michelle’s One Thing - Soul of Shame, Dr. Curt Thompson Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Double Chocolate Walnut Biscotti Recipe Discussion Questions: - What would it look like for me to be free? - Is it more comfortable to live in my chains or pursue freedom? - When have I experienced the fruit of inner healing in the past? - What is a place of bondage in my life that the Lord is inviting me into greater freedom? Journal Questions: - Where would I experience more freedom in my heart and in my life if I truly believed the power of the Resurrection lived in me? - How has the Lord called me out of bondage and into freedom in the past? - What are the places of self hatred in my heart? How can I receive and accept the Lord’s tenderness there? Quotes to Ponder: "If you want to hold people in chains, one must first convince them that they are meant to be bound." // from the movie “Woman King” “As long as this attachment remains, it is impossible to make progress in perfection, even though the imperfection be very small. It makes little difference whether a bird is tied by a thin thread or by a cord. Even if it is tied by a thread, the bird will be held bound… it will be impeded from flying as long as it does not break the thread.”  // St John of the Cross, Ascent of Mt. Carmel, Book One, 11.4. Scripture for Lectio: “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” (Galatians 5:1) Sponsor - House of Joppa: This week’s episode is sponsored by House of Joppa.  If you are looking for beautifully curated Catholic home décor, jewelry, art, rosaries, and other gifts, look no further than House of Joppa.  Each product is designed to draw you deeper into your faith and help you to fall more in love with Christ and His Church. Whether you are looking for something for yourself or a special gift for a friend, you will love House of Joppa. Abiding Together listeners receive 15% off their purchase at checkout with discount code: ABIDE15.  Visit them online at https://www.houseofjoppa.com or on Instagram @houseofjoppa.
        Abiding Together46 min
        100S12 E2 - Word of the YearIn this episode, we continue our annual tradition, sharing our Word of the Year! Each year we each ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share our words for 2023 and how our words of the year have been connected over time. At the end of the episode, we also share an exciting announcement about our upcoming Lenten Book Study and insights into the theme for Season 12 of the podcast! Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Belovedness by Sarah Kroger Heather’s One Thing- Only Jesus Playlist Michelle’s One Thing - Amanda Cook Edens Michelle’s Other One Thing - Placemakers: Cultivating Places of Comfort, Beauty, and Peace - Christie Purifoy Discussion Questions: - What stood out to you from this week’s episode? - Which podcast host’s “word” resonated most with you and why? - After prayer and reflection, what’s your word of the year? - How can you see your spiritual progress through the evolution of your words of the year over the past few years? How have these words or themes built upon each other? - If you have never done word of the year and want to, what ways can you ask God what it is? Journal Questions: - How was God present to you in your word for 2022? - Take some time to reflect on what God desires to reveal to you as your word of the year. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal this to you. Make sure to write it down and memorialize it in a way that will keep it at the forefront of your mind throughout the year. - What is one change you can make in the coming year to be more open to the will of God? - What themes has God been using as an opportunity to encounter Him? - Are there specific scriptures, saints, or quotes that will serve as a guide or reminder of your word during the year? Quotes to Ponder: Trust makes us willing to be what God wants us to be, however great or however little that may prove. Trust accepts God as illimitable Love.” // Caryll Houselander, “No half-heartedness and no worldly fear must turn us aside from following the light unflinchingly.” // J. R. R. Tolkien “He who climbs never stops going from beginning to beginning, through beginnings that have no end. He never stops desiring what he already knows.” // Saint Gregory of Nissa “We can only learn to know ourselves and do what we can, namely, surrender our will and fulfill God’s will in us.” // Saint Teresa of Avila Scripture for Lectio: “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” (Hebrews 12:1-3) Announcements: We are excited to announce our Lenten Book study!! This year, we will be reading Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. Through the guide of this book, we will discuss how the Sacraments can heal and transform your relationship with Jesus Christ. Supplies are limited so we recommend you order your copy of the book as soon as possible. Ave Maria Press is in the process ordering more and by purchasing early, you can help them estimate how many are needed. Ave Maria Press has graciously provided us a discount code if you order the book through their website. Use the code TRANSFORM at checkout to receive 25% off not only Be Transformed, but your entire order (through 3.31.23 with some exclusions)! You can also order the book through Amazon using our affiliate link. We do receive a small commission if you use our Amazon link. Anything we receive is used to help support our ministry. Click here for Amazon in the US. Sponsor - Pink Salt Riot: This year we are once again excited to partner with Pink Salt Riot to help you keep your word of the year close to your heart for 2023. In addition to brand new, updated versions of all of their word of the year necklaces and bracelets they have offered in the past, this year they are also offering an engraved cherry wood word of the year desk sign and a word of the year journal with prompts for each month throughout the year to help you walk even more intentionally with your word. All Pink Salt Riot word of the year products are custom made and engraved in their studio in Oklahoma. You can get 15% off your ENTIRE order at Pink Salt Riot with the coupon code AT15 at checkout through March 15, 2023 at pinksaltriot.com.
        Abiding Together38 min